Another Scorpio & Virgo Topic.

Hey yall what's up? I am fairly new here, but I have been checking out several posts on this board. now I have one to post.

The Infamous Virgo and Scorpio matching/topic.

I am a Virgo male, and this chick is a Scorpio, we work together, I never talk to her but at times we check each other out. For example I may look up and our eyes would connect and we both would look away fast, it's weird. I have never had problems talking with women but I feel like this is High School all over again, meaning that I have to find a way to approach her because I feel she sees through bullshit if I were to play cool, my game is always pretty tight when I talk to women but it seems as though she has my card and vice versa, but I believe she is kinda shy, but at the same time I think she wants me to approach her.

There is no denying the attraction cuz I feel it and I suspect she feels it too if I do. We both have things in common..too many to name, but its a match. As for now, I'm just observing her movements and actions. Just off of observations..I think I like her!!

Feel free to add your comments and/or experiences.

Use your rod and catch her.

All your suspicions are correct.

The Virgo internal problem continues. Don't doubt yourself and don't hesistate to take action.
Yes, she sees through bullcrap, but you're a Virgo, so that's all ready at an all time low in our stock exchange.

She will be shy and very cautious, but once you keep it real, she will swoon over you.
The problems start when you catch them though, ugh.

25thDecan will take it from there, peace.

Posted by Cajunspirit
All your suspicions are correct.

The Virgo internal problem continues. Don't doubt yourself and don't hesistate to take action.
Yes, she sees through bullcrap, but you're a Virgo, so that's all ready at an all time low in our stock exchange.

She will be shy and very cautious, but once you keep it real, she will swoon over you.
The problems start when you catch them though, ugh.

25thDecan will take it from there, peace.

are scorpio women bad news?

she reminds me of myself in a way, she is very conservative like me, she tries to sneak a look and I'll catch her, I'll try to sneak a look and she'll catch me. Sounds like a childish game huh? well I agree, I don't know why I haven't stepped to her, I think I waited too long now it's an uncomfortable nervous feeling between us two. The reason I know she feels nervous cuz I remember one time I was walking towards her and she seemed to straighten up like "he's coming towards me."

I think she needs some good loving..shit I know I do.lol I wont lie she has me open.

"She's bad..She's bad...She's bad all I know is I want her" Keith Sweat

Posted by S Love

are scorpio women bad news?

They can become quite demanding and controlling.
Flies with some Virguys, but definitely not me.

Highly insecure, emotional, irrational and prone to jealous fits and illogical outbursts. Enjoy quarreling and playing the victim.
Live in a bubble.

Fights for control.

You got to put up with a lot of crap, ridiculous enquiries and give lots of reassurance.

she reminds me of myself in a way, she is very conservative like me, she tries to sneak a look and I'll catch her, I'll try to sneak a look and she'll catch me. Sounds like a childish game huh? well I agree, I don't know why I haven't stepped to her, I think I waited too long now it's an uncomfortable nervous feeling between us two. The reason I know she feels nervous cuz I remember one time I was walking towards her and she seemed to straighten up like "he's coming towards me."

It's all in your head buddy, you're overanalysing it. Just be yourself and everything will be fine.

Stop forecasting, stop thinking of what could be, stop trying to predict her motions, all these will come naturally in time. Attempting it at this early stage is just holding you back.

I think she needs some good loving..shit I know I do.lol I wont lie she has me open.

"She's bad..She's bad...She's bad all I know is I want her" Keith Sweat

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Beware the Scorpio sting and their stare.

The juice isn't worth the squeeze, in my honest opinion.

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Posted by S Love

are scorpio women bad news?

They can become quite demanding and controlling.
Flies with some Virguys, but definitely not me.

Highly insecure, emotional, irrational and prone to jealous fits and illogical outbursts. Enjoy quarreling and playing the victim.
Live in a bubble.

Fights for control.

You got to put up with a lot of crap, ridiculous enquiries and give lots of reassurance.

she reminds me of myself in a way, she is very conservative like me, she tries to sneak a look and I'll catch her, I'll try to sneak a look and she'll catch me. Sounds like a childish game huh? well I agree, I don't know why I haven't stepped to her, I think I waited too long now it's an uncomfortable nervous feeling between us two. The reason I know she feels nervous cuz I remember one time I was walking towards her and she seemed to straighten up like "he's coming towards me."

