Virgo Men w/ Scorpio Women!

I'm a 19 year old Scorpio woman (Nov 11) in a relationship with an EXTREMELY literal and logical 19 year old Virgo male (Aug 31). Our communication is rocky on both ends. (more mine than his b/c I don't know how to get him to understand emotion). Every word that comes out of my mouth is getting stored into his memory banks the the last and final answer. Which leaves me no room to change my mind or to have opposing feeling etc. He's VERY impatient and astonishingly ambitious. I'm laid back I like to take extra time to complete tasks to make sure they're done correctly. And more so that I can emotionally handle all situations. This in particular bothers him the most.
He is always saying "I don't understand why it takes you so long..." And is rarely willing to compromise. He just gives me ultimatums with no terms and agreements. "yes or no now or never" Ex: The same day he says that he wanted us to move to Texas, he bought a ticket and packed his belongings. That next day he was gone. There was literally NO compromise. He was upset that I couldn't do the same thing with his same time frame. Even though we agreed I'd come at a later date he insisted on reminding me that I couldn't be apart of choosing an apartment or furniture etc. He says it's because I made the decision to stay behind hence choosing to not be apart of those things. Long story short I just want to master the art of computing/translating/enciphering my emotions and feelings into very logical and rational text so that we can understand each other.

PLLLLLEEEAASSSEEE help. I'd esp love to hear from Virgo men about the do's and don'ts. What bothers you? What is acceptable in a relationship and what isn't? What are you willing to tolerate? What's the easiest way to communicate with you? If someone wants something you don't, how do you compromise? help help help me on this sinking ship!

LOL my virgo aqua moon man sounds similar... he drives me nuts lol sooooo.... i wouldnt mind hearing either.
i get in trouble for interrupting him all the time. i dont mean to but he wont even finish what he was saying just lecture me. lol

Not sure why you think the ship is sinking when he's going ahead of you and is taking care of everything. All you need to do is show up.

He is a control freak but you not on his pace. He is very quick but at the same time feels situations out just like you.

Stand your ground just like he stand his. Don't always give him what he wants. And don't let him manipulate your emotions they are good at that.

He seems not to understand people have different paces. I'd see a part of his behavior as controlling.

People in relationships make joint decisions. He might feel he is the only one doing that, because you can't seem to get on his "go go go now!" pace. Does he have fire placements?

I bumped into a lot of virgo guys!I can emphasize 'lot' here like some 10x times n it still would be less!They are the people who i can safely say will stand by you no matter what..against many odds..staunch friends(lovers) they are!But they have this eye for detail to the point of annoyance actually,wanting you to be perfect in every way when they themselves aren't.You can be some fairy goddess but still they'd find fault with you!N about pacing up with him..do whatever..they still won't find you perfect.Makes me think that they're not gifted with that satiation point o whatever!greedy much?No idea!They're so manipulative that they make you feel it's your fault every damn time!They want us to accept them with their flaws but would hardly do the same!N no..I'm not any girl who has some bitter experience with these people!Infact my bff is a virgo n as i said.. I bump into too many of them...i love them because they go out of their way to make you happy many times...yet control freaks n expect you to be a perfectionist..n at their pace(nuf said about their perfection thingy..i never found one being a perfectionist) !I'd never want a virgo for a long term relationship maybe..!But there's one more thing about them...just tell them a simple "i love you"(mean it ofcourse) at any point..be it even in the middle of some heated argument..they are yours..n they'll calm down n listen to you..!