What do you feel about Pisces?

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Hey there fellow Scorps!

I've known two Pisces girls till now and both times I've experienced hostility in the friendship. The first Pisces girl would be sweet to me on the face but talk behind my back to other people. I have to say, I always thought that she was too pretentious and self obsessed. ๐Ÿ˜ We would co-operate on group projects but that's it.

The second girl was a good friend to me at first but later on I started to get the feeling that she often tried to pull my strings and control me in a way. It was like everything she said had a hidden agenda of self interest. In the end, I got the same feeling as I had with the first Pisces chick.

So I'm just wondering, is this like a Pisces thing? Or have I just had two bad experiences?

What have been your experiences with Pisces?
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Posted by 18scorpio
I've experienced hostility in the friendship...I have to say, I always thought that she was too pretentious and self obsessed. ๐Ÿ˜ We would co-operate on group projects but that's it....



First, how are you defining "friendship". If you've "always" felt this way about her, then why would you develop a friendship with someone like that?
Posted by 18scorpio

The second girl was a good friend to me at first but later on I started to get the feeling that she often tried to pull my strings and control me in a way. It was like everything she said had a hidden agenda of self interest. In the end, I got the same feeling as I had with the first Pisces chick


Second, I'm still missing the hostility you've mentioned. It sounds more like water mirroring at play. You don't really trust them and rather than distance yourself you've maintained "friendships" with these women and the mustrust continued to play itself out.

Posted by 18scorpio

What have been your experiences with Pisces?
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Very pleasant, enjoyable and comfortable. One of my dearest friends is a Fish, but I enjoy them overall. Really nice connection. My girlfriend and I have had our issues, but when I reflect on it we were mirroring each other. Problem is she was (and can still be at times) very passive aggressive when she had an issue with me and I would simply withdraw (which is also passive) when I had an issue with her and it often took more time then necessary to work through our issues when they occurred. When we were younger I was very quick to blame her for our dynamic, but it isn't that simple. Water signs often feel something in others and react the best way they can or think is appropriate for them at the time. I point this out because I find it hard to believe that they didn't read something from you (maybe incorrectly--beause that can happens) and rather than address it directly it played out as it has. Maybe it was your mistrust or your dislike for some of the traits they displayed. We're you ever direct with them when you were aware of it?
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Posted by 18scorpio

The first Pisces girl would be sweet to me on the face but talk behind my back to other people.

I have to say, I always thought that she was too pretentious and self obsessed.





When you told her (to her face) that she was too pretentious and self obsessed ... what was her reaction?

or, is this behind her back, while you were sweet to her face?



Posted by 18scorpio

The second girl was a good friend to me at first but later on I started to get the feeling that she often tried to pull my strings and control me in a way. It was like everything she said had a hidden agenda of self interest.

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You're seriously a Scorpio talking about pulling strings and attempt to control you?

So, I take it that you believe nobody in here has ever had relations with a Scorpio before, and so they wouldn't notice, and would just believe you.

Personally, I like Pisces people enough. Well, as much as the rest.

I like myself a hell of a lot.
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I only know one pisces and she's female. While I agree with the fact that they seem like social and friendly people and very kind/mannered people.

She has a tendency to be clingy and self righteous. Sometimes I feel like I can't be myself with her because she will get mad at me for something LOL. Like she will condem me for being silly or making silly comments about any given topic.

So becuase she has a tendency to annoy me, I just to distance myself from her and only interact with her in moderation.
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@impulsv

My pisces coworker that i mentioned above are those things too especially where you said:

- Dishes shit n can't take it.
- she is overly loving yet domineering n controlling
- Rubs me the wrong way

She has this tendency to be overly aware of other people. She can't do anything without wanting a person around and will bug them until they agree to be around, rubs people the wrong way with her comments about things she acts like she knows what she's talking about (but really doesn't) and she tries to control situations.

She got mad at her bf becuase he wasn't playing tennis correctly. LMAO
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Posted by djbuck1
A Scorp (supposedly) trying to get other Scorps to participate in a "fish hate" thread. smh



Okay Mister, first of all I'd like to clarify this is not a "hate" thread - if I wanted to spread animosity I wouldn't ask what other people feel about Pisces. I also clearly mentioned "Is it just me?" because I've read and observed that other Scorps get along with Pisces quite well. What's wrong in trying to find out if other Scorps feel the same way that I do? Moreover, if I was so involved and committed to my "hate" (the way you put it), trust me, I wouldn't even care to consider someone else's opinion. So think about that before you "smh". ๐Ÿ™‚
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Posted by Impulsv
What can I say. Coworker is ..... A know it all, never wrong, judgemental yet Christian. Likes to talk how she is the only one that works around there. Dishes shit n can't take it. Seriously she went stopping to supervisor crying because after she bad mouthed Vietnamese food n the cancer pointed out it's originating from the French the cancer insulted her by pointing out all the astroucities the French did. Lol really cry n involve the supervisor!!!!
Puts a sign bad energy out good energy in. Wacko.




This sounds a lot like the first girl I used to know. Maybe they are Pisces exceptions?
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Posted by Infinite8
Hey 18scorpio,

I'm sorry, I've never had a bad experience like that with Pisces. I also get along really well with them (both sexes).

There was even this one guy(international student) in college who was very rebellious against authority and a lot of the other students. As soon as I met him, I let him talk and I observed. Gave him a smile and we became really good friends. It was funny because I had a calming affect on him. When around me, he would try hard to get along with others just for me. That was my worst case scenario of a Pisces and it was STILL pretty awesome in my book.



Hello!

Well that sounds like a good experience to have. I'll keep that in mind. Perhaps I'll have a similar experience too someday. Peace!