It's all in your head buddy, you're overanalysing it. Just be yourself and everything will be fine.

Stop forecasting, stop thinking of what could be, stop trying to predict her motions, all these will come naturally in time. Attempting it at this early stage is just holding you back.

I think she needs some good loving..shit I know I do.lol I wont lie she has me open.

"She's bad..She's bad...She's bad all I know is I want her" Keith Sweat

Beware the Scorpio sting and their stare.

The juice isn't worth the squeeze, in my honest opinion.

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I think she knows I don't play..I've demonstrated fierce anger at times around her, cuz of other issues.

and I might be over analyzing her, but I know its true..intuition. Thanks tho.

Ha Ha!! Her stare aint colder than mine!! but I don't want to have a grudge match with her.

and what do yall mean when yall say beware of her sting..I think I might know what you're talking about..if that's the case she already has.lol.

aquilascorpiusfemina

Thanks..I'll be back for more!!!

Carribean thanks, I'm almost positive she diggz me I just have to make a move. I normally don't talk to or try to date women at my work place, but this might have to be an exception.

On another note..this a bit crazy..but sometimes I feel an intense(hate using that word) feeling in my body at night when I'm lying in bed when I think of her and it is strong..or maybe I'm buggin, but it feels energetic..wtf!! Somebody explain please!!

can any other Virgo or Scorpio attest to this feeling or am I just trippin?

Posted by S Love

can any other Virgo or Scorpio attest to this feeling or am I just trippin?

Virgo Scorpio chemistry is intense, this is a fact.

Posted by Cajunspirit

Posted by S Love

can any other Virgo or Scorpio attest to this feeling or am I just trippin?

Virgo Scorpio chemistry is intense, this is a fact.

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its a fact. dont disregard 25thdecan, hes got alot of it on track. scorpio women have quite the sting, and if you cant weather the storm youll get swallowed up in it.

couldnt help but laugh when cajun pointed out her game too, shes got you dude. youre both into each other, so stop bullshitting and go for it. might wanna step lightly though

Thanks for all of the advice..aquilascorpiusfemina, I gotta question..you say if a Scorpio woman loves you she will consume you with passion..it is possible that I could consume her with the same amount of passion, and make her feel ecstasy right?

It is cool to receive, but I want to give, but it has to be earned.

Scorpio women giving up the goods as far as the info is concerned..nice!! Kali..hmm..a lot of what you described as a Scorpio woman is the same I feel as a Virgo man. The similarities are so identical, I guess it's an even playing field with Scorpio and Virgo.

Posted by 25thDecan
And dude...you don't have game. You're a virgo and when titllated, you're ever the opportunist...the dimwitted sweet talker...an accidental romantic. Game belongs to leo dudes. Real talk....well...I take that back....those early September virgos have game and could give a fuck about scruples. LMAO

Nah, leo's are full of shit half the time, and they exaggerate the actual sex count they hold on themselves. They talk smooth, but they don't walk smooth unless it's to impress people just like aries. Sag people are the only ones who can care less if they impress their friends with the women they sleep with because they just fuck and not tell anyone about it (which is weird because they tend to tell everyone about everything they do besides the women they screw)

you are right though, majority of the virgo guys with "game" have always been the guys in mid-september, second decan.

I have met a good deal of scorpio's, but I have never been interested in them, and the Scorpio women i met have always told me psycho stories about themselves that made me want to back track from them. Sure, I will sit there and listen to problems about family issues, but as soon as you start talking about how you were going to kill your pregnant mother by almost stabbing her then I'm gone...

Well, good luck man. 🙂

kali -- you explained us so beautifully... it's like climbing the stairs slowly but upwards.

aquila -- I always appreciate that Scorpio women like you are here and take the energy to explain us so beautifully.

sure.. for me it is always difficult to EXPLAIN, because we want to be UNDERSTOOD rather.

DY.. I mean.. what can I say...? I am happy you met your Debra and I am so grateful you explain for us.

Virgo to me is truly phenomenal. We have our times and extremes but I think it is a win situation for those who know how to make use of.

Sorry.. don't agree with the extremists here. They had bad experience. Instead of correcting it, they just get stuck on their failures.

