@Elliot of the High Scorpios
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FEAR & SEX (Elliot's Place)
I understand where she is coming from, I just cannot relate. It's a different thing when it comes to me. LOL at you calling this "Elliot's Place". And those ADS were something.
I think Elliot consciously put those adds there to dramatize the effect of the context.lol.
Ahahaha.
Ignore the ads! Focus on the information! lol (But you would be inhuman not to see them though haha, it's so ridiculous and blatant that it's almost funny..)
Ignore the ads! Focus on the information! lol (But you would be inhuman not to see them though haha, it's so ridiculous and blatant that it's almost funny..)
I can relate on that. I admit I'm a lil kinky player, in my fantasies.. 😉
You guys live in United States, right? In Europe people are more openminded about sexuality.
You guys live in United States, right? In Europe people are more openminded about sexuality.
A little copy and paste wouldn't hurt Elliot 😛 But I'm curious so I'll take a look 🙂
!! I get it now... the ADS. Hey you should warn people... it'll have to wait... until no one is sitting in the same room with me! So close.
L8rs 🙂
L8rs 🙂
Hahah Sorry, I did warn lol.
BTW, you really don't have to be able relate to all this! You're just supposed to absorb it all in haha.
Haha, oooh okay whatever, I'm not doing anything for a little while so I'll get this done.
Standing up or laying down: Mm well both, but ever since I was a kid I've been mesmerized by sex in standing positions - it's hott. (o lord, and now i'm dreamin' about it haha)
Top or Bottom: Top to take control, Bottom to just melt in the heat
Morning or Night: Silent Night
Lights on or off: Moonlight, aww that's sexy
Touching or kissing: Touch me, sweetness
Giver or Receiver: Give your all FIRST, then receive your reward - beautiful
Nice & slow or Rough & fast: You couldn't make me choose one over the other (Though it depends on the lady!! Different folks love different strokes) Although, never make it so slow that she has enough time to think too much - then it gets mundane, am I right or what?
Biting or Kissing: Just give me both in quick succession, and be bold enough to make eye-contact a lot when you do it, my queen. Heey better yet, bite me to thrill me and kiss me to heal me.
Scratching or tickling: Hahaha 🙂 Scratching is seeexy, and tickling is playful. Scratch Wit Taurus, and Tickle Wit Leo hahah.
Grabbing or caressing: Caressing - don't let an Aries grab you and throw you down lol, they'll try..
Loud or quiet: Shh, Quiet..
Drunk or Sober: Sober (But it depends, parties are something else - different experiments I'm content with)
Outside or Inside: Bedrooms are nice, but Nature is calling
Pain or Pleasure: Both, pleasure is good sensation, pain is thrilling and arousing (right? it's not just me..)
A Break or Straight: Whatever makes it hotter - A break is suspensful. Suspense is a Sex Tool haha.
Under or on top of the covers: One, then the other (Greedy? More like hungry after swimming through so much desire! Gives you a great, healthy appetite)
Clothes on or off: Enter with the first, sllliide to the next
Foreplay: I'd like that, thanks.
Whipped Cream: I'm gonna hurt myself thinking about that. Whipped Cream, o'course - bring that with you please, thanks - you know me well enough baby.
Fudge: Dea Lawd, just give me a female sundae please.
One night stand: Why? You'll follow me when I leave. You will.
Secret Ally: ...EROS! (God of Sex and Passion. Haha that's one of my nicknames actually)
Booty calls: Ohhh no! That's not who I am. I couldn't call someone up just to mess with them. I actually have too much respect for women for that haha. Most Scorpios do! To be in love with sex.. is not to be sexist.
Pillow biting: Me? No lol. Her? 🙂
Long Nails: Those long fake nails that some women get to be extravagant every once in a while?? Yea, those make me pretty happy. They're arousing at times.
Long toe nails: No sorry
Sex toys: Tools, nothing wrong with tools. Why even ask? lol
Ashy elbows: Hahaahaha o yes of course (doesn't matter - i don't like to dismiss people because of stuff like that)
Soft Skin: Awwww yea 🙂
Music: It kills the mood, or makes it alive. It better be the right mood!
