So now what with Scorpio man

Well lil Scorpio man and I now are merely tolerating one anothers presence at work.

This all occured on a social night out and I offered him a place to stay, not to sleep with him of course and he took it the wrong way, I'm sure as foot not going to explain my intentions on the night when it was merely an offer not to travel un-safely back to his place. BUT on the night he grabbed me and hugged me so tightly, whats that shyte about—

I don't feel I need to offer an explanation to this guy, I'm done talking.

We are not talking to each other, can't look each other in the eye either.

I'll give him all the space he needs as I need my space, I've already cleared my head and have let this wash over me.

So any insight, or is this now done with Scorp?

I'm sorry, but I didn't understand anything you wrote. Were you dating before? Were you interested in him? Was he interested in you? When you offered the space to crash what did you say exactly? Why is there a problem now? What are you hoping to accomplish with him? You don't write in complete sentences....just saying.

All sorry Phoenix have posted here before about this Scop guy. He's a Scorp, I'm a Libra, we work together, there is 7yrs age gap between us and we work at the same place.

I know there is something between us but now there isn't I don't think after our night out which is explained above.

All I said to him was there's a place for you to crash if you don't want to travel home, now he's acting like I put the hard word on him or something. BUT is was after I offered the bed and he took a step back then grabbed me and hugged me very tightly, thats the part I don't understand.

I'm hoping to accomplish non bullshty games which is what we have got at the moment going on.

You've been toying with this guy since April, giving him innuendos and nothing concrete.

Now you make another suggestion, and then become offended when he misinterprets you.

How is he suppose to know what you mean, when alls you do is drop hints and then giggle because he looks at you?


You could always try being real and clearly speaking your mind if you want to get points across to him ... but, I've an inkling that you'd rather continue to play the suggestion game with him, to see what he does.



If you play, expect to get burnt .. if you fail to realize that fire is involved with playing .. then you're really 12 years pretending to be an experienced adult.