Typical Virgo Boy craving Scorpio Girl Questions?

Hello all you wonderful Scorpio's.

I am new to this forum, and it seem's like a great community of people with a wealth of info to share with one another... I have read up on various info about Virgo and Scorp pairings.

But felt I may as well join the forum and get info straight from the 'horse's mouth' so to speak??

so here it is...

Right I am a male virgo and in early November last year met this pretty stranger who popped into my life, she is smart, irresistible, interesting and she appears to be like a soulmate to me already. All in all I can confirm I am madly into this girl, She is the ONE, infact she is the only ONE since I was a teenager who has ticked every box.... every facet of her fascinates me, you could say I am smitten. She is enchanting and beautiful.

Here is the deal, upon our first meeting last year we had met nearly 8 times in two weeks, had dates, had pleasant times sharing each other's companies, The BOMBSHELL is she has a partner who she has been with now for around 2-3 years and because she is a loyal Scorpio is seemingly staying with her guy, yet when she talks about her relationship to me, my intuition feels she is playing it safe?? almost happy to be in a stalemate relationship, I am sure she loves the guy (and he appears like a nice guy too, whom I would get along with), but is lacking a spark, which I feel I could replace and make into a very grand and exciting relationship.

I have a feeling she is into me?? but just don't know?? what can I do?? help please...

According to her I am one of the most interesting people to pop into her life, however the other night I posed the question to her "would we have a chance??".... she said " yes it would great", but she feels an inner torment as she feels drawn to guys who are a little 'off' with her?? .... The thing she doesn't realize is saying things like this to a male virgo like myself, would ultimately make me just delete all contact with her and become very illusive and actually 'Off' with her?? I have in-fact contemplated deleting her phone number, facebook, email etc.... because simply If I don't know where I stand, what is the point in pursuing something which is not valid.... I know she is into me, but she seems to be denying it to herself.

she has texted me everyday now for a month.... small things like this make me want her even more!!

any thoughts??, also any more info on ways to attract her even more, ie flirting techniques, things to say to add m

THANKS SATORI,

I like your pic....

yeah the screen name was made up there and then, I thought it was funny?? DRZhivirgo, naturally works because the said movie, is very VIRGO anyways.

I appreciate what you are saying Satori, but I am 24 years old, I have 'never' been in love before and SHE has come and 'is' everything I want and need.

I also am pretty typical in that, despite wearing the quiet confidence facade, I am infact very SHY!!

LOL at the "fix" her issues... yep how true!!

The thing is this scorp girl who has my interest I feel she is in a little bit of a predicament, I feel that if she left her guy, she would face being stracized by her social group, not too mention her boyfriend and his friends.

This Scorpio girl has me in her sting, I am now a rabbit in the headlights.... we communicate daily and I have a planned meeting with her on the weekend.

I am a pretty mysterious guy and enjoy being around an equally mysterious person, we have great banter, have a similar sense of humour.

Sometime I think being a Virgo is tough as we are very analytical..... therefore when we are in love it is a real trial, such moment's of analytical love sickness include remember her perfume, remembering small little occurances which may have happened....I even remember stuff like when she nudged me playfully.

oh god Satori....I am in too deep.... I am dizzy.... where is the ice cream??

DR ZHIVIRGO, by name and nature!!

before I reply, I must say that 'ostracized' is what I meant not 'stracized'

Hi Kaleidoscorp.... great name, we think alike, I eagerly await your reply.

Well in answer to your question in reference to the Virgorian "memory", we do actually remember 'everything' which is done towards us. (However I am speaking from myself, it may not be true of all Virgo males).... I am a Virgo with Virgo Rising (image that hey!!)

I know for a fact in regards to myself, I usually remember with extreme clarity all the good things which I have shared with friends, family and even lovers.

I am very rare in that I remember a lot of my very early childhood also.

therefore your friend remembering those seemingly "small" facts, probably means, he was very contempt being with you and looks back fondly at those time he spent with you.

As for my Scorp and me.... we are seemingly going through the act of "young love" ie. going to feed ducks on the river, walking in parks arm in arm..... in my head it is the perfect romantic rendezvous or courting process (I have only know the girl for about 3-4 months).... if only 'she didn't have a boyfriend'.. Grrrr.... I know she is into me, that's what is killing me the most!!!

