Understanding Scorpionic middle ground -

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YummyMummy
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Interesting point you raise there...I like to think of myself as being objective...Since attending a Leadership Dev Course all to do with Emotional IQ i seem to have found very differently!

According to my colleague and family reviews of myself...Apparently I am very black or white...with little or no time for gray areas...

I also know that when it comes to core values I am very Wrong or Right there's no maybe's if's and but's!

Very interesting of you to observe!
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Yeah Notso passive agressive seems to be pretty common in scorps. It is one of the reasons astro descriptions accuse them of being manipulative.

Also I agree with the black or white outlook on life. However, pretty much completely disagree with the objectivity. That is what makes scorps so hard to get along with a lot of the time. They stand their ground but they stand THEIR ground....what they think not what they can prove or rationalize.
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"well is this passive aggressive...i broke up with my boyfriend last thurs and he called yesterday and wants me to have an open mind...does that mean if i do...im setting myself up for 'payback'?...you know the scorp thing"

I doubt it. Passive-aggressive payback would probably be more along the lines of stopping by your place the next day with his new hot girlfriend because he thinks he may have left accidentally there...

But, being a Scorp guy, I wouldn't discount the possiblity. Being aware of this possiblity only gives you the advantage of beating him at his own game against him should he decide he wants to play...
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What exactly is "middle ground"? Compromise? I generally tend to prefer to compromise... When it comes down to it, I find that on most things, I care very little about the details and very much about the end result. Compromise is merely the details, and often times it ensures the end result, where as the lack there of generally would not. You merely have to determine which you value more, your way or your goal...