Virgo: Tells Scorpio your my best friend:S

Hi, a few weeks ago i posted a topic about a virgo guy i was seeing.(i'm a scorpio) we were very close and i told him i had feelings towards him. it was hot and heavy but then he said he sees me only as a friend although we was sending me mixed messges 'partner'material etc. At that point i stopped havin a physical relationship with him and just chatted to him as mates.whenever we linked then he would still flirt (i.e. hug, touchy feely try and kiss) but i did put a stop to it.
We chat everyday and when i'm not around he calls to see where i am what i'm doing. But heres the thing he's really quite confused! when we have our long chats he says to me your not like any other girl i've met.. 'your very patient with me, you listen, your caring towards me, you dont seem to get bored of what i say, your good to me etc.' and then he says to me ' i cant understand if your doin this because your a good friend or because we're attracted to each other'. He says we're on the same 'wave length' we understand each other and he even admits he still attracted to me and like me and our relationship.
he seems to think i'm gonna go off somewhere and my attitude towards him will change. he's quite insecure! he says this to me quite a bit 'when you meet someone else what we have will change. you wont be here for me, your guy will be jealous etc' Then this morning he said, which he never said before, the same when you meet another etc but he also said i wont like it, you spending more time with him. but i'll get used to it.
i mean WDF!! if he really likes me and cares for me then why cant he just admit it.
i really like this guy and he's everything i've been looking for and more but sometimes i want knock him out!

why push me away?he chats about other girls which i dont mind.... but its like he testing me. seeing how i would react. he went out recently with a new guy mate he's 'testing' out to see if he's friendship material. they linked with a few girls collegues of new friend. everyone got very drunk. he kept assuring me nothing happened. (he does this all the time, whenever he chats about other girls he reassures me nothings happning)
he danced with this one girl who he tried to kiss. but nothing happend. he realises what he's saying and he stops and says 'i shouldn't be saying this... its huting you'. its does hurt me. but i'd rather know that be kept in the dark to what he's like. he just wants to share EVEYTHING with me, which i like.

he confuses me... then the other day he was started asking me how many kids WE goin to have... what we gonna name them (this is while we still'friends')i mean we actally chatted about it for while.
but i laughed it off. he's really hot and cold... i dont get why!

Recently he said to me your my best friend i can trust you and i feel like i can say anything to you. i said the same to him. its like we totally get each other (really freaky). but i want to be more than just his friend. what do i do. i know he has feelings towards me. i want him to just say it.

i forgot to mention that the first time round when he said he wants to be friends and nothing more i was upset and i told him... but then i added i still want to be friends with you and i'll be there for you whenever.(i've never had someone i connected with on that level so i wanted to stay friends)he then said' 'thats what i wanted to hear from you. he was a bit cold with me before and continued for a few days... but then something changed in his head and he went back to 'being into me' an'all. sooo confusing. its like he was testing my loyalty for him. i dont get it!


someone please advice what i should do. do i still stay friends... give him time to miss me...please help!

thanks beetleguese... if his intentions are clear then why cant he just come out and say what he feels and
why the confused messages.i know he's scared of being rejected but so am i. on several occasions before
i've told him how i feel but he's just said that he's not that serious and doesnt want to hold me back,
but still wants to remain friends. but then when he starts chatting about other girls and how they
dont fit the 'potential partner' profile which makes me thinks he is actually looking for somehting real but not with me.

if i try and tell my feelings again to him he's just going to turn me down. i should be more scared of rejection than him!

Pushing for more can result in pushing away though, tread lightly...

i want to break the treetrunking little head off!!!!!!!!!!!!

Chatting to him as normal this moring. so he tells me he's going to see another girl an old friend. he's talking away about her. i dont really say anthing. he picks this up and says to me 'you upset'. i'm like what do you think of course i am. then he goes on about he's how he's still looking around... that he loves women and sex... that he has a problem. we had discussed this issue before but then he does and says all that other stuff.

i was straight with him and confronted him about the stuff he says and the way he acts around me. (dont know if that was the right thing but i just said it) he admitted he likes more than a friend, that theres attraction there and he likes how i care for him because he hasnt had that in a while! but still thinks of me as a friend. he said he knows how he's mislead me which he thinks was wrong but says he loves the 'communication' we have.

he said he'll go with whatever i agree to do i.e. not see me etc. the thing is that i wont go anywhere becuase i've never had a friend like him before and i dont want to loose that part of it and he knows that.

he said this a few times. that he's been open with me alot so i know how he's like his personality but i havent been as open. but i have been, he knows a lot about be. i'm not like him. this guy can talk alot about himself and his issues. could this be a reason why he has 'issues' with me.