The Scorpio Man

So after being confused by the new scorp I decided to read up on my male counterpart, and boy are they different then us scorp females. I just can't figure them out! As with all signs, I have found there are always exceptions to the generalizations. Lately there have been a lot of women confused about the scorp males including myself so I'll share this funny little thing I found on them. It kind of rings true from what I've seen so far:

Bonnie and Clyde. Sid and Nancy. Brangelina. The Scorpio man is looking for an iconic relationship, a hall of fame soulmate story—and he refuses to settle for less. He may give his body, even his name or DNA. But until he finds his mythic other half, the person who makes him look and feel like a god, he??ll never give his soul.

The Scorpio man needs to be part of a power couple. He needs a trophy wife and a soulmate in one. Here's his idea of nirvana: he's the king of his empire, and you??re the queen of yours, and together, you??re the envy of the world. It's rumored that Scorpio P. Diddy will never get over Jennifer Lopez—even the model who mothered his children can't keep him faithful.

Although he's a classic family man, Scorpio isn't overly traditional about marriage. In many ways, he's a feminist here. He loves a powerful woman with her own life, money, career and interests—and he won't try to change you once you get married. He doesn't mind if you keep your own last name, or even out-earn him, as long as you keep your salaries private. He??ll gladly pick the kids up from school, make dinner and scrub the bathroom with a toothbrush if it means he can be left alone to pursue his passions.

When it comes to his home and family, the Scorpio man demands creative control. Protective and possessive, he??ll set up a utopian family structure under his tight supervision, even home schooling his kids. He wants everything he does to be the —ultimate—??and molds his family according to his uncompromising vision. Scorpio rules the reproductive system, making him a natural father. He longs for a close-knit family filled with love and open communication, and he??ll do what it takes to get that.

ehind every Scorpio man??s relationship style is??_his mom. He has a complicated, love/hate relationship with his mother that can border on Oedipal. Cutting the cord isn't easy for him, and his resulting behavior pattern can be tricky to navigate. He fears that every woman wants to —engulf?? him, yet he constantly creates situations where he needs to be mothered by his mate. You may have to endure a —come-here-now-go-away?? drama until he realizes you??re not trying to control him. He??ll need to take baby steps to let you in.

Scorpio is the sign of deep bonding and extreme detachment, making him a bit schizophrenic about intimacy. Closeness frightens him, because deep down, he fears separation. Abandonment issues? He's got —em for days. While he longs to merge souls with you, another part of him is terrified to lose control. He feels pain at a deeper level than any other sign, and breakups can haunt him for decades. To protect himself, he??ll try to keep some sense of —space?? in the relationship—having a long-distance relationship, working late, or keeping his own apartment. If you push him to take a step before he's ready, he??ll draw back. This could go on for years until he feels —ready?? (read: safe enough) to come a centimeter closer.

The Scorpio man needs space, but he also needs you to lay down limits. Don't give him an all-access pass to your life (are you listening, Sagittarius, Leo and Gemini ladies?). He needs an edge of mystery, some part of you that he??ll never figure out. Dancing this fine line can be exhausting and unrewarding for some women, and we don't recommend it unless it comes naturally.

Once you??re in, should you make it that far, you??ll feel like a goddess. The Scorpio man is a wholly different creature once he surrenders to trust. He lets you be totally sexually expressed while feeling fully respected. There's no Madonna/whore conflict. The more you fly your freak flag, the more he pledges allegiance.

Scorpio is the sign of death and rebirth, the mythic Phoenix rising from the ashes of destruction. You may have several breakups or relationship phases en route to fully committing. Though they will be harrowing for you, he considers these fiery emotional trials a purification ritual. In his mind, the more your relationship withstands turmoil, the more —real?? your connection is. Hardcore? You bet.

Although he can seem commitment-phobic, he takes marriage and relationships more seriously than mafia initiation. He cherishes trust and honesty—at least your honesty. On the other hand, you may never quite know where he stands. But that's part of the adventure with a Scorpio. Just when you think you??ve got him figured out, he throws you a curve. Stay on your toes, and he might just sweep you off your feet.

**I laughed at the mom part because it seems like my scorp is either visiting his mom or talking to her on the phone. I thought that was a cancer thing?

