What are you like when you're jealous?

I have very negative thoughts when i'm jealous (won't get into detail)
then again, I have Venus in Scorpio as well.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
You go first! How does Pisces express jealousy? 😄

hahahh well....
honestly can't remember the last time I felt jealous. I rarely get jealous tbh.

I envy people with alot of knowledge and deep wisdom, and instead of getting mad at them I start learning from them and looking up to them alot.

About the normal kind of jealousy, well when I get jealous I just feel really hurt inside, and then I just ignore whatever is happening.
I try not to let the other people know I'm jealous.

People take jealousy in a very wrong way. They don't try to go to the root of it, instead they will think you're wrong for having that feeling.

so why let them know?

So thats how I react, I hide it till I get over it 😄

Posted by Whatu
pretty much a heavy intoxicating feeling comes over me, but I'm kinda used to processing it subjectively now by seeking the root of that envy and then I am able to empathize with whoever I am jealous over and even enjoy the good feeling that they are having in that moment. Its very empowering once you shine some light on the problem.

You're probably an evolving/evolved Scorpio.

I think I'm an evolving Pisces aswell.

My Scorpio boyfriend (Sun/Moon/Venus/Mercury AND Jupiter!) doesn't display it obviously very often, but I can tell in his eyes when something is up.

When he has had a drink and his guard is let down he has been a lot more vocal about it and because I have an ex on my facebook who I dumped back in high school 20 years ago who has a girlfriend and had said a couple of stupid flirtatious things on my wall (freaking Gemini's, he wasn't like that when he was with me way back then but then again I was his first girlfriend so I was kind of taken aback) and my Scorp said that if he sees him post one more thing that he doesn't like he is going to rip the shit out of him online like he did with someone else who he thought was being creepy at me but we both totally took what that guy said out of context and then we both felt stupid.

Then out of nowhere he said to me in a very sharp tone, "Would you be happier if I was the Gemini?"

I was just like, "Woah, boopie, where's this coming from??" and he didn't respond he just looked at me with a very controlled rage behind his eyes. I didn't press further and if he wants to tell me something he will, and if he doesn't, I understand. I think he decided to not let his anger get the better of him even though he could have let it loose, he didn't want to upset me since once his rage is out he can't control it and will say things he regrets later.

Seriously, you Scorpios, once you've let the anger out, you just can't seem to contain it and are in it to win it. Cripes. I love his passion though and even if it's a bit scary seeing the anger in the eyes I am oddly turned on by it at the same time. LOL.

He and I had that discussion, and he also has his ex girlfriend from 10 years ago on his.
We both don't think it's fair to expect each other to delete them on facebook... and even though I really don't like his ex for my own reasons she is no threat to me and my ex is no threat to him.

I've already put the ex in his place after he made a comment that made me wince. I am also facebook friends with the exes girlfriend so if he says anything stupid I just say "so how's your girlfriend?" and that shut him up real quick.

Then I deleted the conversation because it just was embarrassing for me anyway. Scorp did see it but he didn't say anything til later... classic Scorpio style .

Sorry about the double post. Forum seems to run slow on here sometimes.

Posted by Reincarnation
I'm telling you what to do if you want your Scorpion to trust you.

You need to take initiative and remove him from your friend list. Trust me - it will make a big difference in his behavior.

"We both don't think it's fair to expect each other to delete them on facebook."

Fair? I don't understand this statement.

I agree with this.

If an ex is saying flirtatious things and you keep him on there, you are wrong. You said he has an ex on there too. Is she saying flirtatious things to him? I'm assuming not, or you wouldn't be so nonchalant about it.

Posted by Rabbit
I'd like to add...

No one is under any obligation to keep anyone as a "friend" on Facebook.

If you're having trouble "unfriending" an ex on social media, you probably should instead be examining whether or not you're ready for a relationship with anyone else.

Exactly. I hate that shit.

Posted by Piscescrazy91
Yeah I agree with Reincarnation

Scorpios dont deal in ' fair'
They're highly emotional and suspicious

In the long run they think it is fair because they are alot more emotionally involved in the relationship/friendship than normal people are

Actually I was willing to unfriend my ex. I had almost done so right in front of the scorpio but he said don't do it.


