What's up with you Scorps?

I became involved with a Scorp. after knowing him for 6 months-casually. I went out on a date with him....he took me back to his place....made mad passionate love to me....told me he loved it and wanted me in his life....then dodged my phone calls for weeks! I don't get it.....what is up with you Scorps—? By the way I am a Libra woman.....Thanks

Maybe you should have gone to your place instead. Then you would have had the option to stay or go. Not to sound callous, but....as a Scopr female, I am very passionate, but my Scopr husband is not. Who knows! People are just people and very different. I hope you weren't too hurt.

Hi Scorp Girl.....
Yes I know I had the choice to stay or go....wow I'm a poet!!!! but he was so damn charming and sexy and he said all of the right things to me....even after we made love.....I was truly swept off my feet....and now all I do is think about him.....and yes it hurts!!! If he would have been honest....and said this is just a one-night-stand.....I would have had my fun and walked away.....why did he feel like he had to make it out to be more than it was—? and leave me here missing him—

Who knows why they do what they do. ...and once again, I believe it's not limited to the Scorp men. Maybe these guys think that if they were honest, we wouldn't "give it up" (and that's the way it should be when we're young.) However, when one reaches a mature age, one should be able to rationalize what's going on. Believe me, I'm saying that I condone casual sex with just anybody (and everybody). I just think that if you have an extreme attraction for someone and the feelings are mutual, intimacy can be wonderful for the soul. (...and NOTE, I said intimacy, not sex).

Oops! I meant to say that I don't condone (etc)

Hi...again....Scorpio Girl!!!
I know that you are right...and this probably is a personality flaw rather than an astrological profile flaw!!! I guess I am looking for something, other than my lack of judgement, to blame!!
Well you know what they say-"You live and you learn"!
Next time I'll listen with my head-not my heart (or my libido)!!! Thanks for your insight!!!!!

Hi there! Well, we all don't want to admit that we fall in love foolessly, but unfortun ately, it happens all the time. Oh could I tell you my stories!! The only thing to do is learn from each mistake that's made and just go on. I believe that if we do we are so much more stronger and able to give so much more next time around. It'll all come together.

Hi,my name is Dasha & I am gemini.Just from my experience of knowing some scorpio friends,want to share something with you.Unfortunately I have never had a scorpio man,only liked some but never got to know them close enough.But as I said I have some scorpio friends,just a few.With one I have been very close for years and we understand each other extremely well,but they are moments I start not to believe her anymore,because she also has interset in someone else,other friends.She really like aries people and always runs after them like blind and I dont think she gets what she wants from them or maybe she does.I dont know.But the point is that you start believing these scorpios and put some kind of faith into them and hope they will be with you for the rest of your life,but they are not really like that..They get what they want from people when they are down and then continue going on their own way..So dont you worry about this scorpio dud who left you,it hurts when they do that but you must be strong and get over it and say I will keep going without him and I dont need him,I can cope myself..Right?He broke your heart,so think of it that some day somebody else will break his and he'll know whats it like to be in pain..I dont know if my words helped u a little,but I hope that they did...Sometimes I wish I'de never met a scorpio so I dont have to think about them so much..They are tricky people who make u fall into their trap if u r not careful..
Best of luck to u,
gemini
remember to keep going,u'll find yourself a good leo guy some day,libras good with leos u know

Dasha - I felt compelled to respond to you. I am so sorry that you feel this way about scorps. I am one, obviously, and I pride myself on my honesty and faithfullness. I'm certainly not saying that I haven't slipped once in awhile, but who hasn't? Once I find a friend (no matter what their sign) I'm usually a friend for life. I've never kicked anyone they were down. I usually wind up putting myself in a spot trying to help them. I hope something, somewhere or time, will show you a difference. Take care!

Bethany - Hope all is well with you!

Hey,
man,what can I say? Dont think bad ok coz not every scorpio is like that,we are all people.The things I have said are not really true because I feel completely different, I was just trying to eat myself up,I dont know if u understand and plus was trying to give some advice to this girl,thats all.
I was just angry for something lately what my scorpio friend have told me.It just made dissapointed a bit in her again,but its ok I'll try to forget about it.
Honestly,as I have said I have a scorpio friend who I love the most from any of my friends,she is the only person who really ever understood me apart from everyone.I have been always faithful to her and never turned my back when she was down and nither has she and that kept us going as friends,plus we never had serious arguments between us.She completes me all the time,no other person ever understood me like she did.
But there are times when I start getting suspicious about her friendship or she just needs me when she's down or something..She likes aries a lot,because they have power and strenght and they are true people.
Gemini doesnt have much power, we have more insight inside us then power. I like to be open with people and co-operate with them,but scorpio a little opposite.
So dont get idea that I hate scorpios,I was just being horrible coz of this with my friend...
I am very attracted to them more then they are to me.
This is all truth,no lies for you.
Hope u understand now.
Have a nice day!

