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This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by softy on Monday, March 13, 2006 and has 7 replies.

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@softy
21 Years1,000+ Posts

I have a Scorpio friend that I really like....He is really quiet..Well anytime it seems that he opens up a little bit,,,,he dissapears for ahwhile and of course I get upset...So this last time he dissaapeared for a minute...and then he calls me out the blue and asked me "what I want from him"......I really didn't know what he was asking me,,,,because it was so RANDOM....I really didn't answer the question...But I was wondering if maybe a fellow Scorpio may be able to give me some insight....I started to ask him what did he mean by that,,,,I don't know ahy I didn't...I guess I got kind of gun-sy or something,

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@moonbaby
20 YearsCancer

Your a Cancer...we tend to get a little "gun-shy" and beat around the bush. When all you reallllly want to say is "HELLOOOOOOOO, do you not catch my drift!!"

BE straight forward with him, he'll pick up on any BS anyway. Maybe him asking you what you want from him (which is his gun-shy way of bringing it up) is his way of trying to feel you out and see where you are truly coming from. Maybe this way, he can feel more comfortable.

(what the hell do I know anyway..I do even stress myself out trying to figure out my Scorp. boyfriend anymore. I painfully learned after the first year or two that there is no way to the bottom of their hearts. They will only let you wander through their heart as much as they are comfortable. After that...just love them and except that this is who they are!"

PHEEEWWW...Sorry to blab.

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@softy
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Thank you DB...I would love to pin him down and give him a big kiss!!..I know MB...that is what I was thinking "hello,,Can't you tell how I feel!! Its so obvious....I felt like maybe he should have been telling ME what HE wanted.....I"m the one who always feels in the dark,

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@moonbaby
20 YearsCancer

I know, softy (which is a perfect name by the way). But, sometimes, we can't be softies...we just have to suck it up and swallow our pride (and our hearts) and just lay it all out there. Wear your heart on your sleeve. If anything, your Scorpio may find that irresistable!

After all, when you think about it...if rejected...life still goes on, right? Yes, it will kill us (for the moment) but we won't brood. It's sort of one of those "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" deals. I know that was so corny...but all in all...it's too true.

JuiCy....thanks...I feel a bit less "gabby" now.