What makes a scorpio change?

I know probally nothing, it's all what a scorpio wants to do.

To be better, to improve yourself, to grow, to move forward, to move onward and upward...?

What makes anyone want to change?!?

trying to achieve our ultimate goal is what makes us change..but i call it improving not changing.

Him/herself

EFFORT

lol @ a breakdown

my scorp seems to turn into an ugly person when under stress. what i want changed is the way he deals with life, and me when times are tough. i feel like a victim, man, & it doesn't feel good. 😢

change back, perhaps.

I usually change after having some sort of crisis. Extreme sadness/tragedy. Change takes time. What does he do to you when life gets stressful? Alot of times we act one way on the outside, but feel totally different and are actually crying out for love on the inside.

Challenges

I love you guys today! hehe, my intellectual scorpios. 🙂

When a Scorpio is pissed/stressed, just give them plenty of room...DISAPPEAR...we do usually take it out on those closest to us...We don't blame them for our stress, they just happen to be conveniently located..

Hmmm...

When I'm angry it really is probably best to let me go and then I will come around on my own.

About the topic-What makes us change? MM you said it best-The individual...Nobody can make us do a damn thing.

Yes..I find a Scorpio will only change himself..No amount of badgering from anyone or any situation will do it for us..until we decide..usually takes a tragedy..

I remember the battles with the Leo..He would've been a lot safer if he walked out...which he often did...then the house would be in shambles when he got back..once I karate kicked the ironing board and broke it into pieces..that could've easily been his head..THANK GOD HE WALKED OUT..

"once I karate kicked the ironing board and broke it into pieces'

And am sure it wasnt the board.

Are u calling me a liar??!!!!

LOL...No U just failed to mention the collateral damage caused.

LOL...Well shoot me down for failing to mention it...eventually the relationship ended! 😛

LOL....No....a life saved deserves a bravery award actually 😉

Hahah...well you should go ask him whether he's been saved or killed emotionally...

"well you should go ask him whether he's been saved or killed emotionally"

Yeah !....thatz scorpionic to the core 😛

Aiii...what can ya do eh!...poor guy never even suspected anything was wrong..

horrible bunch we are eh...I guess that was the stinger..

How you been pups..

LOL..Guess not...He did nearly strike me a slap once...it would've really hurt too...I pissed him off good and proper that day!..

LOL @ Flying dragon..hahah..literally..

Or more aptly..house of flying daggers

"house of flying daggers"

LOL...It cud have been different ...easily 😛

" However, i cannot let him see ME because he will hurt me with what i let him know about me!!!!"

Haa Haa Haa....this is no thriller really. Grow up ....U guys.

Is that paragraph out of an Astrology website or your own?...Look, we're just weird creatures..we live in our little world..and if we choose to tell you..great..if we don't..doesn't mean we love you any less..we just don't want to share..its all about WANT/DESIRE...

Actually its all about us!...self-centred bastards that we are...

How could've it been any different Gaurav...Do you think you and I would fight all the time..should we ever do the 7 rounds..

😛

Indeed...I would last longer than any 😛

LOL..I wouldn't bet on it....But then all great fights come to an end...a nice end in this case 😉

For once you can exhaust yourself and then be recharged 😛

Haa Haa...No pit stops.

Absolutely not...its totally the speedway

😉...Dont jump teams though.

Well you know how I like to win at all costs...better be a fast drive

😉

^^ Hee-Hee you two are having a row 🙂

MM I remember you saying you were engaged to a Leo. Wow a Scorp and a Leo. They are very sweet and sentimental but wasn't that relationship a little to fiery? Leo's love spotlight. Scorps are more laid back...

I said I would try a relationship with a Leo but I wouldn't dare think it would go beyond anything other than boyfriend/girlfriend. IF it ever even got to that point.

Fast n Furious ...n there are 72 laps for durability's sake !

Karima: "MM I remember you saying you were engaged to a Leo." - Yeah..it nearly got to engagement..He almost bought the ring..I was with him..but I had to put him off cos I knew I was breaking up with him..no point in having a ring..I am not a gold digger..or silver digger in my case!..can't stand gold..lol.

Gaurav: "Fast n Furious ...n there are 72 laps for durability's sake !"

LOL..lets hope your not gone in 60 seconds 😛

Karima..they are fine..don't believe what these astrologers say half the time..we had some fab times together..Just got bored eventually..which seems to be quite the trend with me!..lol..Plenty of arguments..and yes your right, they do like the limelight..

Karima..they are fine..don't believe what these astrologers say half the time

I know a very good amount of Leo's-so trust me. I know we would NEVER make it long term. I get along with them fine though. But I hate to have everything I say either-Questioned or Questioned or Questioned! LOL! They HATE to be wrong...damn.

Overall I do love them. My brother, My stepdad and my real dad...all Leo's I have two Leo girlfriends and two Leo male friends...

"So save the advice!"

LOL....Not to say that I need a lesson or 2.

Yep I have a younger bro and sis Leos and my best friend (before she emigrated to US) was a Leo...I tend to get on better with fire signs..Water signs tend to annoy me..

definately something drastic has to happen for me to change my ways and cause extreme emotion. that usually causes me to change

MM: "LOL..lets hope your not gone in 60 seconds "

After the act is over ?....Even 60 seconds would be an optimistic bet..so to speak 😛

DB, "Make him break the habit before it breaks you." it still comes down to what makes a scorpio change.

As far as giving him a piece of his bs, I've done it. He cannot take, what he dishes out. Simple as that.

LOL @ Gaurav...

I need something smooth today..either chocolate or beer..

I was thinking a double ceasar on a patio in the hot sun, mmmmmmm

Do as I say, NOT as I do..

Quote made by a Scorpio...

I relly think tht a scorpion is by itself ....... a scorpion is so independent with its thought tht nothing really changes a scorpion bt a scorpion hates changes .... do iu all agree—??

Gosh that's like asking the eternal question...What makes anyone change—

I think having gotten older and having a better understanding of people I have come to the conclusion that people don't ever really change and with that in mind we shouldn't expect anyone to change for us unless we are willing to make the change in ourselves.

I think we all know the story of the frog and the scorpion...where the scorpion is stranded on a small island in a river, he asks the frog to piggy back him to the shore...against the frog's better judgement and with the assurance from the scorpion that he won't sting the frog...the frog allows the scorpion on his back. Half way accross the frog feels a burning pain and loos at the scoprion and says WHY did you sting me...now we'll both die. The scorpion sadly replies I couldn't help it, it's in my nature!

I think we all have certain things in our nature that we are unable to change...!