Hi Scorpio Girl.....
Sorry it has taken me so long to respond to your reply....it's been crazy around here!!!! Thank you for your insight, support, and understanding.....it has made me a stronger person!!!! A little update on the situation....he finally called me!!!! Gave me a bunch of lame excuses as to why he hasn't called before now...and asked me f I would come over and "hang" for a while with him!!! I told him that I do not appreciate the way that he treated me....and that I am NOT interested in having a relationship with him!!! He in turn told me to "go and #✨@ myself"!! Well I guess I read that one right....seems like he really cares....hunh—?? Thanks again for helping me to see that he doesn't deserve me!!
Thanks Again....
Bethany

P.S.-Dasha....I have to agree with Scorpio girl on your situation....it's not the zodiac sign....it's the person inside....but....thanks for sharing your story with me and for trying to make me feel better about mine!!!!

Hi,thanks for your attention.I understand what u mean.
Hope everything works out for u.
Bye D

Hey B! How's it going now? Hope you haven't spent too much time agonizing over him. Doesn't sound like he was right for you (or anyone else for that matter)! Chin up girl. Anything I might have said to help...cool! Hope all is well. The right guy will come along when you least expect it.

Hi Scorpio Girl-
I am good....and how are you?
I have taken some time for reflection and realized that he is not worth the tears! Such is life....and....life goes on!!! I have a big weekend planned that will hopefully take my mind off of HIM!!!! Are you doing anything special for the long Labor Day weekend?
Thanks for caring.....
Bethany

Hi Bethany! Thngs are going well here, except that it's raining buckets and doesn't look like it's going to let up. No, I don't have any plans for the long weekend. I had a BIG one last weekend. I think I'll take advantage of the long weekend to just veg. What are your plans? If you want, you can e-mail at rockin@corridor.net.

Hi Folks,

This seems a bit late. The discussion seems all but over, yet I
can't help responding. Haven't visited this site in a while.

Bethany, your story sounds quite similar to mine. I met a Scorpio
male last Sept' and I was literally swept off my feet. At first, I
really didn't think that it was serious or anything at all. But he
was just so romantic, and boy was he passionate!!! I simply
couldn't get over it.

But the same thing. He kept saying that he wants to be
with me etc etc.. The moment we did it (after 3 months of intense
dating) he became aloof and said that he needs some time
for himself.

All of a sudden the frequent calls stopped. But I couldn't get
over him and was very upset. However, I wasn't going to show
him my weakness. Unfortunately, these Scoprio males think
calling them often is a sign of weakness.

Anyway, I felt the same way as you did. That if he wanted a one
night stand then he should have just said it and I would have moved on.

But all that is behind now. Anyway, after a lot of soul searching,
and reading a lot of horoscopes and getting insight from this
site, I also learned that, Scorpios tend to take things extremely
slow.

So I decided to be patient. When I don't call he calls. When I
show that I am aloof he gets very attracted to me and wants me.

However, I have not let him touch me since then. I want him
to be very clear about what he wants. We still talk and he comes
occassionally. I try to control myself and he does not want
to break it off completely either. He makes sure that we are
still talking no matter what. For example, if I get really mad at
him, he will stay on the phone for hours or come over and make
sure that we are still "good friends". We flirt mentally but don't
get physical.

The truth of the matter is that he was so good that I am
willing to wait. He has hinted at that. He is trying to
finish his school ASAP and get a job. I already have a job
and am working and settled. So let's see.

I guess my advice to you would have been to wait and see
what does he really want and confronted him directly
as to what he meant that he wanted you in his life.

I guess, this is not much of a help. But still I thought I would
share my thoughts.

I think there is some fiery connection between Libra women
and Scorpio males.

Take care

Hi Libra in waiting....
I posted a message for you on your message board....Hope it helps!
Bethany

Maybe the "runaway Scorp" thought he made a mistake. Men, especially Scorpio men are so hard to understand.

Libra and Scorpio are NOT compatible!

Reading these postings made me feel obliged to state that I am a Scorpio male and that I truly feel sympathy for the person in question.
I think it is important to note that I believe the Scorpio male in question was basically trying to leave a passionate, blissfull and lasting impression on the female protagonist. It could be said that he achieved his objective, albeit heartlessly and selfishly.