where is that stinger?!

hey guys... So a few wks ago I posted how my virgo and I split. I've been doing good... Told him to finally leave me alone and I started feeling like myself again. Out of nowhere he texts me on sat talking abt the break up... What gives?! Didn't see it coming and somehow it brought back all of this confusion. If this is what he wanted, why does he keep trying to justfy it? Would you all respond? Normally I would of already done so... But I feel like I'm standing back, waiting for the perfect opportunity... Any of you all do that as well? I just know the more I wait, the least likely I'll be able to control how hurtful I can be. And for as coldhearted as I can be... I don't want to hurt anyone intentionally. I don't understand why he's even trying to kp in touch.

decan: be nice.. I haven't communicated with him at all for about 3 wks now... He's the one trying.

Posted by 25thDecan
*shrugs
I had a scorp literally PLAN for me to be the guy she "did wrong" because she couldn't and didn't do it to her previous bf.....so guess what happened? I just...moved on. The best thing you can do is move on. The negativity you put back into his emotional toying is going to just multiply the negativity associated with your life. Why put yourself in such a quagmire of second guessing and anger? Move on and you'll come out of this so much the better for it.

I agree. Just move on. Being mean and hurtful will not do anything but create bad energy for you. In fact, sometimes when I am mean, I find that I literally become more upset the meaner I get. Lol. It is as though I internalize the anger that I am attempting to transpose to the other person. This is why I have learned it is best to just keep it moving.

thanks guys!! Awesome! 🙂

No prob! 🙂

Posted by elihope69
he must be horny. give him the cold shoulder we scorpios can make the cold shoulder sting for sure.

I did. Haven't heard from him since. 🙂