Standing up or laying down: Mm well both, but ever since I was a kid I've been mesmerized by sex in standing positions - it's hott. (o lord, and now i'm dreamin' about it haha)
Top or Bottom: Top to take control, Bottom to just melt in the heat
Morning or Night: Silent Night
Lights on or off: Moonlight, aww that's sexy
Touching or kissing: Touch me, sweetness
Giver or Receiver: Give your all FIRST, then receive your reward - beautiful
Nice & slow or Rough & fast: You couldn't make me choose one over the other (Though it depends on the lady!! Different folks love different strokes) Although, never make it so slow that she has enough time to think too much - then it gets mundane, am I right or what?
Biting or Kissing: Just give me both in quick succession, and be bold enough to make eye-contact a lot when you do it, my queen. Heey better yet, bite me to thrill me and kiss me to heal me.
Scratching or tickling: Hahaha 🙂 Scratching is seeexy, and tickling is playful. Scratch Wit Taurus, and Tickle Wit Leo hahah.
Grabbing or caressing: Caressing - don't let an Aries grab you and throw you down lol, they'll try..
Loud or quiet: Shh, Quiet..
Drunk or Sober: Sober (But it depends, parties are something else - different experiments I'm content with)
Outside or Inside: Bedrooms are nice, but Nature is calling
Pain or Pleasure: Both, pleasure is good sensation, pain is thrilling and arousing (right? it's not just me..)
A Break or Straight: Whatever makes it hotter - A break is suspensful. Suspense is a Sex Tool haha.
Under or on top of the covers: One, then the other (Greedy? More like hungry after swimming through so much desire! Gives you a great, healthy appetite)
Clothes on or off: Enter with the first, sllliide to the next
Foreplay: I'd like that, thanks.
Whipped Cream: I'm gonna hurt myself thinking about that. Whipped Cream, o'course - bring that with you please, thanks - you know me well enough baby.
Fudge: Dea Lawd, just give me a female sundae please.
One night stand: Why? You'll follow me when I leave. You will.
Secret Ally: ...EROS! (God of Sex and Passion. Haha that's one of my nicknames actually)
Booty calls: Ohhh no! That's not who I am. I couldn't call someone up just to mess with them. I actually have too much respect for women for that haha. Most Scorpios do! To be in love with sex.. is not to be sexist.
Pillow biting: Me? No lol. Her? 🙂
Long Nails: Those long fake nails that some women get to be extravagant every once in a while?? Yea, those make me pretty happy. They're arousing at times.
Long toe nails: No sorry
Sex toys: Tools, nothing wrong with tools. Why even ask? lol
Ashy elbows: Hahaahaha o yes of course (doesn't matter - i don't like to dismiss people because of stuff like that)
Soft Skin: Awwww yea 🙂
Music: It kills the mood, or makes it alive. It better be the right mood!
lol
"Long Nails: Those long fake nails that some women get to be extravagant every once in a while?? Yea, those make me pretty happy. They're arousing at times."
Those pop off too easy during *ahem* intense moments,real ones are better😉
Those pop off too easy during *ahem* intense moments,real ones are better😉
I heard metallic claws that you fit on your hand work better.
'Those pop off too easy during *ahem* intense moments,real ones are better'
Oh is that how it works out for you, Tia? Tooo bad haha, although I do have to say - that ladies who carry that scaaary mystique on them so flawlessy (in their eyes, voice, movements, and dress) just NEED to wear those nails. It completes the 'witch wardrobe' that I find so alluring. Nothing would suit my Scorpion Ego more than to go out and cast a spell on a witch orrr to tempt a temptress.
'I heard metallic claws that you fit on your hand work better.'
Lol, freakish.
Oh is that how it works out for you, Tia? Tooo bad haha, although I do have to say - that ladies who carry that scaaary mystique on them so flawlessy (in their eyes, voice, movements, and dress) just NEED to wear those nails. It completes the 'witch wardrobe' that I find so alluring. Nothing would suit my Scorpion Ego more than to go out and cast a spell on a witch orrr to tempt a temptress.
'I heard metallic claws that you fit on your hand work better.'
Lol, freakish.
Meaning that I have real nails and less problems in that department lol.
