Touchy Scorpio Man

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18scorpio
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Hi! I was just wondering if a Scorpio Man gets touchy ONLY when he has feelings for a certain girl. Or is it a general trait among Scorpio men? I mean, this friend of mine, a scorpio male, is a friendly guy but I've noticed that he gets touchy with me. If he ever upsets me, his apology always has some form of contact like pressing my shoulders with his hands or touching my cheek or holding my hand. One time he put his arm around me and whispered the apology in my ear (YES, CHEEEESY!); and not only when I am upset, he normally gets touchy whenever we are together. As far as I know, he doesn't do it with other girls. So, is it just a token showing a greater level of friendship between us, or is it something more?

P.S. I am a Scorpio girl and I don't really get touchy with my usual friends that much, unless they are good friends or I have known them a long time.
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Posted by silentkiller
Hmm the scorpio Guys I know, are very touchy actually. But there's no pattern in, if they do it with someone, they like, or if it has no meaning to it. My sister has a scorpio boyfriend they are VEY touchy feely ALL THE TIME (to a point where he comes off as super needy, and her too, but that's what Works for them I guess. Just makes people around them uncomfortable). The scorpio guy I was FWB with was touchy with EVERY GIRL, including me, even though he had no feelings for me whatsoever. He used being touchy in an extremely manipulative way, ??cause he knew, what girls or people usually read into Guys/people being touchy, and that way he tryed to give the impression of him being a nice sensitive guy, when in fact all he wanted to do with anybody, was just to fuck around. Being a scorp yourself, you should be able to feel out, if he's just being manipulative (you know, like a diversion from when he fucks up fx), or if it comes from a genuine place.



silentkiller, I absolutely agree with your last statement. I don't actually get wrong vibes from all this.
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Me personally.. I will only touch, hold someones hand if I am truly attracted them. I think it comes naturally to me though as I like to feel and get a reaction out of them to see how they respond to my gestures. This will tell me if we are on the same level of friendship or if it is something more. I think personally I can express myself best with my physical actions towards someone rather than verbalizing it, could be just me though.

Don't get me wrong I have female friends that I hug when we see each other. But it is nothing more than a friendly quick hug.

You being a scorpio female should be intuitive enough to know if your scorpio male is touching you based on friendship or something more. See how he interacts with his other female friends. Do what you do best and observe his physical actions with them.

From what it sounds like to me though is that he is probably attracted to you physically and mentally, and he's trying to express it to you through his physical actions.

But then again... I suppose you can probably just ask him how he feels if you feel comfortable enough.
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Posted by ryu8
Me personally.. I will only touch, hold someones hand if I am truly attracted them. I think it comes naturally to me though as I like to feel and get a reaction out of them to see how they respond to my gestures. This will tell me if we are on the same level of friendship or if it is something more. I think personally I can express myself best with my physical actions towards someone rather than verbalizing it, could be just me though.

Don't get me wrong I have female friends that I hug when we see each other. But it is nothing more than a friendly quick hug.

You being a scorpio female should be intuitive enough to know if your scorpio male is touching you based on friendship or something more. See how he interacts with his other female friends. Do what you do best and observe his physical actions with them.

From what it sounds like to me though is that he is probably attracted to you physically and mentally, and he's trying to express it to you through his physical actions.

But then again... I suppose you can probably just ask him how he feels if you feel comfortable enough.

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Posted by ryu8
Me personally.. I will only touch, hold someones hand if I am truly attracted them. I think it comes naturally to me though as I like to feel and get a reaction out of them to see how they respond to my gestures. This will tell me if we are on the same level of friendship or if it is something more. I think personally I can express myself best with my physical actions towards someone rather than verbalizing it, could be just me though.

Don't get me wrong I have female friends that I hug when we see each other. But it is nothing more than a friendly quick hug.

You being a scorpio female should be intuitive enough to know if your scorpio male is touching you based on friendship or something more. See how he interacts with his other female friends. Do what you do best and observe his physical actions with them.

From what it sounds like to me though is that he is probably attracted to you physically and mentally, and he's trying to express it to you through his physical actions.

But then again... I suppose you can probably just ask him how he feels if you feel comfortable enough.



Hey ryu8! Thanks for the input, I appreciate it. I think I understand what you mean when you say you hug your female friends as ONLY a sign of friendship with nothing more to it. I've seen him(okay, "observed" him😛) him with other female friends and yes, he does touch them but it's all in the form of a handshake or a fist bump etc. So I get what you mean. Thanks a ton.