Sounds like me and this guy I knew during college. We'd look, lock eyes, "accidentally" brush up against each another, lol- but I was too shy. Way too shy. And it never fully got off the ground.

I'm on my 5th Virgo. We're in the midst of settling down with one another now. Wish me luck, and best to you.

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Posted by S Love

are scorpio women bad news?

They can become quite demanding and controlling.
Flies with some Virguys, but definitely not me.

Highly insecure, emotional, irrational and prone to jealous fits and illogical outbursts. Enjoy quarreling and playing the victim.
Live in a bubble.

Fights for control.

You got to put up with a lot of crap, ridiculous enquiries and give lots of reassurance.

she reminds me of myself in a way, she is very conservative like me, she tries to sneak a look and I'll catch her, I'll try to sneak a look and she'll catch me. Sounds like a childish game huh? well I agree, I don't know why I haven't stepped to her, I think I waited too long now it's an uncomfortable nervous feeling between us two. The reason I know she feels nervous cuz I remember one time I was walking towards her and she seemed to straighten up like "he's coming towards me."

It's all in your head buddy, you're overanalysing it. Just be yourself and everything will be fine.

Stop forecasting, stop thinking of what could be, stop trying to predict her motions, all these will come naturally in time. Attempting it at this early stage is just holding you back.

I think she needs some good loving..shit I know I do.lol I wont lie she has me open.

"She's bad..She's bad...She's bad all I know is I want her" Keith Sweat

Beware the Scorpio sting and their stare.

The juice isn't worth the squeeze, in my honest opinion.

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Boy you nailed it....that's exactly what happened to me..she was MANIPULATIVE, CONTROLLING, INSECURE, and tried to play mind games----> you can't do that with a Virgo...we'll win every time....

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Posted by S Love
Carribean thanks, I'm almost positive she diggz me I just have to make a move. I normally don't talk to or try to date women at my work place, but this might have to be an exception.

On another note..this a bit crazy..but sometimes I feel an intense(hate using that word) feeling in my body at night when I'm lying in bed when I think of her and it is strong..or maybe I'm buggin, but it feels energetic..wtf!! Somebody explain please!!

can any other Virgo or Scorpio attest to this feeling or am I just trippin?

my bf and i also met and work. yes..very intense magnetic feeling. even after 3 yrs. 🙂

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Well I'm cool breeze at work when around her, but when I get to the house and lay in my bed is when I feel it..like telepathy..naw this can't be..I'm imagining things, right?

Like, I feel the magnetism/intensity when I'm away from her, but I try to play it cool when I'm around her at work, and I try to avoid eye contact, but I know she tries and wants to make eye contact and sometimes I'll try to look her way, but when I do she'll try to avoid it by turning her head just in time. I guess it's too much sometimes, weird huh?!

Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
S love, talking about that strange Telepathy!!!!!!The Virgo I was with told me about this same thing when he was without me. I actually also felt this when I was thinking of him and surprisingly; he would coincidentally call me or text me every time I was thinking of him in a very profound way. Unfortunately, many times the Virgo confess too me that this unknown force between us scare him very much. Unfortunately, the my ex Virgo could not handle to this force that he thought it would make him become out of control. Scorpio me, I am used to perceiving this intense, karmic invisible forces with very few people. I don't feel this with everyone, but I know this guy was very special because I felt it with him. Internally he was an amazing person, but he was extremely repressed, thus making him act incoherently.

It feels good tho..it is intense..it's like a energy of sort going through my body..don't believe I have ever felt this feeling before..but I'd be damn if it is just me feeling it and not her as well, cuz then I would feel like a sucka, and I'm not with that!!

but damn, I want her!!!

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Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
S love, talking about that strange Telepathy!!!!!!The Virgo I was with told me about this same thing when he was without me. I actually also felt this when I was thinking of him and surprisingly; he would coincidentally call me or text me every time I was thinking of him in a very profound way. Unfortunately, many times the Virgo confess too me that this unknown force between us scare him very much. Unfortunately, the my ex Virgo could not handle to this force that he thought it would make him become out of control. Scorpio me, I am used to perceiving this intense, karmic invisible forces with very few people. I don't feel this with everyone, but I know this guy was very special because I felt it with him. Internally he was an amazing person, but he was extremely repressed, thus making him act incoherently.

