when scorp wants someone

wow! Scorp in love! Beware my friend!!!
Scorp wants it all, your body, soul, thoughts, feelings, presence (time)...
Once they get all that...scorp will sting you so dreadfully that you will wish you were never born. Why am I like that? Will I ever change? Can you change?

RE: IN LOVE WITH A SCORPIO? BEWARE? YO SASY, GUESS WHAT? I WAS IN LOVE WITH A TAURUS. I GAVE HIM MY HEART, SOUL, THOUGHTS, FEELINGS, TIME, FRIENDSHIP, ETC. HE, MY FRIEND, WAS THE ONE WHO HURT ME IN THE END. AFTER MUCH INTROSPECTION, MY FINAL CONCLUSION IS, YES, IT TAKES TWO TO MAKE OR BREAK A RELATIONSHIP. BUT, IN THE END, I WAS LOOKING FOR AN EQUAL PARTNER IN A RELATIONSHIP, HE WAS LOOKING FOR A MOTHER FIGURE. HE HAD SERIOUS MATERNAL ISSUES. I REFUSED TO BE HIS MOMMY. TO BE WITH ME MEANT HE WOULD HAVE HAD TO GROW THE HELL UP, WHICH HE COULD NOT DO. WHEN I LOVE SOMEONE I LOVE THEM COME HELL OR HIGH WATER,THROUGH THICK AND THIN. I AM A PATIENT PERSON WHEN IT COMES TO OTHERS' SHORTCOMINGS AS I REALIZE I HAVE MY OWN. I HAVE NOT YET MET THE MAN I WILL SHARE MY LIFE WITH AS ALOT OF PEOPLE ARE GENUINELY AFRAID OF SCORPIOS. AND DO NOT TAKE THE TIME TO GET TO KNOW THE REAL US. VERY CARING, LOYAL, UNDERSTANDING PEOPLE. I KNOW I AM. I LOVED MY TAURUS MAN. I STILL DO DESPITE HIS LEAVING ME. HE WAS NOT STRONG ENOUGH EMOTIONALLY TO BE WITH ME AND HE REALIZED THAT. I FORGIVE HIM AND WISH HIM HAPPINESS EVEN IF IT DOES NOT INCLUDE ME. BUT HE WILL ALWAYS LIVE ON A CORNER OF MY HEART. WHAT WE HAD WAS MAGICAL AND I HOPE TO FIND THAT SPECIAL KIND OF COMRADERIE AGAIN. I WOULDNT SAY I LIVE BY HOROSCOPE SIGNS BUT I KNOW I GET ALONG FAMOUSLY WITH CERTAIN PEOPLE SUCH AS TAURUS, CANCER, VIRGO AND CAPRICORN. P.S. WHILE IN MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY TAURUS, I DID NOT TELL HIM WHAT TO DO AND WHEN, ETC. BELIEVE ME, HE HAD HIS FREEDOM. MAYBE TOO MUCH. NOT ALL SCORPIOS ARE POSSESSIVE FREAKS. I'M NOT. I'M A GIVING, LOVING PERSON. I EMBODY THE EAGLE, OR HIGHER TYPE, OF SCORPIO, NOT THE LOWER SCORPION. THOSE TYPES OF SCORPIOS USE THEIR POWER TO MANIPULATE, CONTROL AND HURT OTHERS. I DO NOT. I JUST HAVENT FOUND THE PERSON YET WHO WILL APPRECIATE MY STRENGTHS AND NOT BE AFRAID OF THEM. MANY MEN ARE INTIMIDATED BY A STRONG WOMAN SUCH AS MYSELF AND NEVER TAKE THE TIME TO FIND OUT THAT OUR STRENGTH OF CHARACTER AND PASSION ARE ASSETS TO BE CELEBRATED AND OFFER MUCH HAPPINESS TO THE MAN SECURE ENOUGHT WITHIN HIMSELF TO APPRECIATE THESE GIFTS. PEACE AND LOVE MY BROTHERS.........

I think that it is soooo sad that us Scorpios are usually totally misunderstood. We are able to give so much of ourselves and care so deeply for the people we keep in our lives and then it all eventually backfires. Nobody that I have ever met has ever been able to give the kind of unconditional love and tenderness that we give. Nobody seems to understand that when we give our hearts to someone, we think it is forever and we accept that person for who they are 100% (whether we verbalize it or not). I hope that more people can try to see through the rough exterior and understand their Scorpio loved ones for who and what they are.

