What does it mean when a scorpio male does this?

K. well a couple of days ago on wednesday i sent a scorpio guy this message on facebook; Hey, how are you? and heard nothing back. but last night like around a]8oclock he saw me at work and told me "hey, you have a good night. why would he talk to me then and not message me back?

thanks.

oops meant 8 lol

oh he was on i know he was, plus he has an app installed that sends the message straight to his phone.

you are chasing...he will run

well idk if that would constitute chasing... although maybe to a scorpio it does. i try to play it cool but when i see him he looks at me with his eyes and i see a reaction like he's surprised or maybe nervous to see me. he makes me so nervous like in a good way. i feel like it's hard to breathe and my heart starts beating fast and i have to concentrate so i don't mess up, when i see him. and sometimes he doesn't say hi to me or anything.

@dazed scorp: i'm not a stalker lol. but i don't get why he would say hi to me in person at work and not on facebook.

but if he has an app that sends messages to his phone then i'm sure he would answer those messages. so why not mine? i sent him one back in may and nothing. if he really didn't want nothing to do with me then why even bother to look at me and say hi to me at work?

i'd take the in person 'hi' over the facebook 'hi' any day.

@PurrrrHissss: i try but, no guy makes me feel this way. EVER. i wonder if he knows i'm into him. and my point is if he didn't want to answer those facebook messages then i would think he wouldn't have it sent to his phone.

@ carcar, i have to ask. are you a pisces?

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Posted by carcar19c
well idk if that would constitute chasing... although maybe to a scorpio it does. i try to play it cool but when i see him he looks at me with his eyes and i see a reaction like he's surprised or maybe nervous to see me. he makes me so nervous like in a good way. i feel like it's hard to breathe and my heart starts beating fast and i have to concentrate so i don't mess up, when i see him. and sometimes he doesn't say hi to me or anything.

Just relax. He's just a guy. Nothing special. Don't get all worked up when you see him. And don't stare at him. Don't even look at him. If you're all gaga over him, he knows. Train yourself to not give a fuck.

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i'm a taurus and have a gemini moon. my rising is leo.

If you are the one initiating then you are the one chasing...If he like you he'll have no problem initiating contact with you nor responding.

His in person "hi" is his way of acknowledging you, he doesn't want to appear like he's a total asshole plus isn't it polite to speak to people when you see them, IMO he doesn't appear interested in you it could be numerous reasons such as he's hot over someone else thus chasing or stalking someone else at the moment or already have a girlfriend or in the middle of developing a relationship, that could change though, I agree with Purhisss chill out, and please if you initiate contact once and get nothing PLEASE DON'T DO IT AGAIN. Have some pride.

@tiki33 i made up my mind when i sent him the last message (only two in all)that i'm done messaging him on there.. it's just i wonder why he would blow off that message then say hi to me at work. he does look at me when he does it he nods his head and looks at me in a formal way when he does say hi. he's a bit of a partier. partys like just about every weekend lol.

@dazed scorp; why do you say that for?

LOL@DazedScorp....explain urself

Is he straight/heterosexual carcar?

he's gay acts straight. i swear you wouldn't know he's gay if you seen him. he comes off as straight but he's not. i'm gay also don't know if that makes a difference. maybe i should have mentioned that earlier.

i think his moon is in capricorn and his rising is sagg.

oh yeah. 10/24/1990. we mostly went to different highschools but ppl talk. they called him gay everybody loves him though. when we were in middle school he was like almost a bully. he would pick on me call me his boyfriend smack my butt, put his arm around me and stuff. of course he made sure people were around so they would laugh.

they called him gay

the nickname they called him was gay jon

@dazed scorp; how can i clarify? did i misspell something?

here in georgia, united states. not for sure the town. i used dallas ga when i searched for his chart but not for sure.

well he may not be gay carcar, you really need to KNOW for sure, kids talk and spread rumors so it's really an unreliable source...Have you ever seen him at any of the gay clubs, gay marches, predominantly gay neighborhood hang outs? Anything that would say for certain like a hook up through a mutual friend?