Standing up or laying down:both
Top or bottom:both
Morning or night:doesn't matter
Lights on or off:off,mild lighting is okay though
Touching or kissing:both
Giver or reciever:both
Nice &slow or rough & fast;both preferably mixed up in each session
Biting or kissing:both I have a leo mars and I guess leos are biters like that anyways
Scratching or tickling:both
Grabbing or carressing:both
Loud or quiet:quiet
Drunk or sober:never been drunk so think it's a myth due to all the alcohol I wasted trying to get drunk😢
Outside or inside:both
Pain or pleasure:both,again leo mars likes kinks
Break or straight:don't matter
Under or on top of covers:don't matter
Clothes on or off:starts with clothes(lingerie) but actual sex has to be off completely
Foreplay:yea
Whipped creame:too messy
Fudge:too messy
One night stand:had em but doesn't compare to an actual relationship
Secret ally:confused,but have had FWB's which had already been answered with the one night stands
Booty calls:no
Pillow biting:can't say it hasn't happened,pisceans are kinky😉
Long nails:yeah
Long toe nails:hmm,this is a disturbing question
Sex toys:yeah
Ashy elbows:no
Soft skin:yup
Music:doesn't matter
What can I say when your a scorp,taurus moon,sag venus and leo mars anything goes pretty much.
Top or bottom:both
Morning or night:doesn't matter
Lights on or off:off,mild lighting is okay though
Touching or kissing:both
Giver or reciever:both
Nice &slow or rough & fast;both preferably mixed up in each session
Biting or kissing:both I have a leo mars and I guess leos are biters like that anyways
Scratching or tickling:both
Grabbing or carressing:both
Loud or quiet:quiet
Drunk or sober:never been drunk so think it's a myth due to all the alcohol I wasted trying to get drunk😢
Outside or inside:both
Pain or pleasure:both,again leo mars likes kinks
Break or straight:don't matter
Under or on top of covers:don't matter
Clothes on or off:starts with clothes(lingerie) but actual sex has to be off completely
Foreplay:yea
Whipped creame:too messy
Fudge:too messy
One night stand:had em but doesn't compare to an actual relationship
Secret ally:confused,but have had FWB's which had already been answered with the one night stands
Booty calls:no
Pillow biting:can't say it hasn't happened,pisceans are kinky😉
Long nails:yeah
Long toe nails:hmm,this is a disturbing question
Sex toys:yeah
Ashy elbows:no
Soft skin:yup
Music:doesn't matter
What can I say when your a scorp,taurus moon,sag venus and leo mars anything goes pretty much.
gawwd stop it stayc n elliot!!! hahaha itz turnin me on talkin bout th scratchn n bitin n hard n fast roughnez n moonlight n ohhh man hahaha!! ohhh n the suspence man freakn hell beta find mi lover
"ohhh n the suspence man freakn hell beta find mi lover"
"U all can be very hard to read and feel, but I still luv yall regardless."
Oo see that's the whole point.
Something that is hard to read and feel is nothing but suspenseful.
Any face or any situation with no expression on it tends to suspend you. You don't know WHAT to feel or sense. Nothing is too sure. So if you don't understand the Nature of the Scorp, look into the truth of what I'm saying. The sense of falling is sure, and the sense of gliding is sure, but to be suspended in the middle of the air not knowing whether to expect life or death, that isn't a stable sense - but it's an intense feeling.
That's where you can see how Scorpio represents Instability, Sexuality, and the Unknown (in contrast to Taurus which represents Stability, 'Sense'-uality, and the Assured.)
So yea, Suspense is (more than) a sex tool. It will drive you crazy.
I'll share that much with you.
"U all can be very hard to read and feel, but I still luv yall regardless."
Oo see that's the whole point.
Something that is hard to read and feel is nothing but suspenseful.
Any face or any situation with no expression on it tends to suspend you. You don't know WHAT to feel or sense. Nothing is too sure. So if you don't understand the Nature of the Scorp, look into the truth of what I'm saying. The sense of falling is sure, and the sense of gliding is sure, but to be suspended in the middle of the air not knowing whether to expect life or death, that isn't a stable sense - but it's an intense feeling.
