scorpio man- how do you attract them?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by scorpio1025 on Thursday, April 7, 2011 and has 7 replies.

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@scorpio1025
15 Years

so i am usually very picky with my guys. but this one is just drawing me in. he's good looking, and super talented. great guy. we've been hanging out in a group and he hangs with me and my best friend. i just want it badd. i want to get to know him better, and get him to want to do the same. his moon is in scorpio as well as venus. so what attracts him? how do i get him to initiate hanging out alone? how do i get him to chase? how do you know if he's flirting? how do i get in his mind?

noone seems to ask the simple things like that.

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@Whimsy
15 Years1,000+ Posts

I can only speak to what attracted my previous two (and one current) Scorpio men. I don't know if a Scorp guy would agree or not.

I honestly don't think there WAS a way for me to do any of those things you asked about. Scop guys are extremely intuitive and know if they want to pursue something or if a relationship is destined to fail. Or they at least THINK they know these things, which amounts to the same thing for you. They also don't fail to notice an interested woman- it takes very little effort on your part to relay your intentions. If he sees potential, you won't have to wonder- he'll come for you. I don't know what you can do besides look "fine" and be yourself. They don't "chase", per se. They just set their sites on what they want and use their considerable magnetism to draw it in. They also don't do much flirting- love is serious business.

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@Whimsy
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by elihope69
and if your a scorpio he should automatically be interested! just be interested and play a lil hard to get! dont be to available

Yeah- don't throw yourself at him. Have dignity. I don't mean that in a snide way. When you feel that magnetism, I know it's hard to hold yourself back.

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@scorpio1025
15 Years

his sun sign is scorpio as well. and yeah i figured that since i am a scorpio i naturally do play hard to get for protection. i dont think ive ever been this attracted to a scorpio before. there's just something about him that reminds me of me and i can't help it its pulling me in. i guess i just need an excuse to dress up since i usually look great when i do. idk come to think of it, i've never wanted any one guy this badly. :/ what are some other things that will attract him?