He still sometimes talks to his ex anyway, apparently.


Nonchalant? that's what I struggle with. I'm hardly apathetic about anything, that's just my shell. I'm quite watery myself as I have a lot of crab in my chart, Scorpio decans.
spilling my emotions about this right now isn't something I wish to do at this time, please understand I'm actually the "jealous" one in the relationship... but that's because I am way more demonstrative with it and can't contain it when triggered.

I actually was the one who suggested us both deleting. However if he won't do it neither will I.

Posted by Noddy

I actually was the one who suggested us both deleting. However if he won't do it neither will I.

Good for you.

He said that because he wanted you to choose to delete him yourself without him having to tell you to do it. I've done the same thing.

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Posted by Shruikan
He said that because he wanted you to choose to delete him yourself without him having to tell you to do it. I've done the same thing.

Why can't you Scorp men just trust your SOs. jesus come on now...

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Cause... cause we're crazy? I'm working on learning to trust. But I'd be lying if I said I don't get upset over trial things like Facebook. I'm a bit possessive even though I try not to be.

I tend to start jumping to conclusions when I'm jealous and stuff.

Posted by Shruikan
He said that because he wanted you to choose to delete him yourself without him having to tell you to do it. I've done the same thing.

I am the one who initiated the whole thing, though. My idea.

Looking back now it would be weird, though. I talk to my exes current girlfriend. It probably sounds insane, I know. But she came to me when the Gem brought home a chinchilla and they had no idea what to do and because I have had one for almost 15 years they asked me for advice. So I wrote 'em a novel. LOL.

I do everything I can to maintain trust with my Scorp. Shit, I've even given him my passwords to my facebook and email and never would I have asked for that in return. He never uses those passwords and he told me not to give them to him. But I did anyway.

I even tell him HEY, STALK ME.
I think it's hot. It's not about trust so much for me as a kink, though. It helps that I have nothing to hide anyway.

Posted by Noddy

Posted by Shruikan
He said that because he wanted you to choose to delete him yourself without him having to tell you to do it. I've done the same thing.

I am the one who initiated the whole thing, though. My idea.

Looking back now it would be weird, though. I talk to my exes current girlfriend. It probably sounds insane, I know. But she came to me when the Gem brought home a chinchilla and they had no idea what to do and because I have had one for almost 15 years they asked me for advice. So I wrote 'em a novel. LOL.

I do everything I can to maintain trust with my Scorp. Shit, I've even given him my passwords to my facebook and email and never would I have asked for that in return. He never uses those passwords and he told me not to give them to him. But I did anyway.

I even tell him HEY, STALK ME.
I think it's hot. It's not about trust so much for me as a kink, though. It helps that I have nothing to hide anyway.

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I think jealousy is okay itself being the cray taurus mars I am. It is a two way street tho and if he isnt going to delete his ex you have the right to keep yours.

I dont understand the whole keep exes on facebook though. Especially if your current partner has problems with them or if they be flirty and all that good stuff. Exes should always stay exes.

Well my Scorpio is the only one out of all of the exes combined, even, who knows every vulnerability I have, everything about me... as over the years we were friends it was he that I came to when I was vulnerable, and he was there to make me laugh through every painful or awkward day I had over the 8 years before we got together. It was because of him I realized that I had walls up all this time (walls I put up while in relationships, not with friends), since once the friendship turned romantic, he asked me something and BOOM! A wall. It was actually quite startling and woke me up.

I decided right then that I had to tear down every single wall that popped up on the spot. I never allowed myself to be vulnerable with the others because trust is not something that I dole out so easily, and this Scorpio earned it beyond anything I thought was possible, so I can't lie to him, that would make me sick to my stomach.

At any rate, I am sure I embarrassed my ex enough to keep him from saying anything stupid again, as he has kept things at an appropriate distance ever since.

Posted by Piscescrazy91
I know ...they're crazy, but amazing

Without a doubt it really takes a lot of energy to genuinely and unconditionally love a Scorp