It feels good tho..it is intense..it's like a energy of sort going through my body..don't believe I have ever felt this feeling before..but I'd be damn if it is just me feeling it and not her as well, cuz then I would feel like a sucka, and I'm not with that!!

but damn, I want her!!!

kidnap her.. den =X (ohh.. ohh..OHHHHHHHOHHOHOH ARRGGHHH!!!!)

hehehe

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Hahahahahahahahahaaaa!!!!!

who else but virgo... they fit into every scenario 😉

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Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
S love, talking about that strange Telepathy!!!!!!The Virgo I was with told me about this same thing when he was without me. I actually also felt this when I was thinking of him and surprisingly; he would coincidentally call me or text me every time I was thinking of him in a very profound way. Unfortunately, many times the Virgo confess too me that this unknown force between us scare him very much. Unfortunately, the my ex Virgo could not handle to this force that he thought it would make him become out of control. Scorpio me, I am used to perceiving this intense, karmic invisible forces with very few people. I don't feel this with everyone, but I know this guy was very special because I felt it with him. Internally he was an amazing person, but he was extremely repressed, thus making him act incoherently.

It feels good tho..it is intense..it's like a energy of sort going through my body..don't believe I have ever felt this feeling before..but I'd be damn if it is just me feeling it and not her as well, cuz then I would feel like a sucka, and I'm not with that!!

but damn, I want her!!!

kidnap her.. den =X (ohh.. ohh..OHHHHHHHOHHOHOH ARRGGHHH!!!!)

hehehe

Hahahahahahahahahaaaa!!!!!

naow wouldn't you like that be you!! 😉 just give me a call anytime for my services hon.

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Tee hee hee. You didn't see my smiley face? It's puckering it's lips!

25 the Scorpio magnet lol

Posted by 25thDecan
Awww man. Damn arachnids. I need a cancer latina....who likes jazz music....LOL....NO SCORPIOS! LMAO

25thDecan please explain the dislike towards Scorpio women..the one I am tracking is gonna get it from me..if I choose so.
and I'll make her love it in every way!!

That is my plan..but the progress is taking some time for..I must be execute this task with proper precision!!

Posted by 25thDecan
I AM a jazz musician. Trombone...but because of the bell's I'm relegated to just writing music mp3's in cubase studio and trying to sell what I produce. This canNOT be happening!

I produce music for fun, I've used cubase before, I'm currently using Logic. I hope to sell one day, but it is my passion.

Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
S Love-the one I am tracking is gonna get it from me..if I choose so.
and I'll make her love it in every way!!

That is my plan..but the progress is taking some time for..I must be execute this task with proper precision!!

Mmmm, now that sounds pretty DIRTYYYY and it makes me wonder,"What is it that's she's gonna get from you"??Are you gonna make her scream with pleasure or something??Sorry for my perverted mind, I can't think of anything else LOL!

By the way good luck

Ha Ha..I will give myself(maybe) if she gives herself..and we'll both scream lol. No but seriously I can make her feel like she hasn't felt in a long time. I can see it in her face what she is missing.

Posted by 25thDecan
S love- yeah. I use reason when I'm at my coproducer's place. It's much better but I do fairly well considering myy background in all genres pretty much. One of my best friends uses logic. He's more piano savvy so...lol. good luck with that. Utilize those minor space chords.

Yeah, I use Reason in slave mode with logic, what kind off board do you have?

I hear random stories of these two signs working out and I am in awe of that. I am a scorpio and have dated 3 virgos, same exact issues with all 3 of them. I have sworn off any dating or romantic involvement with them, but they do at make awesome, caring friends.

If you are one of the few that can make it work, kudos and congrats, I hear it's a wonderful thing, based on my experiences and a majority of what's posted online, it typically crashes and burns in firey disaster.

Posted by Elorina
I am a scorpio and have dated 3 virgos, same exact issues with all 3 of them. I have sworn off any dating or romantic involvement with them,

Explain.

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Posted by Elorina
I am a scorpio and have dated 3 virgos, same exact issues with all 3 of them. I have sworn off any dating or romantic involvement with them,

Explain.

