Why do Scorpio Men put their exes on pedestals?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by fun2bewith on Tuesday, January 26, 2016 and has 17 replies.

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@fun2bewith
10 Years

I've been dating a Scorpio man who gives too much details of all the women he's dated and been in relationships with. It's so much that I've started tuning him out or ask him to stop and now I just tell him well if they were so perfect why aren't you still with them & calling him out on it. I have never known any guy to ever do this. Is this a Scorpio thing & why is he doing it?

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@13th
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by MlleFisk
Because beneath the "confident" facade, scorpio men are vunerable, sniveling little bitches who needs their egos constantly stroked like they do with their own laughable dicks. If you fail to baby the fuck out of them, they with channel this need onto other asinine shit because their self-worth is measured by how others respond to them, and in his case the kind of bitches he banged. Those chicks were the shit, hence i'm the shit.

smh....still at it huh? dafuq

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@GuardianAnu
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by MlleFisk
Because beneath the "confident" facade, scorpio men are vunerable, sniveling little bitches who needs their egos constantly stroked like they do with their own laughable dicks. If you fail to baby the fuck out of them, they with channel this need onto other asinine shit because their self-worth is measured by how others respond to them, and in his case the kind of bitches he banged. Those chicks were the shit, hence i'm the shit.

The bitter runs deep here 😛

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@fun2bewith
10 Years

Who is angry?

I was just curious if it's a Scorpio thing cause it's pushing me away because its disrespectful to me and people who he was with and tarnishing his image.

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@xtina
17 Years1,000+ PostsAries

This hasn't happened to me but if I were you I would act bored, excuse myself, or go on my phone. There's no need for his behavior unless he's still hung up on them.

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@scorply
10 Years

No, it is not a Scorpio thing .My Libra did it for a long time until I nonchalantly joined in and bragged about my ex. That put a stop to that.

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@Greentea
10 Years1,000+ Posts

My Scorpio does not do this. Yes, he does think he's the shit, he does it in a funny way though, aND he is great so ...but in my head, I'm like mofo, Im the best.you'll ever have.

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@ashley1734
10 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

I've said this before, but I think Scorpio men tend to have one great love of their life, and if it doesn't happen to be you, but he's already met her and it didn't work out....he will constantly be comparing the women he is with to the one on the pedestal.

Still, there are plenty of "fresh" Scorpio men (even older ones) who haven't met this women and have just dated for the sake of dating...you won't find this particular breed of Scorpio comparing you to anyone else if they really like you because they probably simply haven't cared deeply for the women in their past and don't give them much thought anymore.

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@fun2bewith
10 Years

Well, he's always calling people out so what is good for the goose is always good for the gander. I won't take it, thats why I say something, I feel it stuns him that I'm bold enough to stand up to him and that I am not scared to speak my mind. Of anything I pull away but he just doesn't realize he's going to push too far and I'll leave especially if this is one of his test.

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@13th
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by MlleFisk
Posted by fun2bewith
Who is angry?

I was just curious if it's a Scorpio thing cause it's pushing me away because its disrespectful to me and people who he was with and tarnishing his image.

Not you.

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The only thing im mad about is you taking your pic/Avi down lol I havent been here in weeks, just found it funny that I finally log in and you are still here, all over scorp men...please, speak your mind...your opinions dont bother this scorp 🙂

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@fun2bewith
10 Years

I think what I may do since "stop" isn't sinking in to him is tell him that by talking about these women he's lowering his character and integrity and see if that will do it.

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@aquamila
10 Years

Ugh my scorp has done this a while ago. During a fight. For the simple purpose of being mean. ¤“

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@GuardianAnu
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by MlleFisk
Deflecting the hurt to me will not the preparation-h to the hemorrhoids that just flared up in your rectum when i spit out truths.

I haven't experienced what you've described. Or are you responding to somebody else?
I am not a scorpio but I am in a long term relationship with one and what you describe is way off base.