Valentine's Day Help

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TaurusRules
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Okay, scorps... I really need your help on this one. As I've said before I'm with a scorpio guy and the big day is coming up. Neither one of us cares too much for Valentine's Day, but it just happens to fall right around our anniversary. It'll be 3 years this month, wow!

Anyway, I am not the best at thinking of sappy sh*t to do, and he is the king of sap. He's a die-hard romantic and I know (even though he won't admit it) he gets a little disappointed when I buy him a gift instead of doing something sweet and original for him. Can you guys let me know what a scorpio would like? I know he'd love a night full of sex, duh. So help me think of something else, something more original. This guy makes me cards and gives massages, but I'm just not that kind of chick. Some people have suggested that I make a coupon book offering to cook meals for him, rub his feet, give him a bath, etc... but I don't think he'd use it. He's always said that he doesn't like asking me for things, he would rather I just do them for him on my own. So that idea is dead. Any suggestions? I'm desperate!
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gslove
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I did a treasure hunt once. I left him clues that first took him to get a massage and then led him to a present in the trunk of his car (a leather jacket) Then I led him to a hotel where I told him to wait at the bar and I was at a table on the other side of the bar dressed in disguise with a sexy outfit and a black wig and I had a drink and a note sent over to him from the brunette at the table. You should have seen his face when he thought he was getting a drink from a sexy stranger. Hahaha!! It was great. Then of course after I walked over to him at the bar and pretended to pick him up and he figured out it was me we went to the room and had a very passionate night. He loved it.
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gslove
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Hey Taurus,
You don't have to do the disguise even though that was the best part. Just make sure that you pick a hotel with a dark bar and make sure you sit at a table far away from the bar when you send the drink over. It was a little wierd for me with the disguise. I felt like everyone was staring at me and knew that I had a wig on. Plus I had these really high heel shoes on that I don't normally wear and a shorter than normal skirt. I told the bartender what I was doing though so he could help me pull it off. You have to do it with total confidence and really take on the character for it to really work. Otherwise I think you will just end up looking stupid. He must have loved it though. He took a ton of pictures of me and said he liked that he felt like he was with a different woman. We had been together for 5 years at that point so I think he liked the variety. If you don't wear the disguise still be the character that is pretending not to know him and that you are picking him up at the bar. It will be great. Especially if there are other men around to see the whole thing happen. :-)
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gslove
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Hi Taurus,

It was a very long time ago when I did this so I don't remember all the details but I think I left the first clue in a birthday card on the kitchen table. Yes we were living together but I made sure that I wasn't home when the game started. If I were to do it all again today though I would send an e-vite with the first clue to him by e-mail. The real fun of it for him he said was how he kept going back and forth between being scared and not knowing what to expect and the excitement of it all. I sent him to someone's house for the massage so he was not at all sure what kind of a massage he was going to get and a total stranger buying him a drink was pretty unnerving for him too but exciting at the same time. I think he thought that I was buying him a call girl or something. :-)