G-Virgo here.Anyone missed me ?

I thought i'd dropped a line to say hello to everyone.I know it's been a while since i replied to anything.Did anyone miss me ?

hey g-virgo, i have a question for you.

whats you opinion of a virgo dating another virgo? i am absolutely head over heals for a virgo that i have known for years. things keep building up to a point and then he just crawls back into his shell, and we're back to stage one. i understand a virgos need for near perfection in a relationship... but to me this does seem perfect, and i dont know whether to follow the whole 'if you love him, set him free' train of thought, or whether to confront the guy and get straight answers. any ideas welcome.

kate.

Love?

Only a fool thinks that love loves anyone.

I loved a man and I reached out to him and the love was strong but something just went wrong and now I am all alone once again and thinkin that maybe I was wrong. But Im not takin all the blame for this myself. It takes two to make it work. So if you find someone you love hold on real tight and dont let it get away. You will know true love because it gets all the way down into your bones; you never need to ask is this real because you just know it ; you can feel it. You now what Im sayin, Go for it!

I havent known him for long, but I am a better person for knowing him.

i can so relate to you on that wonderbox, i had a boyfriend who hurt me in a many ways, but i guess love "blinds" you. And love can be that "shield" to blind yourself from the truth. Eventually, we broke up and i too, started wondering if i was the wrong one in the relationship..but, yeah, got over it. And i hope you get that special someone and he never lets you go.

I wasnt blinded; my eyes were wide open and so was my heart and I let it take over me. It is crazy to feel so rapped up and this is all I think about and care about and want to be with....and that 'someone' is very special. I just wonder when I will start sleeping again? or at least get a decent nights sleep! this is rough, I can tell you tthere is no other man like this man!!! Thanks Luz.

Hi kate !! Sorry if i didn't get back to you quickly enough, but yeah , get some answers from him , but don't force the questions down his throat.He might be a shy and sensitive guy so maybe he's afraid of getting too close or having his heart broken.Either way , don't be overzealous over his defense of his heart.I hope this will be perfect advice for a perfect couple !!

thanks g-virgo,

i think you're right about his defence mechanisms, they're extreme. i have some myself but i let them down when it comes to him. i think i have my answers though, i dont like them, but what to do? thankyou for your posts everyone.

kate.

he's got the same birthday as you g-virgo, thats why i was asking.

g-virgo,

Yep, I missed you! Glad you're back 😉

Don't be a stranger 🙂

Heather

Hey there buddy...

How has life been treating you? Good I hope.

I'm doing great sloane despite all my inner demons.How about you ?