Struggling scorp

I don't know what's going and and am looking for some insight, lately I've been really moody and I don't know why but Im constantly battling how mean I am to everyone around me. I can't help but be snappy and not want to talk them and act really rude. My emotions go from high to low to really low and I don't know why? I'm not menstruating or anything but maybe there's some astrological reason I'm suddenly acting this way? I've only acted like this like years ago going through teen angst or what not but now I honestly can't seem to stop, when someone ask me to do something i get angry because I don't want to be told what to do, I get angry so much that I don't speak to the person , when my family ask me anything like what's going on in a show or where something is I get so annoyed and don't say a thing, when someone calls me (out loud )I ignore them, some days in school il just be silent and not talk to my friends anyone have any idea what's going on?

Posted by Sugarprincess1
I don't know what's going and and am looking for some insight, lately I've been really moody and I don't know why but Im constantly battling how mean I am to everyone around me. I can't help but be snappy and not want to talk them and act really rude. My emotions go from high to low to really low and I don't know why? I'm not menstruating or anything but maybe there's some astrological reason I'm suddenly acting this way? I've only acted like this like years ago going through teen angst or what not but now I honestly can't seem to stop, when someone ask me to do something i get angry because I don't want to be told what to do, I get angry so much that I don't speak to the person , when my family ask me anything like what's going on in a show or where something is I get so annoyed and don't say a thing, when someone calls me (out loud )I ignore them, some days in school il just be silent and not talk to my friends anyone have any idea what's going on?

Refresh your memory:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/confused-scorpio-on-capri-man-h-4545408/
I'm still offering that sweater to help warm you up a bit. You didn't want to hear what we had to say in your other thread, now you want us to feel sorry for you? um...nope.😢

Your problems don't stem from astrological reasons either...

Okay.

I just read the other thread, wow Letitb, do have like mars in sag or something?
😉

Posted by Sugarprincess1
Okay.

There's that chilly response again, because I'm not offering a response you feel entitled to.

..and there's that word again.."entitled".

I didn't say anything except okay, as in okay thanks for he response nothing else.

Posted by Sugarprincess1
I didn't say anything except okay, as in okay thanks for he response nothing else.

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Only you know what's bothering you. The more you keep it in the less control you are going to have over your emotions.

I don't know what it is with my emotions , and it's just scaring me I'm not looking for sympathy I just wanted to let part of it out, I've been having bad dreams for two weeks now and the one I had today made me really want to talk about it that's all. The reason I'm now responding not coldly is because my emotions just poured out while in the girls bathroom at lunch and I can't seem to stop crying or what ever reason I don't know but thank you for your response letitb I didn't just disregard it I read and reread it over and over and did take it in

Well, since there are issues at play you haven't shared (nor do I expect you too being a Scorp and all), you're not going to get an answer here that will fully address your questions/issues. I would suggest someone you can talk to honestly about what you're feeling. The person shouldn't be a buddy that's going to coddle you and give you *hi fives* for poor behaviour either. Someone that challenges you and calls you on some stuff. Another option is a journal, but this would require a lot of insight and reflection on your part.

Whether or not this is related to astrology is not really an answer; that's just an excuse for poor behaviour. You are making a conscious decision every time you react negatively towards the people around you. Figure out why and work on it.

Do you suffer from bi-polar disorder, borderline personality disorder?

I tried really hard to follow all that thread linked above but what I was
detecting was a sense of head games. Either you are intentionally playing these
games or you are afflicted in some way, yourself. That is you suffering from
indecisiveness. Perhaps a fear of commitment, perhaps a fear of failure in the relationship.
Then that part of another woman. Then, I was noticing a kind of dual nice/mean attitude toward
others here on this forum who offered their thoughts and opinions. It's almost as if
you have a split personality. Which is why I inquired with content of my opening sentence.

