Where is G-Virgo for this one...

I need your opinion and others....

If a passive Virgo girl is in love with a Scorpio.. will he be able to control and manipulate her emotionally because he is known to be GOOD IN BED? Do you think they are THAT good anyway??

First of all although every scorpio is aware of their sexual ability were not impressed by it and usually take it for granted. If shes in love with him and has told him so, she can be sure hes in love with her. Scorpio guys love Virgo girls. Im in love with one and Id do anything including kill or die for her. If hes in love with her she doesnt need to worry about being manipulated. Despite being aware of our sexual prowess, were terrified of being used or taken for granted so when we find someone who actually does love us, we'll bend over backwards to keep them.

Thank you 205.. You sound wonderfull..
It makes more sense to me now.. Scorps are afraid of being used BECAUSE they know they are good.. I've also noticed that they seem to take time to defrost and do not easily get involved in relationships... For a very passionate person it must be difficult for them to be on their own and must miss that part of life which is so important to them surely....I know a Scorp who was in a very serious relationship for 4 years... the girl up and left him.. That was a couple of years ago and he has not got over it yet!!!! He is georgeous... but not interested in a relationship yet.. I hope he will get over her eventually.. It seems such a waste..

Scorps really do get a lot of bad publicity.. We need someone to give some possitve vibes for a change, from the heart...

It has been said that they are the most misunderstood people as well.. Do you agree? Is it because they are not good at expressing themselves about how they REALLY feel?

We are misunderstood, and I hope the following helps to educate the masses. First of all were perfectionists,almost to the point of being anal retentive and our favorite subject of scrutiny is ourselves. Were always trying to improve ourselves, learning all that is to be learned ,streamlining the process, trying to work smart not hard, simplifying etc, etc.......... The only problem with all that introspection is that it creates an individual that some insecure people might view as arrogant although its really confidence.
Ive always heard that communication is the key to a good relationship but I could talk and talk and talk and you would still not understand me unless you had some insight as to where my head is. Although the english language is a beautiful amalgym of other languages and contains a word for everything, slang , rhetoric and even geographic location have reduced it to a language in which words have double even triple meanings. "Bad" is good, "Fresh" ,"Dope" and 'Tight" are used as synonyms for cool .....etc etc. Unless you know the persons mind set and in which context they use their words you will never know what they mean. Even "I love you" has multiple meanings because Ive heard people say that I love you but Im not in love with you. Word play or double talk—.
As far as us being afraid of being used because we know were we are good I have to clarify. Lets say you were a good singer and youve sang all of your life, in fact you find that it comes naturally because you have what is called soul fetish. Others rave about your ability however you dont really see it as that big of a deal because youre used to it and take it for granted and are actually dismayed why everyone else cant do it. Thats how scorpios view sex. We are passionate by nature and naturally develop into extremely passionate lovers which we then take for granted but are always willing to share. As far as taking time to defrost we just want to be sure about the other persons intent because when we fall, we fall all the way. Were not cold at all, in fact were ever hopeful but we are also cautious because like you say we do miss that part of life which is so important to us. Therefore we will not make ourselves vulnerable to being hurt unless we know the chances of being emotionally traumatized are slim. Its all a matter of self preservation. Once were reassured though , were like a wildfire, sometimes to the point of posessive jealousy.
Were not stuck up cuz were good in bed and refrain from becoming attached because we know it . In fact our sexual ability and our emotional selves are two seperate and distinct entities ., which only combine when we know that were not gonna get hurt. We can have great sex without love just by our nature but when we find ourselves in a good and mutually loving relationship, sex takes on a whole new dimension of passion, intimacy and hedonism. In other words yeah were good but if were in love were even better.
As for myself Im totally in love with a Virgo girl who is much younger than I and I tell her in no uncertain terms about it. The only thing I havent cofessed to her yet is that I want to marry her. But I will....
I hope this helps

OOps sorry 168. 205 here and the above was written by me in response to yours. I dont know why the IP number is different today but I just wanted u to know it was me.

G-virgo was here !!! My opinion is that we as virgos try our best to satisfy u .Sexually and emotionally .And we can be blunt because we hide our feelings too much especially when we're in love.And for that , it causes vulnerablity in you and your mate.And the blossoming relationship might fade out because of that.But in everything, there is a brightside to it.Give that person that you love a chance to make it up.He may be headstrong with his feelings for you and it will be tough sorting it out , but u2 will make it work in the end.It just takes time and patience.

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Thank-you 205 Once Again... & you G-Virgo...

I DO understand my Scorp a lot better now. In fact youve helped me more than you'll know! I would not have realised that were both afraid of our very strong and emotional feelings for each other. We're both afraid of being hurt... I know that I'm falling in love with him and I'm afraid to give myself completely because I don't know how much of himself he's willing to give. I don't only want the sex, I want the whole man). I've heard that if something better comes his way a Scorp can walk away without a backward glance!!

Perhaps if I give him a little more time he will be able to re-assure me the way you have your girl and who knows, I think we'll make SOME magic...

Once again Thank-you for taking the time to write me and I wish you and your girl all the love and happiness you deserve... You do sound wonderfull and she's a lucky girl...