who would win—?

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I think their is a power struggle between them in the beginning....As Cancer's are outwardly more emotional and sensitive....And Scorpio's are the same, but more in introverted way....They both have a hard time letting theit guard down,,,and exposing their soft side...so both ACT tough..once theu TRUST another, it can be smooth sailing...but initially I think it could be quite bumpy...especially if both are feeling deeply about each other...Because the deeper I feel for aomeone...The more I try to fight it..because of the fear of rejection. I'm just speaking in the matters of a romantic relationship.
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"They are. But when you have ultimate power......um ....I really don't see Cardinals sharing it(power). Any of them."

I know what you are talking about here.. I am a combination of 3 Cardinal signs, Cap Sun, Aries Ascendant and Cancer Moon. Power is always power, sometimes even invisible.. My hidden things so I don't like to talk about it more.

Personally I think Scorpio and Capricorn makes a great team. Never underestimate neither of them. Now it may look you are winning but it's never over till it's over..
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Sb

That is a very good question and a little hard to answer, but I will try my best. 🙂

If someone was to present and idea that was best for all involved, I would probably say "Great idea Whomever! We should do that! What does everyone else think?" I would probably gently try to persuade everyone else to agree, all the while giving credit to Whomever.

Even when I have had the best answer and got everyone to agree, I usually give the credit to we not me. Winning/power isn't important, nor is getting credit for winning/power, but having everyone feel good and move together in a cohesive, united way that is best for everyone, is important.

I realize this isn't a very clear or concise answer, but it is the best I can do.
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I can see what you are saying sb.

I do think collaborating and sharing ideas is sharing power as everyone gets input. It is kind of a case of best argument wins. Usually in a group, no one wants to take charge and mediate the negotiation, so I step into that role as I usually want to know what everyone's opinions are so we can make the best decision. I especially try to get quieter people to talk because often they have the best ideas.

In these types of situations, I usually listen to everyone and decide what I think is best based on what everyone has said and then go to that side and lend a hand. I am very surprised to learn that not everyone does this. I am really surprised that it is seen as manipulation as I think it is normal.

I will have to think about it more.