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Testing...testing...1..2..3!
is this the same crab that made the death threat before?
well 'death threat' is a little harsh for a start but yeah, it's the same guy.
no, i'm not gonna 'punish' him ffs LOL!!! he's a MAN! i just wanted him to talk about his real reasons for being so vehement about her not staying with him. i get the impression with him that i never get the full story. he's got a scorp moon and so he's uber secretive like that which i find un-nerving but therein lies the reasons why i won't commit emotionally and he knows it. we talk about everything...no holds barred....BUT he only tells me stuff if i ask and sometimes i feel he holds things back cos he doesn't want to piss me off.
he probs wouldn't mind if i punished him in the bedroom 😛
no, i'm not gonna 'punish' him ffs LOL!!! he's a MAN! i just wanted him to talk about his real reasons for being so vehement about her not staying with him. i get the impression with him that i never get the full story. he's got a scorp moon and so he's uber secretive like that which i find un-nerving but therein lies the reasons why i won't commit emotionally and he knows it. we talk about everything...no holds barred....BUT he only tells me stuff if i ask and sometimes i feel he holds things back cos he doesn't want to piss me off.
he probs wouldn't mind if i punished him in the bedroom 😛
when he said you're going to have to look over your shoulder for the rest of your life, was that a friendly way of saying, hey when i see you im going to tap you on the shoulder, ok.
Posted by ArthemisPosted by R1g0rM0rT1s
well 'death threat' is a little harsh for a start but yeah, it's the same guy.
no, i'm not gonna 'punish' him ffs LOL!!! he's a MAN! i just wanted him to talk about his real reasons for being so vehement about her not staying with him. i get the impression with him that i never get the full story. he's got a scorp moon and so he's uber secretive like that which i find un-nerving but therein lies the reasons why i won't commit emotionally and he knows it. we talk about everything...no holds barred....BUT he only tells me stuff if i ask and sometimes i feel he holds things back cos he doesn't want to piss me off.
he probs wouldn't mind if i punished him in the bedroom 😛
Cancer Sun Scorp moon here, if he doesnt want to talk about it is because he doesn't think this will matter to your relationship with him. The fact that he doesn't want her there is just the fact that he's with you. So why bring trouble to your relationship?
You already said that you wouldn't accept him staying with her in the same house right? So what's the point of your question?
If f he had accept her there, you would be mad and questioning why would he does such thing. However, he said no to her and there you are questioning why?
Aren't you overlooking to much into things that really doesn't matter?
I think you should be happy to know that he respect you. Try not to read to much where there is nothing to read.
Aren't you being your own enemy?
Just a thought.click to expand
he doesn't always tell me everything and it's not always cos he doesn't think it matters to our relationship. for example, he paid a bill on my behalf without telling me and i really don't like being paid for so he anticipated i would be pissed with him....he also worked with a mutual friend recently who i had a bit of a thing for and deliberately didn't tell me cos he avoids all mention of this man's name. i know he's 'had a word' with some men behind my back suggesting that they're flirting with me....apparently he almost had a fight in the bar cos of it....the barmaid told me.
it's the selective honesty i don't like. smacks of manipulation.
clueless....i deffo took it as a threat of something but not that he'd track me down and kill me.
Posted by ArthemisPosted by R1g0rM0rT1s
well 'death threat' is a little harsh for a start but yeah, it's the same guy.
no, i'm not gonna 'punish' him ffs LOL!!! he's a MAN! i just wanted him to talk about his real reasons for being so vehement about her not staying with him. i get the impression with him that i never get the full story. he's got a scorp moon and so he's uber secretive like that which i find un-nerving but therein lies the reasons why i won't commit emotionally and he knows it. we talk about everything...no holds barred....BUT he only tells me stuff if i ask and sometimes i feel he holds things back cos he doesn't want to piss me off.
he probs wouldn't mind if i punished him in the bedroom 😛
Cancer Sun Scorp moon here, if he doesnt want to talk about it is because he doesn't think this will matter to your relationship with him. The fact that he doesn't want her there is just the fact that he's with you. So why bring trouble to your relationship?
You already said that you wouldn't accept him staying with her in the same house right? So what's the point of your question?
If f he had accept her there, you would be mad and questioning why would he does such thing. However, he said no to her and there you are questioning why?
Aren't you overlooking to much into things that really doesn't matter?
I think you should be happy to know that he respect you. Try not to read to much where there is nothing to read.
Aren't you being your own enemy?
Just a thought.click to expand
what are you talking about respecting her you dumbbell, i just pointed out his threat against
R1g0rM0rT1s. you mean possessive
I'm having one hell of a time posting today.