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The issues were fairly common from what I hear, they'd get lost inside themselves and clam up for weeks on end to "work things out internally" for issues that weren't even theirs, like a friends problem or something, analyze everything to death to the point it would take the fun and/or spontanaeity out of things, if they didn't get the reaction they wanted after they said something, they'd never say it again and so forth.

The relationships themselves were all pretty great, I have only ever really been in love with 2 people and both were the virgos (the last one was close). The problems boiled down to communication and different problem solving skills in life. Communication is a key thing though so since it lacked or when it was there came off rather "no it all" like, it wasn't for me.

Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
Now that's sad Eloina. You came across Virgos that are not too evolved maybe??Well, I had a bad experience with only one. Who knows that if, in the future, I would meet another Virgo again and see how things would go?(Hopefully well)

Perhaps they weren't but the heartbreak I had from 2 of those was unlike any other, it was beyond bad. I say kudos to you for be willing to put yourself out there again should the situation present itself, and to anyone that does. I am just stubborn and hold the thrice bitten mentality

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Posted by Elorina
I am a scorpio and have dated 3 virgos, same exact issues with all 3 of them. I have sworn off any dating or romantic involvement with them,

Explain.

The issues were fairly common from what I hear, they'd get lost inside themselves and clam up for weeks on end to "work things out internally" for issues that weren't even theirs, like a friends problem or something, analyze everything to death to the point it would take the fun and/or spontanaeity out of things, if they didn't get the reaction they wanted after they said something, they'd never say it again and so forth.

The relationships themselves were all pretty great, I have only ever really been in love with 2 people and both were the virgos (the last one was close). The problems boiled down to communication and different problem solving skills in life. Communication is a key thing though so since it lacked or when it was there came off rather "no it all" like, it wasn't for me.

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ick I meant "know it all" like, not no it all

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Posted by Elorina
I am a scorpio and have dated 3 virgos, same exact issues with all 3 of them. I have sworn off any dating or romantic involvement with them,

Explain.

The issues were fairly common from what I hear, they'd get lost inside themselves and clam up for weeks on end to "work things out internally" for issues that weren't even theirs, like a friends problem or something, analyze everything to death to the point it would take the fun and/or spontanaeity out of things, if they didn't get the reaction they wanted after they said something, they'd never say it again and so forth.

The relationships themselves were all pretty great, I have only ever really been in love with 2 people and both were the virgos (the last one was close). The problems boiled down to communication and different problem solving skills in life. Communication is a key thing though so since it lacked or when it was there came off rather "no it all" like, it wasn't for me.

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Sounds about right, I don't know why we are wired like this, and why we worry so much, and why we think/analyze so much. I can't even watch and enjoy a game cuz there is always something on my mind. Maybe I am thinking about the future of myself and self improvement.

I know we're a handful, but it aint nothing we won't do for a loved ones.

excuse me.."for our loved ones"

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Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
Now that's sad Eloina. You came across Virgos that are not too evolved maybe??Well, I had a bad experience with only one. Who knows that if, in the future, I would meet another Virgo again and see how things would go?(Hopefully well)

Perhaps they weren't but the heartbreak I had from 2 of those was unlike any other, it was beyond bad. I say kudos to you for be willing to put yourself out there again should the situation present itself, and to anyone that does. I am just stubborn and hold the thrice bitten mentality

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Your ex virgo hurt you huh? What did you do for them to break your heart, I'm just curious.

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Now that's sad Eloina. You came across Virgos that are not too evolved maybe??Well, I had a bad experience with only one. Who knows that if, in the future, I would meet another Virgo again and see how things would go?(Hopefully well)

Perhaps they weren't but the heartbreak I had from 2 of those was unlike any other, it was beyond bad. I say kudos to you for be willing to put yourself out there again should the situation present itself, and to anyone that does. I am just stubborn and hold the thrice bitten mentality

Your ex virgo hurt you huh? What did you do for them to break your heart, I'm just curious.

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honestly, I have no idea. Keeps coming around trying to "fix things" but it's too late for that now. The one says he looks at me as his personal failure for him not figuring out how to make us work, while the other says all he wants is a chance to show me how he can be now that his mind is right. I understand people have issues at different times, but to randomly cut someone off with no word and disappear seems cruel to me. Even crueler to keep trying to comeback after something like that. Lol what is with that? Maybe you can shed some light?

