Virgo ex contacted me

Talk about ghost of the past. We broke up in 2011, and he sends me a message on Facebook. LOL *ignore*

It's strange. I've had so may exes contact me recently it is getting bizarre. Not to mention fallouts with people started happening.

Ironically enough I had a dream last night that a new Virgo came into my life and was a stage-five clinger and I literally climbed a tree in this dream to hide so he wouldn't see me (probably sparked from getting that Facebook message and was subconsciously looming over me). It is kind of hilarious so I thought I would share. The cause of my nightmares: return of the Virgo ex lmao.

He had a Scorpio moon, Cancer Venus, Libra Mars if anyone is curious. Don't know his ascendant. Overall worst relationship I have ever had, but I was dumb enough to stay so I was the cause of my own issues. He wanted to confine me to a little box, would yell at me if I hung out with my friends because he said he "knew" I was cheating on him (ironically enough he is the one who cheated on me multiple times and I never did), would play guilt trips, pathological liar, very manipulative. For us being so young...he was sickeningly good at doing all of these negative things to possess power over me. I lost a lot of friends until we finally ended this toxic mess.

To be quite honest, though I am throwing out all of these negative traits, I am grateful that I stayed even though it was stupid. I believe it has developed me in such a way that I have learned what it means to be on the other end of such a toxic relationship. He showed me everything I never want to be involved with again and showed me how NOT to be. I honestly learned a lot from it. I learned a lot about how people can be. He was not intellectually bright at all. He didn't even know apostrophes existed, yet he had the capabilities of manipulation and deceit. Very clever in other ways.

Life is so strange but ever so amusing as always. He must have had a fall out in some current relationship he has had (or is having). No thank you sir.

Just a little share of experience because why not.

Toxic people of the past always try to weasel their ways into our present. Strange but true.

he's actually not my friend on Facebook, just looked me up and messaged me @starlover.

and lmfao @gobshite I'm crying laughing. yeah that was a terrible way to word it lmao!! I guess to elaborate many of these exes are ones I deprived of sex. maybe that's why they're on the prowl.

@vanish I don't want to be cuffed 😢