In all fairness, are you 100% honest with him about everything, too? And, are you sure you really want to be with him? This guy sounds like he's got more baggage than an airport. You mentioned he had some health issues and deals with them with alcohol instead of medication. I don't think the health issues are a problem if they're being dealt with in a productive manner, but he doesn't seem to be from I've read. My humble two cents, too... and I've found I'm a moth to a flame for the mentally unstable personally..if a lady won't spend all my money, fuck all my friends, or have complete emotional breakdowns in public, I'm just not attracted. go figure 😛
In all fairness, are you 100% honest with him about everything, too? And, are you sure you really want to be with him? This guy sounds like he's got more baggage than an airport. You mentioned he had some health issues and deals with them with alcohol instead of medication. I don't think the health issues are a problem if they're being dealt with in a productive manner, but he doesn't seem to be from I've read. My humble two cents, too... and I've found I'm a moth to a flame for the mentally unstable personally..if a lady won't spend all my money, fuck all my friends, or have complete emotional breakdowns in public, I'm just not attracted. go figure 😛
Posted by ArthemisPosted by HouseCleaningPosted by ArthemisPosted by R1g0rM0rT1s
well 'death threat' is a little harsh for a start but yeah, it's the same guy.
no, i'm not gonna 'punish' him ffs LOL!!! he's a MAN! i just wanted him to talk about his real reasons for being so vehement about her not staying with him. i get the impression with him that i never get the full story. he's got a scorp moon and so he's uber secretive like that which i find un-nerving but therein lies the reasons why i won't commit emotionally and he knows it. we talk about everything...no holds barred....BUT he only tells me stuff if i ask and sometimes i feel he holds things back cos he doesn't want to piss me off.
he probs wouldn't mind if i punished him in the bedroom 😛
Cancer Sun Scorp moon here, if he doesnt want to talk about it is because he doesn't think this will matter to your relationship with him. The fact that he doesn't want her there is just the fact that he's with you. So why bring trouble to your relationship?
You already said that you wouldn't accept him staying with her in the same house right? So what's the point of your question?
If f he had accept her there, you would be mad and questioning why would he does such thing. However, he said no to her and there you are questioning why?
Aren't you overlooking to much into things that really doesn't matter?
I think you should be happy to know that he respect you. Try not to read to much where there is nothing to read.
Aren't you being your own enemy?
Just a thought.
what are you talking about respecting her you dumbbell, i just pointed out his threat against
R1g0rM0rT1s. you mean possessive
Are you mad dumb A $ $ ?
I'm not talking to you.
Go clean your house. I based my answer in her post to her not to you.click to expand
you seem mad i poked a hole in your theory and you're still not making sense. you based your theory or post upon the guy, the threat was also made by the same guy. you truly are a dumbbell
Aww this reminded me of something I read in an article about Scorpios once.
"Here is a typical scenario. We might call it the Othello syndrome.
SCORPIO WOMAN: Where were you tonight? You said you'd be back at eight. It's midnight. (This is invariably said in an accusing tone of voice, making it perfectly clear that whatever explanation is offered, only one will be believed.)
AIR MAN: Sorry, dear. I had a frenetic day at the office. Then the car broke down, and I spent two hours trying to fix a leaking radiator. It's just been one of those days. (A note of defence creeps in. Resentment about being mistrusted. Preparation for becoming cagey if pressed.)
SCORPIO WOMAN: (Silence. The atmosphere becomes visibly chilly. Icicles form around the dinner dishes. When he tries to touch her affectionately, she recoils. She is thinking to herself: he's cheating on me. Bastards, they all do it in the end. I'll be damned if I'll let him use me like that. Right. No sex for a month.)
AIR MAN: What's wrong, dear? I told you, I couldn't help it.
SCORPIO WOMAN: Nothing's wrong, dear. (Stony glare. She imagines he knows she knows, and is trying to make him feel suitably ashamed. He hasn't the vaguest idea what is running through her mind.)"
Though considering it's a crab your dealing with, it's not all that simple. Crabs can be very manipulative and that's something you need to look out for because they are the best actors and because of their great sense of intuition, know exactly how to act to get under your skin. So I reckon whatever he says, he knows what the effect will be.
Here's the link to the site by the way. they've got some REALLY interesting info. Have a look
http://songsdomain.tripod.com/zodiac/index.html
"Here is a typical scenario. We might call it the Othello syndrome.
SCORPIO WOMAN: Where were you tonight? You said you'd be back at eight. It's midnight. (This is invariably said in an accusing tone of voice, making it perfectly clear that whatever explanation is offered, only one will be believed.)
AIR MAN: Sorry, dear. I had a frenetic day at the office. Then the car broke down, and I spent two hours trying to fix a leaking radiator. It's just been one of those days. (A note of defence creeps in. Resentment about being mistrusted. Preparation for becoming cagey if pressed.)
SCORPIO WOMAN: (Silence. The atmosphere becomes visibly chilly. Icicles form around the dinner dishes. When he tries to touch her affectionately, she recoils. She is thinking to herself: he's cheating on me. Bastards, they all do it in the end. I'll be damned if I'll let him use me like that. Right. No sex for a month.)
AIR MAN: What's wrong, dear? I told you, I couldn't help it.
SCORPIO WOMAN: Nothing's wrong, dear. (Stony glare. She imagines he knows she knows, and is trying to make him feel suitably ashamed. He hasn't the vaguest idea what is running through her mind.)"