Male scorps, please feel free to comment on what rings true for you or not. 😉

oh, and I got it from this site:
http://astro style .com/Love/His_Sign_in_Love/sign_in_love_scorpio.htm

This is awesome! Hits my male Scorp on the head. I think I am his other "mythic half" but he is taking his own sweet time (YEARS) to figure this out. I don't know how many more hoops I need to jump through before he sees this. Mutual friends of ours say that once we finally hook up (if he ever finishes licking his wounds from his marriage that ended 10 years ago AND decides not to be celibate anymore) we will be like a supernova. An unstoppable force. An iconic couple. So, I sit, I patiently wait because my silly heart won't let me walk away from this crazy beast. I am Pisces Sun, Scorpio Moon, strong, independent yet totally willing to yield to his possesiveness and need to be in control. He tells me he trusts and adores me, that I am magical and one of his heros. What more does he want!?!? I am a nuturing fairy princess weilding a kick-ass sword! Not easy to come by.

Seems like your scorp is def being a commitment phobe. As a scorp female I can say that sometimes a scorp can be their worst enemy and would rather suffer alone (and stay within our comfort zone) than give in because of fear of being hurt.

Well, where's the fun in that? I think you are right, but it feel sso wrong...

Me

Sun: Pisces
Moon: Scorpio
Mercury: Aries
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Aries
Jupiter: Gemini
Saturn: Pisces
Uranus: Virgo
Neptune: Scorpio
Pluto: Virgo
Asc: Aquarius

Him:
Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Scorpio
Mercury: Sagittarius
Venus: Sagittarius
Mars: Capricorn
Jupiter: Taurus
Saturn: Libra
Uranus: Cancer
Neptune: Libra
Pluto: Leo
Asc: don't know time of birth

Posted by Lakshmi66
I am a nuturing fairy princess weilding a kick-ass sword! Not easy to come by.

LMAO, that is so funny. I made it my new FB status. Then I look below and see that you are a Pisces too. Makes sense. 🙂

@ Dreamer--I am so glad someone is entertained! This dude is seriously driving me around the bend telling me I am everything a man could ever want and that I am being "wasted" by being single. So, stop letting me go to waste and put me to good use, buddy! I can cook you a gourmet meal, give you an amazing massage, tell you how amazing you are, slay dragons by your side and bring home a nice paycheck. What's a girl gotta do, man?

And we Pisces eat that shit up. BUT you have to remember: its not about what he says, but what he does. Are his actions matching his words? Theres your answer. Cut him off. He will either come to his senses, or stay gone. Either way, the problem will be solved and you will have your answer. You say you love him and you cant walk away, but what is sticking around getting you? Step waaay back (stop calling, texting, whatever you normally do to show him you're available and waiting for him). See what he does.

It's the walking away part that is proving difficult. We started as good friends and still have a deep freindship I would hate to lose but realize I may have to. That is hard to walk away from though I know it's necessary, at least for the time being. However, my obsessive Scorpio moon side makes this a bit of a challenge. Both his words and his actions confuse me. He is very suggestive with his words and physically hugs me and constantly touches my arm or hand and giving me that never ending Scorpio stare. Backing off will be the best thing if I can figure out how to put a restraining order on myself. I don't contact him constantly, maybe pop in once a week for a Skype chat, nothing obsessive or overbearing. He always ends with "let's talk again soon, love..." A lobotomy would do me wonders. : )

exo, that's what I would think. I feel like I gave him all the signals of my interest, but I really don't know where he stands or what the heck he is looking for. It should be the other way around so I'm not used to this! I lack patience with relationships. I always want to know where I stand, even if I don't want to take things to the next level just yet lol. I think the fact that I know he is a scorp makes me want to really solve this mystery even more haha.

I haven't heard from him in a little less than a week because I felt like he was playing phone games with me and I gave up. I wonder if he'll ever contact me, or if he's lost interest, or if he is waiting for me because he is insecure? Blah, I will just keep it moving for now and continue to wonder. Ha!
I've read that scorp males can show a lot of interest and then disappear and come back. Is this true? This all sounds too cancer-ish for me and I wouldn't touch that with a 10 ft pole. If he wants me he knows where to find me. *sigh*

Thanks, you're right. I think "the talk" is def necessary, and I wanted to have it but it was never the right time. If he comes back around then hopefully things will progress and we can be more honest with each other.

so funny. My scorpio referenced our relationship to Hancock and Mary. he said he cldnt stay away from me if he wanted to. He recentley asked me if I love him. LOL..was so strange to me, coming from him.

Thanks 🙂