I mean is the above actions, signs of someone who only wants a male friend?? or is it more..... a few weeks ago, we went out in the evening and in the taxi cab back home I was stroking her leg, she didn't even fight it??.... we have almost kissed too..... however she is very loyal and I am very moral and will not lunge at her if she has a guy sitting back at home (despite really really wanting too).... In my head I also think if I did just force myself onto her, would that show a willingness and add even more allure to my already very mysterious nature??

I am for the first time ever stuck in a conundrum (usually I deal well with these trivialities) but with this Scorpio girl, she has simply blown me away and left me wanting more, for a better word.

kind regards

DR Zhivirgo, he won't fix a broken heart??

"because she is a loyal Scorpio is seemingly staying with her guy, yet when she talks about her relationship to me, my intuition feels she is playing it safe?? almost happy to be in a stalemate relationship, I am sure she loves the guy (and he appears like a nice guy too, whom I would get along with), but is lacking a spark, which I feel I could replace and make into a very grand and exciting relationship."

Doesn't matter...
The scorp men I know will never leave who they are with no matter if they have not gotten sex for 6 months (know this for sure). For some odd and really fucked up reason if you ask me, they will stay in a stale and unhappy relationship till the death if need be. I don't know if they are too scared to really be happy or what. The guys I know always claim they think about others more than themselves. Not sure about that cause most scorp males are so ego driven they can't see straight. So, I'm not seeing that this scorp girl will break scorp tradition and leave her man.

I do not agree with Satori when she says: Whatever you feel is between you both is meaningless if she is with someone else.

To me, it's not meaningless. She could very well have very strong feelings for you and that is not meaningless. She's probably just too scared to leave and start over. Who isn't?

To avoid getting your heart broken, which unfortunately I'm afraid that may be too late, I would get out NOW.

By the way...I too LOVE your screen name. You sound like a really good guy who deserves a girl who's not committed cause honey, that's exactly what she is.

xoxo-RFT

^^^ Nice ... Thanks for sharing that Kaleidescorp.

Posted by satori
Those what-ifs seem pretty unlikely to me or DZ would probably have mentioned them.

And people don't just fall in love with someone without any warning. When you are in a relationship and you sense an attraction to another person, you need to back the hell away! Falling in love doesn't just happen, people let it happen and I'm not judging but people really need to be responsible for their feelings.

I completely disagree with this. Maybe it's not happened to you this way, but I've known it to happen before. People who are not even looking have been completely swept off their feet and BOOM, it happens. They meet someone whom they are completely connected too. It's beyond reason at times.
Being responsible for your feelings means that you recognize them, doesn't mean you can control them all that well. It can happen without a whole lot of warning. Just because you find yourself attracted to another person, doesn't mean you have to stop being friends with them. If it makes you susceptible to falling in love with them, then there's obviously something wrong in your relationship.

Posted by Kaleidescorp
I read this one time on another website and it was so profound that I saved it:

—One cannot love by reason. One cannot love through guilt. One cannot love out of expectation. One cannot love by request. No one can love another simply because they are supposed to, expected to, or commanded to do so. Neither can one love because they want to. Love is spontaneous; it will not arise by strength-of-will, or force-of-logic. It simply arises.??

We don't choose who we fall in love with. We don't choose when or where or how we fall in love. You can't force someone to love you, just as you can't force yourself to fall in love with someone else, nor can you force yourself to not fall in love. It just happens, and when it happens, you know it. Love is one of those things that is the most beautiful when it's allowed freedom to move. Too often though we try to control it. Its in our attempts to control it, that we cause ourself the greatest pain.

Yes, Yes, Yes! Exactly what I was trying to say, but you said it much better!

I would like to thank all of you girls for you prompt responses.... although I am a guy I love how women can communicate and much prefer the feminine view point moreso than the masculine.

I am meeting my scorp girl tomorrow, no doubt we will be having coffee, walking by the river, driving in my car, laughing and doing some really intense energy stuff like we have done in the past.

I think tomorrow I am just going to say "Listen ....... I have fallen for you, I like everything about you, even the way you get angry at things" (I am sure she can feel from my vibrations how I feel for her anyways)... I read that Virgo, Scorpio & Pisces are all pretty good with understanding "psychic" vibes.... I know I do most of the time.

