Too good to be true Scorpio man

So I'm an Aries with a Taurus moon and libra ascendant and after being used and treated like I was worthless in many other relationships I took a year off from all men and changed my life/career. One of my best friends told me to join a dating website so I could find some one that wanted what I wanted (a relationship) because I really don't fit in with the men and women in my city. For some reason I ALWAYS attract scorpios, I've literally dated 7 and fell hard for two of them. Of course the first guy I met was a Scorpio... We went on our first date and it was so refreshing, he's not from the same city or country I am, he was funny, interesting and so attractive. We started dating and within the first few dates he explained to me that he was only here for 3 months and would be going back to the city where he had been studying in for 5 years. (He's a doctor and he was here for a medical rotation.) of course I tried to keep my feelings in check but when I fall I fall hard ” He told me 2 weeks ago that he would like to continue talking to me when he got back because he really liked me but didn't really say much when I told him that I could visit him whenever I had off from work.

This is the issue I'm having, he's been somewhat distant lately, he texts me everyday but never invites me to see him or will cut our phone conversations short. he's had a lot of family and friends visit these past weekends, I've only met one of them and that was because he ditched me one night and then got upset when I made my own plans so he finally invited me to come along even if his cousin was here. What should I do? He always uses the excuse that he's not stable in his life and doesn't want to hurt me since he will most likely be leaving after he graduated to travel and then go back to his home country. But then he tells me he likes me and he only wants me. I'm so torn and it's truly hurting me. Every time I'm with him I try to stay in the present but I have a lot of abandonment issues and he's not being as supportive as he was before. The other day I also caught him texting some girls that weren't his colleagues and I can't help but feel jealous, but since we're not exclusive ove literally bitten off my tongue in silence. I want to end it asap but he is such a genuinely good person, it's hard.

Btw he's a Scorpio with an Aquarius moon and Capricorn ascendant.

Posted by ramparts
Why is he on a dating site if his life isn't stable enough to be in a relationship?

I can only speculate.

Yeah I had already asked him and he basically said he didn't know if he should but then he didn't want to miss out on the possibility of meeting someone would like. I wasn't satisfied with that but I prefer not to argue. Lol

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
I mean it sounds to me like he's been upfront and honest and you're the one complicating things. He's said he's hesitant about getting more serious with you because he will be leaving when he's done with his schooling and that's commendable. Most guys would just string you along for the ride. He cares about you, but he knows that allowing the situation between you guys to get too deep will cost either your sanity or his or both. He's been honest with you. Can't blame him.

I agree, that's why I like him so much. Honesty is so important to me and when you find someone like that it's hard to just let them go. But now I'm just thinking he was being honest to save himself.

thats how the cookie crumbles