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Now that's sad Eloina. You came across Virgos that are not too evolved maybe??Well, I had a bad experience with only one. Who knows that if, in the future, I would meet another Virgo again and see how things would go?(Hopefully well)

Perhaps they weren't but the heartbreak I had from 2 of those was unlike any other, it was beyond bad. I say kudos to you for be willing to put yourself out there again should the situation present itself, and to anyone that does. I am just stubborn and hold the thrice bitten mentality

Your ex virgo hurt you huh? What did you do for them to break your heart, I'm just curious.

honestly, I have no idea. Keeps coming around trying to "fix things" but it's too late for that now. The one says he looks at me as his personal failure for him not figuring out how to make us work, while the other says all he wants is a chance to show me how he can be now that his mind is right. I understand people have issues at different times, but to randomly cut someone off with no word and disappear seems cruel to me. Even crueler to keep trying to comeback after something like that. Lol what is with that? Maybe you can shed some light?

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Whoa...let me tell you sometimes I change in a heart beat, meaning that I could be laughing with you one minute the next I could be stone cold with a serious look on my face as if I'm not the same person, That throws people off.

I guess we just need space because we have a very busy mind, it never stops or slows down, sometimes I have trouble sleeping because I have a lot of things on my mind or I am thinking about something.(gift & curse) Sad story but I must have lost a girl/friend in the past because of my selfish ways, but she wasn't really my girl..she thought she was my girl, so I never really was around like she wanted me to be, so when she stopped answering my calls I tried to get her back on my team. Only if she was my woman I would have done her better, but she wasn't, it was more like a sex buddy type deal.

All I can say is..bear with us.

haha okay fair enough. I'll see if I can let me Virgodar down

Posted by 25thDecan
I knokw! It's sad! They must be latinas....cuz that's the only way. OMG what am I saying?

Lol! This might be the most hilarious forum and take on this subject I have ever read! lol

Ok S Love...Cajunspirit and 25thDecan are both psychos. Extremely funny psychos, as it seems are all Virgo men. Hence the attraction lol.

My Western sun and moon sign are both Scorpio. So I am supposedly the worst of the worst, lol, with all of my bad attributes amplified. But I believe in honesty to a fault. I absolutely believe in reciprocity, morality, and ethical behavior. I try to live by treating others as I would like to be treated. But I take it a bit further...I love God and myself. Because what does it matter if someone treats you as they would like to be treated, if they have no moral foundation and self love. Y yo hablo el espa?ol tambi?n. (25thDecan) lol

Do I like Virgo men? Well I had the same insane locked eyes across the room attraction to my first and only Virgo as you seem to be having with your co-worker. I was bar-tending at a nightclub and I swear I felt him walk into the room. I felt like I was being undressed by his stare. How did it end...think Hurricane Katrina and I was New Orleans. He is a September 2 born Virgo (like 25thDecan said...much game, little scruples).

However, what I have noticed is that, like Elorina indicated, between Virgo men and Scorpio women there is a communication problem. I like blatant honesty. Virgos seem vague or ambiguous. Like I said on another post I always felt as if I needed to write him notes with boxes that said check yes or no. I often wondered if he wasn't straight forward because he wanted to shield or spare my feelings. But I can deal with my feelings easier and resolve them quicker if I have honesty. I also like honesty because it gives a person the opportunity to make an informed decision. If you need to disappear to work something out...try something novel, like telling her before you disappear.

Will I do it again (a Virgo man)? IDK. They are like crack to me. Addictive. The high is wonderful yet I don't know if the havoc it they wreak upon your life is worth that momentary high. So why would I even consider it? The bedroom chemistry is off the chain.

Virgo men are addictive and we are as addictive to them. I do agree on the communication style . I think virgos are honest straight forward sometimes, but never are when they don't want something revealed about themselves. I am pretty good at psycho-anyalzing people and I feel when a virgo man speaks listen and learn to read between the lines. I am very straight-forward and I constantly remind my man do the same. Also, be patient... The first few months are the hardest. I know. I went through a lot. Virgos can be selfish and selfless as well. Selfish that they can be takers and never give. Selfless when they are in the right mood. I knew a virgo man at my job who was dating a pisces woman and he took advantage of her finincial.