Im in love with a scorpio man whom I met through a dating service on the phone. We have had been talking for almost 2 years and have seen one another once last year. Although we have made plans to send time together it has not happened. I am afraid that I will get hurt because I know deeply in love I could go. He is getting tried of waiting.

I agree Scorpios do want it all. But we also give all. Scorpios are very
loyal to those we love. We take marriage vows etc. seriously. But piss us off, we
never ever forget it and rarely forgive. There is a very sharp sting in the tail but
a very devoted and sexy, exciting partner if you give us a chance. Just don't be abusive
or unfaithful because there is no match for a scorned scorpio!

love.... what can i say.. love for a scorpio is true love... you will never ever ever forget them, after you finally move on, you're still attatched. i am not possesive, well wait, i am, but i dont act on it. It's something that i hold back because my knowledge has to be stronger than my "desires".. yes our key words are "i desire" doesnt that just say it all?

Why sting when you have it all? If it's what you want, open yourself up, trust, and enjoy the rewards. (Although trusting is THE hardest thing for a Scorp to do, but it is worth it's weight in gold.)

I just want to echo the sentiments of Feisty Girl ( Missy ). When we give, we give it all, we will make ourselves vulnerable to someone that we truly love. Although everyone I have ever met claims to want unconditional love , very few people can actually deal with someone who can give that much of themselves, possibly because we illuminate others inability to reciprocate our affections.

A scorned Scorpio is DANGEROUS! Don't even THINK of straying from his bed! He'll NEVER forgive you!

How can you guy be like that! When scorpio loves, scorpio loves with all him might. For a scorpio sex isn't just a doing, it's the coming toghether of two souls, two minds, to bodies. They are wise bejond words and ahead of their time.

Taurus Lady

How can you guy be like that! When scorpio loves, scorpio loves with all his might. For a scorpio sex isn't just a doing, it's the coming toghether of two souls, two minds, to bodies. They are wise bejond words and ahead of their time.

Taurus Lady

Nice to hear from some scorpio ladies who echo my sentiments about how scorpio men love. Why are we so misundersdtood—— Is it because the majority of the populace feels uncomfortable or is just plain unable to love as unconditionally as we are—??

There still seems to always be limits to everything.

What would push a Scorpio man away?

There have been several people that have posted about loving them (Scorp males) only to have them leave their lives! Why?

You have menitoned that Scoprio me are loyal, loving, protective, intense, etc...what makes them stop loving someone they once were so in love with?

Susan

Sorry, That should read 'you have mentioned that Scorpio men' are so blah blah..

you people are so wise...

"very few people can actually deal with someone who can give that much of themselves, possibly because we illuminate others inability to reciprocate our affections. 110 % true."True... True...."And why aren't we understod it's bcuz noone takes the time to investigate what's beneath. unless they are scorpios.

You are right--but don't forget how good Taureans are at figuring us out and taking the time to go beneath the surface. I've gotten deeper relationsips with Taureans than I have from almost any other sign perhaps with the exception of Cancer or another Scorpio.

Love,
Heather

That would be "relationships"...how about a damn spell-checker for these boards huh??! lol.

Heather

I think the one thing Caps and Scorps have in common is exactly that: the same need to very slowly letting people in. Both signs make for vulnerable people and both signs take relationships and love very seriously. No one gets in easy with either sign. Trust is an issue and I think caps have a better defense against emotions while Scorpios allow themselves or cannot prevent themselves from feeling very very deeply. Capricorns feel as deeply, but can somehow present themselves as not being that way. It is only in appearance that Caps don't feel. The reality is that they do. People who son't know them can easily accuse them of having ice running through their viens, while people who know them well find them hypersensitive. Scorps on the other hand, need to see the emotion displayed on the other person. So maybe Taurus displays more or better. But I think it's true that Scorps are sexual, but that sex is also a way, if not THE way, for them to connect, control, and get the emotional connection they need. Caps are known to be the horniest signs, while Scorps are known to tbe the most sexual. I think there is truth in that which make them a good match.

Oh yeah, and if Caps are good at anything and need anything, it is to do exactly what is mentioned in the previous post. Get to know the person and dig deeper. So Caps do have the patience needed to play the push and pull game of the scorp. In fact, Caps tend to play the same game, a bit differently.