Curious Crabs?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by phoenix_rising on Wednesday, March 26, 2003 and has 71 replies.

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@phoenix_rising
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I'm a scorpio (I know everyone knows this, but just in case you're new around here or something), and I was wondering if Cancers are as curious as Scorpios. If something sparks my interest, or someone, I want to find out like every single detail about them and it can be a little out of control. lol. I mean, I'm certainly not a stalker or anything, but I definitely can get a little obsessive about digging up the truth...about their past, their present, their future, what they ate for breakfast three mornings prior, what fabric their socks are made of...lol, I'm just kidding, but you get the idea. The good thing is, I only do this with things or people that interest me, not every little thing. I'm no Virgo. 😛 (haha)

Anyway, I was just wondering if Cancers are more like Taureans (very accepting of whatever "seems" to be on the surface), or more like Scorpios (who would sooner poke their eyes out with sharp sticks than "accept what's on the surface" or "take it at face value")...when it comes to curiosity?

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definitly, but scorpios are more direct about it i think, i never accept things at face value. sometimes we should though. i think we(scorps and cancers, and pisces) know we dont show all the cards and assume noone else is so we try to find what we think is hidden. i dont know if that makes any sense. my emotions are pretty strong so i like to try to inform myself of things even if they arent quite openly presented, so i dont get blind-sided later.

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@phoenix_rising
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thanks for your input cj7 🙂

Cancers are so quiet though, I never know what they're thinking/feeling/whatever, it drives me insane. So I was wondering basically if they're as insane as I am. lol 😛

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when something sparks my curiosity i can get alittle obsessive about satisfying it. i do have virgo tendencies, but it does have to be something that matters or affects me directly.

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@cj7
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when im in a bad mood, i also clam up, i think im afraid to let it out because it could be really bad, or i might vent on someone and thier not the real cause of the problem.

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@phoenix_rising
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exactly. if i feel like my temper is about to explode, i have to get away from everyone really fast otherwise i will unleash it on the very next person who even slightly irritates me. can you say "anger management classes"? lol

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@cj7
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trust me alot of people get the virgo side only and most are surprised when they get to know me better. when someone makes me feel comfortable, i open up more about what going on inside.

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@cj7
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ive left christmas dinner early before after getting a phone call from an ex girlfriend(scorp) because it totally flipped my mood and people started asking what was wrong and i felt so emotional at the time i had to leave and let it out somewhere else. i had a lot of pain and anger inside.

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@phoenix_rising
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and that would be an example of a destructive cancer/scorp relationship. I know how that goes. Scorpios, we can be really evil sometimes. Okay now I have a guilt complex because of your ex-girlfriend. LOL

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I don't think it's rude. I think it would have been rude to stay there and bring everyone down because of how you were feeling. But what I think is the rudest is calling your ex-boyfriend on christmas and putting him in such a bad mood that he has to leave a family gathering. lol.

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or maybe you don't have to "figure it out", you'll just "know". lol, at least I hope that's how these sorts of things go...it seems like that's what everyone says on talk shows..."and I just KNEW he/she was the one for me" lol

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@phoenix_rising
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dude, I totally thought you were talking about the ex when you said november. LOL. I was like, "wow, I guess I'm not as good an investigator as I thought" LOL. I'm okay now. Deep breath. lol.

Yeah, I guess it's late where you're at.

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