I know that her time with me has made her review her own life, since knowing me she has decided to plan a vacation to San Francisco, she has decided to ditch a lot of her friends.... who knows the boyfriend maybe next??

I have asked her once "what are you going to do when you split with your partner" her response was "well I have you as a back up" (the tone of voice when she said this, was flirty)

I then responded to her saying "well If we get to a point of knowing each other for 6 months and I am madly in love (I am already but haven't let on) then I will just leave you and delete all contact with you" she then replied "well that would make me very sad, how do you think that would make me fee?l"

I think I responded something like this.... "well you don't really know me fully yet"

Scorpio's are a mystery, because of the contradictions, that's what makes me very interested in you girls a LOT.

Kaliedoscorp ..... Yep Your Virgo friend, will be in your life for ever.....I am very loyal to my friends, my best friends include Pisceans, Taurus, Leo's (very odd for virgo) and SAG (again very rare).... I think with the case of Virgo..... we are loyal untill someone does us down, then that's it GOODBYE.

Scorpio_chic you reply was very to the point thanks,

Eden & Ramsfishtwein, I will be telling her tomorrow, I'll give you all an update then!!.... as for Love at first site My Scorp said "When she first saw me she thought I was so familiar and she likes being around me because I make her feel calm??"

I replied "well who know's maybe we knew each other in an another life, and the reason for you coming into my life under these circumstances, is simply to say on a soul level. "HI, here I am remember me!! just popping back

"I have asked her once "what are you going to do when you split with your partner" her response was "well I have you as a back up" (the tone of voice when she said this, was flirty)"

Remember that you deserve a hell of a lot more than being a chick's back up. That's a pathetic spot to ever be in. Do NOT count on her leaving her man. This is why I think you need to move on. If you stay in the background and hope upon hope that may happen one day, you will be broken...guaranteed.

Good luck today. I think it's good you are going to tell her. But, do not expect too much. She may reciprocate, but that may be as far as it goes. Please do not get physical with her. This will just make it all worse.

You are welcome for the responses. Remember, some of us ladies have either been in your spot or in her spot at least once in our lives. It's never a good place to be in so we do know what you two are going through.

Lots of love!
-RFT

Posted by Astrological Aftermath1
LOL why do people fall in love with scorpio all the time? .... how do scorpio make people fall in love with them? and is it intentional

It's never happened to you before AA? Once it does, you will completely understand! Intense, passionate, those 'I want to fuck you' eyes, doting, caring....it can all be very fantasy like and surreal like you are in a different world.
Not sure about the intentional part...I guess only a Scorp can answer that!
But, it usually works like a charm.

Posted by brynmor

Posted by ramfishtwins

Posted by Astrological Aftermath1
LOL why do people fall in love with scorpio all the time? .... how do scorpio make people fall in love with them? and is it intentional

It's never happened to you before AA? Once it does, you will completely understand! Intense, passionate, those 'I want to fuck you' eyes, doting, caring....it can all be very fantasy like and surreal like you are in a different world.
Not sure about the intentional part...I guess only a Scorp can answer that!
But, it usually works like a charm.

That wasn't unbiased at all.

Now for the unbiased part to go WITH what you said:

Ego driven, irrational retaliation, selfish, emotional based (lack of reason and rational thinking), unoriginal, outgoing self-pity, etc.

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I'm only bias because it's happened before. You listed all the negatives, which of course can be true eventually, but he wanted to know why do people fall in love with scorps and it sure aint because of the reasons you listed. He didn't want to know what negatives they can bring to the picture. I was just trying to answer his question. I'm also mainly describing what you might find with a more evolved scorpio.
Just cause you have a crazy bitch scorp stalker doesn't mean they are all insane!

By the way Domi, what's going on with you lately? You seem very antagonistic and argumentative. Several things I've posted that seem quite clear to me, you've taken the wrong way/on a different level and gone on the offense.
Just curious if everything's o.k. in your world.

"I'm being watched/dealing with a paranoid harasser"

There's a difference?? LOL

every scorpio i've ever known (or at least almost every one) has either hung around waiting for a relationship to end (providing their desired one an out) to start one of their own or found a new partner before leaving an old one. actually they'll usually do both. sometimes at the same time.

she probably wants you to steal her away from her man. but she needs that intensity, so if you ever let it slip, she'll do the same to you.