Well he doesn't have a girlfriend. the guys that were talking were his friends. like guy 1 "man i don't think he's gay. maybe just bi." guy 2 " naw man, ge's gay." did a little nod too. they say he would say he was a lesbian lol. but he's gay.

@dazed scorpio; yeah sounds about right. i checked. didn't say lilith though.

well what would make him gay on the chart?

this thread got really fucking weird really fucking fast

lol no for real? if you think he looks straight in his chart then what about it would make him gay.

Well maybe he's not gay and that's why he's not demonstrating any interest in you romantically

don't take offense, I say this gently but maybe you aren't his type and thus giving you the cold shoulder. I've heard many men complain that the gay community can be tough to pierce into, some gay men can be fickle, shallow and very picky...maybe he's that type of gay guy but really I don't see anything that indicates he's gay outside of men spreading rumors, has anyone confirmed that they've slept with him, kissed him, played around with him? It's not cool to wish a guy was gay just b/c he's attractive/hot.

actually meant to say it's not cool to spread rumors about a persons sexuality...it's okay to wish him gay if he's straight LOL

@tiki33 lol. all joking aside though he doesn't have one. they never talked about him having one either. i know they could've been lieing but weren't he is plus on last post on #2----> --when we were in middle school he was like almost a bully. he would pick on me call me his boyfriend smack my butt, put his arm around me and stuff. of course he made sure people were around so they would laugh. @dazed scorp. k.

Also carcar maybe he's doesn't want everyone knowing his sexual preference and that's why he didn't respond, whatever he says can be blasted across the web and he's just being careful b/c so many people are out'd online and he's not willing to take that risk, why not just strike up a conversation with him at work sense he appear friendly or invite him out for drink after work or do lunch, that seems more reasonable to me. Some people still have an issue with everyone knowing about his/her sexuality, just something to take into consideration.

@everevolvingepithet; what about capricorn?

yeah his on his facebook think he put his orientation as straight. i left mine blank. but no one can see private messages. at least i don't think.

No one can see them but those emails are not necessarily safe, what if you decided to out him online, not that you would do that (I hope) but maybe he's rationalizing it that way and would prefer you to initiate contact the NORMAL way like real human beings that don't hide behind computers do lol....So he says hello in hopes a conversation strikes up buuuuut his FB says straight...Why don't you believe it?

@tiki33 aside from his what his friends were saying i think back in 8th grade when he would pick on me call me his boyfriend smack my butt, put his arm around me and stuff.he made sure people were around so they would laugh. i always thought he was being an as* but i think it was his way of flirting. plus when he looks at me theres something in his eyes that pierces me like emotion in them o something. and i wouldn't out him online.

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@everevolvingepithet; what about capricorn?

That's the sign that showed up the most, no reason really.🙂

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lol.

Well try striking up a conversation instead of using email, if he blow you off then you know he's just not that into you but I have a feeling he may be uneasy with using FB to hook up/talk to men, the only reason why I say this is b/c if he wasn't interested and not gay he would most likely avoid any kind conversation with you in person/online as well but since he appears open to speaking to you maybe that's his way of giving you an open...take it and see were it goes

I'm not a gay man so may advice may be all wrong LOL...I don't know the gay code

@tiki33 yeah i think so too. the sucky thing is when we always see each other ppl are always around. lol. don't think there's a code exactly.🙂

LOL@Dazed omg hush

lol. whats brown eye... eww hope not what i'm thinking.lol

haha!!!! that's why you use an enema. lol.

@dazedscorp; your funny lol.

close but straight lol.

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Because he has a life and doesn't check facebook 24/7?

pretty much

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Posted by carcar19c
i'm a taurus and have a gemini moon. my rising is leo.

Gem moon? Don't even bother.

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@dmv; why?

your moon is not comfortable with getting emotional...it likes to stick to dinner and a movie.

chill lax and get a hobby or something. if hes interested, he will make a move.