Scorpio Woman Confused By Virtual Male Virgo ...

... or perhaps just neurotic & delusional?

Hi, all. Having read your boards for a few weeks, I have finally taken the initiative to become a member. I am looking forward to getting to "know" yourselves, and hoping that some of you Virgos can help me figure some stuff out!

As per the title of the thread I've created, I am confused by a Virgo man, and am hoping for some guidance. The thing is -- I'm hesitant to offer details immediately, because I feel silly, and worry that I shall be perceived as "cuckoo" or a nutter.

I really don't want to be slammed or insulted by those whom might feel empowered by their anonymity, and decide to reply in a harsh tone.

For now, know that:
* I met him briefly, a couple of times, about 10 years ago.
* I've been in-contact with him via an online social network for nearly 2 years.
* I am extremely taken by him.
* Sometimes, I get the impression that he's paying attention to myself too, but other times, he's dismissive, or may view myself as a pest.

Dare I explain more, or will I be putting myself in the line of fire for criticism?

Why is the vast majority of confused women who come in here about Virgos, Scorpios?

Why can other signs "get" them ... and nearly all Scorpios are confused?

10 years ago?

Wow, you were taken, weren't you?

I would advise you to start flirting with him, subtly.
Don't get crass or rude... and don't take his comments out of context either.

Once comfortable, start claiming him as your property with all that Scorpio attitude and let the sparks fly from there.

I have dated 3 Scorpios, so I think I have a decent level of experience.

"I really don't want to be slammed or insulted by those whom might feel empowered by their anonymity, and decide to reply in a harsh tone."

"Dare I explain more, or will I be putting myself in the line of fire for criticism?"

Twice, you mention your fear of opening up and revealing information because you might get critisized, within just the OP.

If you can't handle a little heat ... then you're not suited for a Virgo.

If you are that sensitive to the harsh realities of life .. then I would suggest you hook up with a Cancer, who will first cry and then crawl up in his shell, rather than deal with hurt feelings ....

For once I do agree with the last comment.....you will not be in for an easy ride if your feelings get hurt or worry about criticism....Virgos, from what I have seen and also endured can cut like a knife at times. Are you sure this is what you are ready for? LOL

I agree though, do a bit of flirting and see where it gets you - subtly of course, you dont want to look completely foolish 🙂 Man, if anybody can do that its a Scorp!!!! Flirting that is

I wouldn't say your neurotic or delusional but I can say that 2 years of no physical contact can lead a person to misread emotional patterns. It's not real until it's REAL, what happens IMO is that people tend to be what you want them to be online and then when that person becomes dismissive which is truly who they really are it creates confusion for the other person. I would need more information to make a real assessment of your situation. I'm wondering why your not out dating, I don't say this to be mean but it looks like your hiding behind a computer and creating a relationship that doesn't exist, it's not hard to do that online. 2 years should tell you something, there should be some indications of high interest, I don't have enough details to say he's possibly not interested yet if he's not pushing to meet and spend quality time with you then there is something wrong, not meeting will keep you stuck in a virtual relationship...Is that what you want?

Posted by tiki33
I wouldn't say your neurotic or delusional but I can say that 2 years of no physical contact can lead a person to misread emotional patterns. It's not real until it's REAL, what happens IMO is that people tend to be what you want them to be online and then when that person becomes dismissive which is truly who they really are it creates confusion for the other person. I would need more information to make a real assessment of your situation. I'm wondering why your not out dating, I don't say this to be mean but it looks like your hiding behind a computer and creating a relationship that doesn't exist, it's not hard to do that online. 2 years should tell you something, there should be some indications of high interest, I don't have enough details to say he's possibly not interested yet if he's not pushing to meet and spend quality time with you then there is something wrong, not meeting will keep you stuck in a virtual relationship...Is that what you want?

tiki my wifey going hard as usual but i wouldn't expect anything less from you either lmao

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

Posted by tiki33
I wouldn't say your neurotic or delusional but I can say that 2 years of no physical contact can lead a person to misread emotional patterns. It's not real until it's REAL, what happens IMO is that people tend to be what you want them to be online and then when that person becomes dismissive which is truly who they really are it creates confusion for the other person. I would need more information to make a real assessment of your situation. I'm wondering why your not out dating, I don't say this to be mean but it looks like your hiding behind a computer and creating a relationship that doesn't exist, it's not hard to do that online. 2 years should tell you something, there should be some indications of high interest, I don't have enough details to say he's possibly not interested yet if he's not pushing to meet and spend quality time with you then there is something wrong, not meeting will keep you stuck in a virtual relationship...Is that what you want?

tiki my wifey going hard as usual but i wouldn't expect anything less from you either lmao

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LOL@wifey going hard

Hey you...You being good today?

Posted by tiki33

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

Posted by tiki33
I wouldn't say your neurotic or delusional but I can say that 2 years of no physical contact can lead a person to misread emotional patterns. It's not real until it's REAL, what happens IMO is that people tend to be what you want them to be online and then when that person becomes dismissive which is truly who they really are it creates confusion for the other person. I would need more information to make a real assessment of your situation. I'm wondering why your not out dating, I don't say this to be mean but it looks like your hiding behind a computer and creating a relationship that doesn't exist, it's not hard to do that online. 2 years should tell you something, there should be some indications of high interest, I don't have enough details to say he's possibly not interested yet if he's not pushing to meet and spend quality time with you then there is something wrong, not meeting will keep you stuck in a virtual relationship...Is that what you want?

tiki my wifey going hard as usual but i wouldn't expect anything less from you either lmao

LOL@wifey going hard

Hey you...You being good today?

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yep i'm being a good boy ruff lmao