Though considering it's a crab your dealing with, it's not all that simple. Crabs can be very manipulative and that's something you need to look out for because they are the best actors and because of their great sense of intuition, know exactly how to act to get under your skin. So I reckon whatever he says, he knows what the effect will be.
Here's the link to the site by the way. they've got some REALLY interesting info. Have a look
http://songsdomain.tripod.com/zodiac/index.html
Posted by silvermoon
Aww this reminded me of something I read in an article about Scorpios once.
"Here is a typical scenario. We might call it the Othello syndrome.
SCORPIO WOMAN: Where were you tonight? You said you'd be back at eight. It's midnight. (This is invariably said in an accusing tone of voice, making it perfectly clear that whatever explanation is offered, only one will be believed.)
AIR MAN: Sorry, dear. I had a frenetic day at the office. Then the car broke down, and I spent two hours trying to fix a leaking radiator. It's just been one of those days. (A note of defence creeps in. Resentment about being mistrusted. Preparation for becoming cagey if pressed.)
SCORPIO WOMAN: (Silence. The atmosphere becomes visibly chilly. Icicles form around the dinner dishes. When he tries to touch her affectionately, she recoils. She is thinking to herself: he's cheating on me. Bastards, they all do it in the end. I'll be damned if I'll let him use me like that. Right. No sex for a month.)
AIR MAN: What's wrong, dear? I told you, I couldn't help it.
SCORPIO WOMAN: Nothing's wrong, dear. (Stony glare. She imagines he knows she knows, and is trying to make him feel suitably ashamed. He hasn't the vaguest idea what is running through her mind.)"
Though considering it's a crab your dealing with, it's not all that simple. Crabs can be very manipulative and that's something you need to look out for because they are the best actors and because of their great sense of intuition, know exactly how to act to get under your skin. So I reckon whatever he says, he knows what the effect will be.
Here's the link to the site by the way. they've got some REALLY interesting info. Have a look
http://songsdomain.tripod.com/zodiac/index.html
the othello syndrome scenario would work if you reverse the roles of the man and woman and not dismiss his actions as a crab
Posted by R1g0rM0rT1sPosted by Purrr
Please don't have him come to your house and drag the window cleaner into it. It's seriously a terrible and dangerous idea.
oh yeah...i cancelled the window cleaner this morning. i'd decided i was gonna tell the crab i'd booked him but ran out of time before he was due to come and clean the windows. when i called to cancel, i said i would have them done some time soon and i would let him know. he said...'our secret yeah?' and i said 'no' cos i think it's just ridiculous to make something out of nothing and if the crab found out after the event, it doesn't look great does it! i would go ballistic if i caught someone out lying to me.
so i will have to clean my own windows now 😢click to expand
me n crabby had an interesting talk last night. i was telling him how up himself he is in that he thinks he is right about everything and how he's constantly telling me the best way to do stuff. he said he thinks he's right about everything cos he IS without any doubt whatsoever. i said that i wouldn't mind so much but he just goes on and on sometimes about the same thing. he said he has to cos i just don't listen (my ears stop working if i'm being told what to do).
so i asked him if he was a control freak cos he wants to have everything done his way. he said.....'well it's definitely my way or the highway but i wouldn't try and control you. you can do what you like when you like but i just want you to know there's a better way to do things.'
so he's a sneaky manipulator. i suggested that to him and he refused to answer. he's got this look he gives me when i know i've hit the nail on the head but he won't answer.
so i asked him if he was a control freak cos he wants to have everything done his way. he said.....'well it's definitely my way or the highway but i wouldn't try and control you. you can do what you like when you like but i just want you to know there's a better way to do things.'
so he's a sneaky manipulator. i suggested that to him and he refused to answer. he's got this look he gives me when i know i've hit the nail on the head but he won't answer.
Posted by Stinger Baby
maaaaaaan FUCK cancers lolol.
i would thoroughly recommend it actually. they're good at it 😛
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he said he point blank refused and that he'd suggested he stay with a woman he knows who could use the cash for renting out her spare room for a few days.
i wanted to know why he absolutely didn't want her staying with him....what his reasons were. was it cos he just couldn't trust himself? could SHE not be trusted? are there still residue feelings on his side? i know there are for her even though she left him.
so i asked him what the problem was with her staying with him and he freaked out at me! he suggested that the fact i was even asking showed i didn't really give a crap either way. i corrected him cos of course i would chop his bollocks off if he had his ex staying over but that wasn't the goddamn point!!
but my reasons for not having my ex staying with me are cos i wouldn't be able to trust HIM....so it seems the reverse is true for the crab and i think i'm right in believing he can't trust himself with her, lol!!
i said that to him and when he was spluttering his reasons for not wanting her there he said 'well what would happen if i was drunk and she got in my bed in the night.........'
i rest my case. this has my spidey senses tingling for sure. he protests too much when it comes to telling me how he's done with her. i'm not mad at him but i have made a mental note.