That's where you can see how Scorpio represents Instability, Sexuality, and the Unknown (in contrast to Taurus which represents Stability, 'Sense'-uality, and the Assured.)
So yea, Suspense is (more than) a sex tool. It will drive you crazy.
I'll share that much with you.
mmmmmmm that artical is hot! I guess that side of the scorps is what really attracts me. I think I fall right into the fear & sex or fear of emotions category and yet I throw myself into that all of the time. Maybe the fear gets me going? Interesting article Elliot.
I liked this line: "Exposing your fears can be almost as sexy as exposing yourself."
I liked this line: "Exposing your fears can be almost as sexy as exposing yourself."
I use it alot too Elliot. Must be my Scorp Rising.
Also, to increase the intense I do my things around while sustaining non expressive eye contacts most of the time.
Definetly drives people crazy and yes it is a sex tool.
Definetly drives people crazy and yes it is a sex tool.
Here's a survey:
Standing up or laying down: +Hanging.
Top or Bottom: Top
Morning or Night: Night
Lights on or off: On
Touching or kissing: Both
Giver or Receiver: Depends what I take. There are many no no's for me.
Nice & slow or Rough & fast: % 30 nice and slow, 70% rough and fast.
Biting or Kissing: Both
Scratching or tickling: Spanking
Grabbing or caressing: Both
Loud or quite: Loud
Drunk or Sober: Sober
Outside or Inside: Inside. However, outside in the forest with tied woman, hmm...
Pain or Pleasure: Pain
A Break or Straight: ?
Under or on top of the covers: Top
Clothes on or off: Usually off, but clothes might be rippen apart so not entirely off.
Foreplay: Yeah, but depends on where.
Whipped Cream: ?
Fudge: ?
One night stand: No. My whips, handcuffs and ropes need good use, so no one time.
Secret Ally: ?
Booty calls: Call your mum.
Pillow biting: +ripping apart.
Long Nails: No (Freddy Kruger? Hmm)
Long toe nails: No
Sex toys: Of course
Ashy elbows: ?
Soft Skin:
Standing up or laying down: +Hanging.
Top or Bottom: Top
Morning or Night: Night
Lights on or off: On
Touching or kissing: Both
Giver or Receiver: Depends what I take. There are many no no's for me.
Nice & slow or Rough & fast: % 30 nice and slow, 70% rough and fast.
Biting or Kissing: Both
Scratching or tickling: Spanking
Grabbing or caressing: Both
Loud or quite: Loud
Drunk or Sober: Sober
Outside or Inside: Inside. However, outside in the forest with tied woman, hmm...
Pain or Pleasure: Pain
A Break or Straight: ?
Under or on top of the covers: Top
Clothes on or off: Usually off, but clothes might be rippen apart so not entirely off.
Foreplay: Yeah, but depends on where.
Whipped Cream: ?
Fudge: ?
One night stand: No. My whips, handcuffs and ropes need good use, so no one time.
Secret Ally: ?
Booty calls: Call your mum.
Pillow biting: +ripping apart.
Long Nails: No (Freddy Kruger? Hmm)
Long toe nails: No
Sex toys: Of course
Ashy elbows: ?
Soft Skin:
Standing up or laying down: Laying Down.
Top or Bottom: Both.
Morning or Night: Prefer Night... Usually horny in the morning though.
Lights on or off: Off.
Touching or kissing: Both.
Giver or Receiver: Receiver. What are we talking about here? Oral? duh Yeah receiver.
Nice & slow or Rough & fast: Nice & slow.
Biting or Kissing: Love Both. Biterrrrr...
Scratching or tickling: Scratching.
Grabbing or caressing: Grabbing during, Caressing after.
Loud or quite: QUIET!
Drunk or Sober: Sober. Alcohol does make me horny or hornier... but I knock out when I hit the pillow 😛 Sowee.
Outside or Inside: Wherever I can be comfortable.
Pain or Pleasure: Pleasure.
A Break or Straight: Straight.
Under or on top of the covers: Under.
Clothes on or off: Off.
Foreplay: Zzzzzzzz
Whipped Cream: Yeah! But whip it up fast, there's more important matters to attend 😛
Fudge: No.
One night stand: Never.
Secret Ally: Wouldn't be secret 😉
Booty calls: No.