Goki! Lol! Hahahahahaha!!

Gotta love virgo men! Their humor is the best!!

Yes we virgo are have a lot of tact in our humour, dont you feel?

Other aspects matter.
do they not?

In my experience with Scorpio women they talk alot and don't listen to me at all.
I do get along with some of them. It's just that the ones I've been with were 'my way or the highway' types.
The only problem is I'm like that too LOL.

Kinkaid, I agree we can hold that outlook. But I can honestly say, the mature scorpio women know to compromise and bend a little. It doesn't make me weak, it shows I am willing to give in a little to make sure my partner is happy too.

It is really based on one's maturity level.

Posted by CuspBorn
Lol! This might be the most hilarious forum and take on this subject I have ever read! lol

Ok S Love...Cajunspirit and 25thDecan are both psychos. Extremely funny psychos, as it seems are all Virgo men. Hence the attraction lol.

My Western sun and moon sign are both Scorpio. So I am supposedly the worst of the worst, lol, with all of my bad attributes amplified. But I believe in honesty to a fault. I absolutely believe in reciprocity, morality, and ethical behavior. I try to live by treating others as I would like to be treated. But I take it a bit further...I love God and myself. Because what does it matter if someone treats you as they would like to be treated, if they have no moral foundation and self love. Y yo hablo el espa?ol tambi?n. (25thDecan) lol

Do I like Virgo men? Well I had the same insane locked eyes across the room attraction to my first and only Virgo as you seem to be having with your co-worker. I was bar-tending at a nightclub and I swear I felt him walk into the room. I felt like I was being undressed by his stare. How did it end...think Hurricane Katrina and I was New Orleans. He is a September 2 born Virgo (like 25thDecan said...much game, little scruples).

However, what I have noticed is that, like Elorina indicated, between Virgo men and Scorpio women there is a communication problem. I like blatant honesty. Virgos seem vague or ambiguous. Like I said on another post I always felt as if I needed to write him notes with boxes that said check yes or no. I often wondered if he wasn't straight forward because he wanted to shield or spare my feelings. But I can deal with my feelings easier and resolve them quicker if I have honesty. I also like honesty because it gives a person the opportunity to make an informed decision. If you need to disappear to work something out...try something novel, like telling her before you disappear.

Will I do it again (a Virgo man)? IDK. They are like crack to me. Addictive. The high is wonderful yet I don't know if the havoc it they wreak upon your life is worth that momentary high. So why would I even consider it? The bedroom chemistry is off the chain.

Gotta question when you say the sex chemistry is off the chain, is it more to it besides the physical, is like a spiritual connection?

Posted by Scorporella
A lot of the negative comments or experiences with scorpio seems to happen with the younger scorpio women. I will agree that in our youth we can be a bit much to take. I wouldn't even like to hang out with the younger me. But as we age, mature, grow into ourselves, we soften much more, we become much more open, we become more available instead of always hiding behind our stingers. When we are young, we hide so much of who we are, because when we get hurt, we hurt to our very cores and that hurt can cause us to become self-destructive. When we are older, we're more accepting of our pain, of our emotional depths, and just aren't as protective of ourselves as we are when we were young, we're willing to be vulnerable. Young scorpios do not do vulnerability because they see that as a sign of weakness, older scorpios have come to realize that vulnerability can also be a sign of strength.

But yeah, there is definitely a deep soul connection between scorpios and virgos. From what I'm reading here though, it seems that perhaps it is more with the older virgos and older scorpios. I think in the younger ones, that connection is there but the risk of that connection is feared more than valued.

I agree with Scorporella, before adult hood why give yourself such a hard love life? You're there mainly to define yourself with pre-adult relationships. You haven't even found yourself, but trying to play as adults.

I wouldn't be clamping yourself down in a relationship with someone, just practice your skills about caring for someone without any benefit for yourself. In turn you will really find yourself in the process.

What kids should be doing is figuring our where you're headed in the future in terms of a profession. When you are settled and stable, then you're in a much better position to have even more fun and make committments

I think the Virgo male/female & Scorpio male/female is a very strong one & I whole-heartedly encourage it. Water & Earth sign coupling seem more solid to me than water-water & earth-earth.

Tydyed, I agree. Same here for my circumstance.

I am 26 and he is 36