As others have noted, you have some issues you need to address before you can hope to begin
a relationship that can stand a chance in the long term.
In the meantime, it's ok to be single. And while single, it's best to examine yourself and
seek to discover what could be some of the underlying causes of your behavior so that
you can address the root of the matter. It may help for you to seek professional help.
Anyway.

Treat others the way you want to be treated. Keep that in mind, always.

Mr firebird thank you so much for even mentioning what dpd was, I had no Idea and now I honestly believe that's what's wrong with me, all the things associated with that I have done and don't know why. Now I honestly feel like there's no hope for me or anything and wish it was just being moody , but it all makes sense. I read this woman's blog about people with dpd and pretty much thought the worst of myself since last night and this morning and I also feel like a crazy person now. But thank you though so glad for the insight and now I really know what's at the heart of my troubles

Posted by Sugarprincess1
Mr firebird thank you so much for even mentioning what dpd was, I had no Idea and now I honestly believe that's what's wrong with me, all the things associated with that I have done and don't know why. Now I honestly feel like there's no hope for me or anything and wish it was just being moody , but it all makes sense. I read this woman's blog about people with dpd and pretty much thought the worst of myself since last night and this morning and I also feel like a crazy person now. But thank you though so glad for the insight and now I really know what's at the heart of my troubles

How about going to a doctor and really finding out?

Yeah il need to talk to my mom about seeing a doctor about it

Posted by Sugarprincess1
Mr firebird thank you so much for even mentioning what dpd was, I had no Idea and now I honestly believe that's what's wrong with me, all the things associated with that I have done and don't know why. Now I honestly feel like there's no hope for me or anything and wish it was just being moody , but it all makes sense. I read this woman's blog about people with dpd and pretty much thought the worst of myself since last night and this morning and I also feel like a crazy person now. But thank you though so glad for the insight and now I really know what's at the heart of my troubles

In reading the link below, I noted a symptom of "self-defeat(ism)" being listed and noted your
comment, above "there's no hope for me". No, you DO have hope.
Visit the doctor, be honest and forthright in all your answers. Doing so, will help him/her ascertain
the correct diagnosis. Ask him/her IF there are ways you can deal with the problem without prescription, IF he/she so finds a prescription is necessary. -
That is, try to seek therapy that avoids any medication IF at all possible. The reason for this is because medication can be addictive and possibly dangerous - making a bad situation worse. We don't want that.
Remember that you will have to follow his/her instructions.
I believe you want to visit a "Psychologist" rather than a "Psychiatrist" if the Psychologist
refers you to psychiatrist, then he/she will do so. So.... I would think the Psychologist is
the one you want to see. Your primary care professional can make the referral for you.

Review link also consider reading the associated disorders listed in the side-bar and "see also" list.
Link Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD)

Hang in there and best wishes
🙂

I've know a few Scorpio females that have extreme emotions.

Anger is used as a shell to protect their sensitive emotions.

I think it's a phase of sorts and nothing to worry about.

Keep yourself busy, go jogging, gym etc. it will wear off those extra aggression.

i think its the venus retrograde i been really moody as well. My gansta side been wantin to come out, I have been snapping on anybody who says something I dont agree with as well. The moodswings have everybody thinkin im pregnant lol its funny tho cause I even noticed how I have been behaving lately. I usually dont cry but have been a wreck lately

Silent ghost yeah after the week when I wrote this I got back on my jogging track and focused on that for a while and got my good mood back and was okay, I really did think it was some kind of phase but didn't know what but I also think my indecisiveness stems off of somewhere so I have to find out and really ask a psychologist (thanks at mrfirebird) and Venus retrograde?? Il have to search that up but I'm in a stable and not edgy mood today, I kind of just shook off what ever was bothering me yesterday and am feeling positive and happy c:

That's it huh..

Just re divert those feelings else where, something physical is always good.

A good long jog or gym would do wonders.

Dear Sugarprincess1

Take some Vitamin B complex supplement and it will sort-out your emotional swings, especially the crying. It's far less expensive than a lawyer. lol