Pillow biting: Yes.
Long Nails: Me? No. Him? Hope Not!
Long toe nails: Euwww gross.
Sex toys: Haven't. Open to it.
Ashy elbows: Don't care as long as he's clean, cleanliness matters most.
Soft Skin: Yeah.
Music: Better be a good CD because radio will kill the mood. Nice song then a mood killer comes up.
Top or Bottom: Both.
Morning or Night: Prefer Night... Usually horny in the morning though.
Lights on or off: Off.
Touching or kissing: Both.
Giver or Receiver: Receiver. What are we talking about here? Oral? duh Yeah receiver.
Nice & slow or Rough & fast: Nice & slow.
Biting or Kissing: Love Both. Biterrrrr...
Scratching or tickling: Scratching.
Grabbing or caressing: Grabbing during, Caressing after.
Loud or quite: QUIET!
Drunk or Sober: Sober. Alcohol does make me horny or hornier... but I knock out when I hit the pillow 😛 Sowee.
Outside or Inside: Wherever I can be comfortable.
Pain or Pleasure: Pleasure.
A Break or Straight: Straight.
Under or on top of the covers: Under.
Clothes on or off: Off.
Foreplay: Zzzzzzzz
Whipped Cream: Yeah! But whip it up fast, there's more important matters to attend 😛
Fudge: No.
One night stand: Never.
Secret Ally: Wouldn't be secret 😉
Booty calls: No.
Pillow biting: Yes.
Long Nails: Me? No. Him? Hope Not!
Long toe nails: Euwww gross.
Sex toys: Haven't. Open to it.
Ashy elbows: Don't care as long as he's clean, cleanliness matters most.
Soft Skin: Yeah.
Music: Better be a good CD because radio will kill the mood. Nice song then a mood killer comes up.
Only if you're REALLY bad will you recieve a spanking haffo😉
hahaha yo watzup staci yeaaa id say huni gud 2 hear from u... sory been outa it 4 a while had 2 get ova a freakn ex who was suckn all th gudnez outa me... bastard had bad energy took me a while to realize... hahaha
hahaha but yeaaa honestli elliot im lovin wat ur sayn *That's where you can see how Scorpio represents Instability, Sexuality, and the Unknown* itz sooo true... i lyk ur perspective on alota stuff hahaha especially talkin bout th sexy scorpness... u hit th nail on th head talkin bout their intensity n suspence tactics... hmmm mayb not tacticz but ingrained in their nature tehy sorta give off that persona naturally... generally speakin of course... hahaha
hahaha big hellllo to haff ahvnt herd from u hun n a while... hahaha n shoutin out 2 TIA *spankin haff bum in the background*
hahaha but yeaaa honestli elliot im lovin wat ur sayn *That's where you can see how Scorpio represents Instability, Sexuality, and the Unknown* itz sooo true... i lyk ur perspective on alota stuff hahaha especially talkin bout th sexy scorpness... u hit th nail on th head talkin bout their intensity n suspence tactics... hmmm mayb not tacticz but ingrained in their nature tehy sorta give off that persona naturally... generally speakin of course... hahaha
hahaha big hellllo to haff ahvnt herd from u hun n a while... hahaha n shoutin out 2 TIA *spankin haff bum in the background*
hahaha n jus while i was here thought id do th survey aswell....
Standing up or laying down: pinning him down... standin up obviusly in the shower... but depends on th guy hahaha no offence but i wuldnt let a weed lift me poor thing hed probly topple over... n quite honestli im not gona lift the weed....
Top or Bottom: as i will probli neva meet u i can b honest n say... i like the control so on top... but i like feelin his weight on me... ya know the bulky body towern over me ohhhgawd those ripplin abz ohhh man hahaha hotstuff
Morning or Night: hahaha both considern i please myself twice a day so so should he
Lights on or off: on!! i like seein him
Touching or kissing: kissin wit no touchin hahaha suspence
Giver or Receiver: i like to give it all straight up i like to really satisfy the shyt outa him... i like him knowin how much he wants me is how much i want him... hahaha n if i didnt want him i wuldnt be wit him....
