Virgo woman dating a Scorpio man

Dating a Scorpio Man initial stages - I met this scorpio man during physio therapy at a clinic I was attending and he also ended up treating me. He was super inquisitive about my life and flirty overtime I saw him. As sessions happened every week he started telling me about girl scenarios, ex girlfriend scenarios, family life, etc.. So i open up bit to him but I'm pretty guarded so just bits at a time. It came to my last session an he asked me out. I said i wasn't sure if I would need to come back for treatment to him and because it was a good chance I would be that as much as I was interested we should probably just be friends. Fact is he's 29 and Im 37. I do look young for my age but I just thought the age gap was too much. Turns out I did have to go back to him for chiropractic therapy. In the last few months he's texted me about wanting to see me and lets go watch a movie and I've had to be honest with him about the age thing and also that I was sort of looking for something serious down the road with anyone I decided to date. So he said he was dating and he was looking for something also serious but wouldn't really know about that until he got to know someone (totally makes sense). He stop pursuing/texting me (which i noticed and was kind of disappointed but didn't blame him) and we did our sessions as per normal and then one day he asked again and I said yes. So he picked me up and we went out for dinner and drinks. During drinks he kissed me a few times like no one else was even in the room, he's definitley not shy but also ways hints about having sex ( I think he's testing me) but i went home and sent him home as well . after that we texted the next few days and then I hadn't heard from him in a week until my next session but I also didn't text him. The session was was as normal except for the fact that he grabbed me and kissed me (not that I'm complaining) and following that he texts me to apologize for the kiss in case it was inappropriate. We talked a bit and then he asked to come over this week before he leaves on a trip , which was sweet but then he jokingly asks if he sold bring wine, condom and flowers. I told him I wanted to get to know each other better and wasn't ready for that just yet. Im not sure what to do or what his intentions are here. I thought I would reach out for some thought here before I'm tempted to give into him. We haven't slept together (YET) but he's so intense I'm not sure how long that will last. When he kisses me its like he's saying I'm taking what I want. Again no complaints but I really like him so I need some help here before sleeping with him.

I've been going to him for treatment the last year, but we've only gone out once. I feel like we've been courting for the past 9-10 months due to treatment and I not trying to confuse the two but its become hard.

Please help.

I haven't finished reading this, but the first thing I would do... is make sure you are very sure he is never going to see this public post and know it's about him.

Agreed. I'm super private as well so I would never put him at risk that way. I just need some guidance.

It don't matter if it's hidden, trust me. You can find it, if you really want to start looking. And with a Scorpio? Nope.

Seems like he's overstepped the patient/caregiver boundaries in pursuing you.

But I have no frame of reference here...

I tried to read this again and I couldn't get past the lack of shift-space.

And I am very bored.

yes agreed he did overstep .. however it wasn't until my last session where he thought where no longer patient/caregiver that he asked me out..

I guess this whole scenario is just really like you said "comedy"

I put too much thought into it given its been a year we've been doing this dance...

thanks for the input though..

i am happy we made the connection regardless of the circumstances.I appreciate him waiting as well. I am worried about taking it to the next step to soon. I know scorpios and highly sexual but I really want to spend time with him growing the connection before move forward. We have a really good time together and we laugh a lot as well. He gets serious with me when he's trying to make a move which is irresistibly intense. I worried if i sleep with him too soon he'll no longer have that challenge.

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Posted by virgo29
yes agreed he did overstep .. however it wasn't until my last session where he thought where no longer patient/caregiver that he asked me out..

I guess this whole scenario is just really like you said "comedy"

I put too much thought into it given its been a year we've been doing this dance...

thanks for the input though..

The idea that he "overstepped" is somewhat in a gray area since he waited until the last session. It seems you two made a connection that he wasn't willing to lose so he made the best of the situation and waited until he believed the professional relationship was over.

And as far as "comedy"...this isn't comedy it's real life. Life is messy, it's disorganized, it never happens the way you've envisioned it. Does it really matter how you've made a connection (provided it's not illegal or morally reprehensible)?

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Are you drunk? This is all so optimistic, I knew you had a romantic side, hidden under all that fur!! ?

Posted by virgo29
...he jokingly asks if he sold bring wine, condom and flowers....

not another relationship thread

In need of some advice.. Im a virgo female and this scorpio guy and I took it to the next stage and had sex. It was great.. we had dinner twice after that and it didn't involve us having sex..he talked about not being a good cook but since I am he would do the cleaning to help out.. he brings over wine for our dinners and even offer to buy dinner incase I'm not up to cooking..before leaving on my trip he says to me that I'm all he wants to be with when I get back.. we communicate really well normally..when we're together its like no else even exists (at least tat how I feel).. he opens up to me and tells me about things that bother him, I never ask because I don't like prying and feel he should confide only if he trusts me.

i left on a trip for a week and we communicated even during my trip away.. when i got back he messages me but nothing about seeing one another.. we message for the next three days constantly and then all of a sudden nothing for 3 days. .. he mentioned having not such a good week but didn't want t talk about it so I respected that and told him i was around if he changed his mind..however i dd continue to shoot little texts back for the next couple of days and he responded..then i haven't heard anything..

So odd, he went from taking the bus to to be able to see me even though he was exhausted and had work the next day .... risking his job to see me, spend time with me...spending dates together not being sexual and just talking and confiding in personal matters about family and work..i know its only been three days but could this mean he's no longer interested?. ..

I'm confused..