Scorpios and Sex

Scorpios and sex... they would have you believe that they're synonymous, wouldn't they?

Well, my question is this - for those of you who are with a scorpio, do you find that they're a little TOO serious about sex? I mean, there are times when I want foreplay to linger (imagine that, I'm a taurus) and he wants to go from 0-100 in 10 seconds. He always takes control and I hate that! Is that typical of a scorpio?

What can I do to change things up? He's so monotonous about things - there's such a routine to sex, and I can't suggest a change or he'll do the scorpio pout and start to sulk. He wants things his way in bed, which is always sooooo freakin' dark and intense. It never lightens up! What can I do?

Yea, and just let him know it would be for the better of the pleasure!

Sex may be synonymous with Scorpio,
But Monotonous is NOT!

Actually, the Taurus/Scorpio Polarity is the one of Settled/Unsettled, Comfort/Energy - so I don't know what you want to do to light his fire and ignite his true inner sexual being (since no one is 'bad' at sex when they are fully ignited), but do SOMETHING lol.

Take him to a knew place where he can't feel to comfortable and maybe the sex won't be too routine. Or do it out in a public area if you're feeling saucey enough. Or go to some place completey romantic and quiet, and nice, 'shy' type of area, and just sex the place rotten. I don't know you and your wants and desires, but for the sake of your sex life - get inventive! wink wink

Do something that will give him no choice but to get different. Maybe it's something simple you need to do, like a little communication, or maybe it's something that will really unbalance him like doing it in a car at the side of a freeway hah - either way, like I said, do something, don't get too comfortable when you are not content. Desire more baybeh!

Well, here's the thing - I have tried new things... lots of lingerie, telling him to keep his hands off of me and let me do the work, molest him in the car while he's driving, go to a nice hotel for the weekend, etc. It makes no difference - he HAS to get rough with his hands and grab me tight and go fast and hard and talk about how much he loves me. It's the same thing, every time. I'm so tired of it!

He's made it very clear that he wouldn't like that... he says he doesn't enjoy sex unless he can touch me. He's not the only guy who's said that, either.

Oh how boring!

He needs to switch on the creativity. Hahaha to tie him up for the whooole entire time doesn't sound like such a bad idea.

Maybe his confidence isn't there!?

You could be right, Elliot, but what can I do about that? It's getting to the point where my libido is waning and I don't want sex much anymore. *gasp* It's a terrible thought to consider, I know...

Seems like maybe he might need to enrich his Knowledge on sex just a little, maybe even get himself familiar with the art of exhibitioning so he actualizes the value to come from foreplay and a little slow sex (regardless of how fast he likes it) - the thing is, no matter how closed his preferences are, maybe he could do to understand more that there is good, fun pleasure in all aspects of sex.

And Knowledge is basically the key to self-esteem and the confidence to be what you strive to be. If he does not get these things, then slap him up a little - maybe it's time to push his ego aside for the sake of progress, improvement, and invention like Aquarius teaches us. Even if he's not prepared for it, you could kind of let him know that he's gone so mundane that your libido isn't even wanting him anymore. Sure this would UPSET his Scorpioness to say the least hahaha, but hopefully he's the type of guy to take it as a challenge to do better.

If he can understand that it would be a Win-Win situation for the both of you, he should be able to change his sex style for the greater. (I don't know this guy however, you do - so just do your best, at least try, right?)

Hahaha, try that - if for no other reason than pure fun lol.

What about a whip?

Hahaha yea at first I wanted to say what Aprilbaby said, but I didn't because it seems like a woman needs to say it to another woman. But maybe she's right about him TaurusRules!?

I'd tell him he sucks in bed🙂That'll hit him hard lol but oh yeah,you don't want him to sulk and stuff.Erm,I'd be buying some sexual edumacation books like the kama sutra,tantric and "the sex box" is a good set of books to um give either a girl or a guy some ideas when it comes to the intimacy part of sex rather than just the "wham bam thank ya mam" crap,that is if he has an imagination it'll work otherwise um...aprilbaby's suggestion ROCKS lol.

Drug him, tie him up, do your thing, record it, watch it together after a few days...

"I'd tell him he sucks in bed"

Lol! Hey that doesn't sound like a bad idea. When he gets sulky and pouty don't try to console him instead harrass him and treat him like a piece of meat... just take 'em... maybe he won't push you back.

lol,actually OFA I was thinking of telling her something to the same effect involving a way to hand cuff him while playing subtle and nonsuspecting but decided against it.

What can I say pisces dudes make you twisted sexually sometimes,look at haffos comments about sex and I've been boinking a pisces for almost 8 years now.

"this way she's heard it from the source."

Source? You don't know the source?

My Scorpio and i agreed we're ready to take things to the next level which means probably "sealing the deal" soon. He says he like to take Everything SLOOOOOOOOOOOW,.i really hope this is a good thing; )

BlueAqua

"My Scorpio and i agreed we're ready to take things to the next level which means probably "sealing the deal" soon."

With something like an electric fence encircled all around your groins? And a seal with label "No Entry! 10 000 Volts!!".

lol

"With something like an electric fence encircled all around your groins? And a seal with label "No Entry! 10 000 Volts!!".

LOL!