Nice & slow or Rough & fast: never really done it nice n slow
Biting or Kissing: hahaha bite
Scratching or tickling: hahaha scratchin *yeaaa i got acrylicz* but i dont like stuff to get too intense hahaha sooo ticklin n playfightin r always there
Loud or quite: cant shut up hahaha i get carried away
Drunk or Sober: sober
im cumin bak il finish lata hahaha busy love uze!!!
Standing up or laying down: pinning him down... standin up obviusly in the shower... but depends on th guy hahaha no offence but i wuldnt let a weed lift me poor thing hed probly topple over... n quite honestli im not gona lift the weed....
Top or Bottom: as i will probli neva meet u i can b honest n say... i like the control so on top... but i like feelin his weight on me... ya know the bulky body towern over me ohhhgawd those ripplin abz ohhh man hahaha hotstuff
Morning or Night: hahaha both considern i please myself twice a day so so should he
Lights on or off: on!! i like seein him
Touching or kissing: kissin wit no touchin hahaha suspence
Giver or Receiver: i like to give it all straight up i like to really satisfy the shyt outa him... i like him knowin how much he wants me is how much i want him... hahaha n if i didnt want him i wuldnt be wit him....
Nice & slow or Rough & fast: never really done it nice n slow
Biting or Kissing: hahaha bite
Scratching or tickling: hahaha scratchin *yeaaa i got acrylicz* but i dont like stuff to get too intense hahaha sooo ticklin n playfightin r always there
Loud or quite: cant shut up hahaha i get carried away
Drunk or Sober: sober
im cumin bak il finish lata hahaha busy love uze!!!
How about public places? Anyone really into that? Where & best positions for it?
I'd like to sit on my man's lap & hop in a movie theatre! 😛 oh wait! I'm single now! oh well. 😢
I'd like to sit on my man's lap & hop in a movie theatre! 😛 oh wait! I'm single now! oh well. 😢
"I'd like to sit on my man's lap & hop in a movie theatre! oh wait! I'm single now! oh well"
Oh Wow TG I was thinking of that exactly!
Oh Wow TG I was thinking of that exactly!
"TaurusChic I'm still laughing at euwww gross"
That IS grossss. What came to mind was a guy who I once saw wearing sandals and he had the longest, yellowest toe nails I have ever seen! I still cringe at the thought...
That IS grossss. What came to mind was a guy who I once saw wearing sandals and he had the longest, yellowest toe nails I have ever seen! I still cringe at the thought...
Yellow toenails?Thats a fungal problem actually so he is sick.😢
"How about public places?"
Yeah,been there,done that.One was underneath bleechers during a football game,uncomfortable due to being on the ground and being fall;a bit chilly.Have messed around in a movie theater,is actually a very easy one to pull off if it's not that crowded.Public restrooms are easy to access without weather problems but has the "being caught" risk if you like that,also being propped onto the counters are a good position for that one.
"Anyone really into that?"
Not really;it was more of a convinance thing,those things were all done when I was living with my parents.:/
Yeah,been there,done that.One was underneath bleechers during a football game,uncomfortable due to being on the ground and being fall;a bit chilly.Have messed around in a movie theater,is actually a very easy one to pull off if it's not that crowded.Public restrooms are easy to access without weather problems but has the "being caught" risk if you like that,also being propped onto the counters are a good position for that one.
"Anyone really into that?"
Not really;it was more of a convinance thing,those things were all done when I was living with my parents.:/
Okay,finally decided to play lame and took the quiz at the bottom of this topic page and got 208 on "hot" points lol.
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This article is one for the Scorpioooos (and anyone else who matters, lol jokin)
FEAR & SEX:
(BTW, you'll see that the ads on this page are a little raw so try to ignore them if you're offended in some way. Thanks.)
I'll post my opinions on the article a little later. But I love how she points out that the Fighting Spirit turns the Fear that calls on their Fight to their Power Of Mastery, and the Fear that calls on their Flight to their Power of Mystery. You'll see what I mean, but I just appreciate how she states it. Very insightful.
Also she points out that in prehistoric times, it was common for amphibious types to 'make love' (aka F***!) in places of great danger, where much fear was aroused into the act of sex. I can understand and appreciate that greatly too! She makes some very sexy points all throughout the article.