Why are scorpio woman so intriguing t?

Hi i am new to this stuff. I am in love a Scorpio woman and i am a leo man. There is an age difference of about 15 years.
I love this woman to death. we have had all the predicted pro's and cons of the this combination of signs. i love her enough that i try to approach her in what would be most fitting. well she has always had this deal of testing here love for me. She says she loves me but she is always telling me things she does that proves it to herself. Confusing for me but it has been from the start. Well now her new thing is that she wants a month of no communication to see how it feels to miss me and want me. Ok now we do not live together. but we had been talking the first day of this test and she is wearing my shirts i bought and seeming to still be on track with no ending the relation ship.

My question is if this TRUE Blue Scorpio ask me to not communicate for a month.

1.) is she just blowing me off? we tend to butt heads a little.
2.) Do i text and call anyways just to show her how much i love her.
3.) leave it a lone do not call, do not text, ECT. and just do what i am ask. and see what happens.

I do not want to lose this one. and this leo is also true blue leo.

Thanks for those who respond..

thank you ... i hate getting the answer you knew you would get and don't want. she said she loves me and she is a scorpio i so i would find it hard to believe she would lie. From what i have gathered is true Scorpios don't lie,

I would say to give her the time she has requested of you...Being a scorpio if you have professed your love to her and have left no signs to the imagination then she knows how you feel, No need to make any type of contact to ensure her of that...It will only turn her off completely for you not having the patience to respect her request or annoy her to the point of her not wanting to hear from you at all. Scorp girls love to be pursued and hate to feel suffocated if that makes any sense at all! In my experience when I am in love with someone....I am most happy spending as much of my free time with them as possible...When we "Know" we just "know" Although we are very honest and very to the point on matters we also have a very big heart and will sometimes detour having to hurt someone's feelings which sadly but true ultimately hurts them even more in the end. If you do not hear from her within the month she has requested (which true! is a long time to spend away from the one we love)then I would say to leave it alone....She's not reading the same page as you are and may be on an entirely different book then you... 😢

@ DapperDon......lmao! funny guy!

This is great.. i am a leo and am everything that goes with it. this is the first Scorpio i have been emotionally involved with. I have never been involved with a more challenging relationship. what are we like -4 on the compatibility scale. well it is such a freaking challenge for me. i was warned. But the emotions and other areas are omg. no i am not insecure. i am not stupid. If i would have know what i knew now, i would have never dated anything but Scorpio woman. This woman has something that i would walk through fire for. I have never met a woman that could have the upper hand on me. But this one and she is true Scorpio has this leo where she wants me. So if she wants 30 days she can kinda have. she already started texting since i listened to QuietSt0rm and others. Thanks

Since I recently started dating a Scorp, I do believe if she contacts you within the months time, she does loves you. It would be hard for me to wait that long, that would drive me crazy. My Scorp and I had a bad disagreement yesterday, so bad that I text her today to see if we were still together .... lol. She ignored my calls and text. She finally text back yes, since I knew how pissed she was last night, I didn't want to push her to talk, so I text, I will give you some space enjoy the rest of your day. She text, u do the same. Well about 30 min past and she text asking about when is the superbowl. That led to about an hour of text. She then begin to open conversation about last night, we talked it through. Honestly I thought she would end it but she actually asked me to stick around and let's work on this some more. So, I know that Scorpios truly love hard, and like you this girl is incredible to me. Especially since she has said she loves me, she hasn't disappeared, but keeps a close eye on me. This is the first time I've experienced growing pains like this ....

LOL .... actually that was apart of the argument. I made a smart ass comment out of my mouth about the situation and it's not the first time. She was livid this time, shut down and wouldn't say a word, other than "I have nothing to talk about". In a very calm tone, I was scared like shxt. So I knew it was over. When we started out she said she wasn't leaving him but now she say give her time but it's hard to let him go. She can't give an exact date but it will happen. I'm still confused about it all, but she's absolutely great to me. And it's not like I didn't know the situation because she's been nothing but honest with me about. She said, it's hard juggling it all, keeping me happy and keeping him normal.

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Posted by 6107grant
This is great.. i am a leo and am everything that goes with it. this is the first Scorpio i have been emotionally involved with. I have never been involved with a more challenging relationship. what are we like -4 on the compatibility scale. well it is such a freaking challenge for me. i was warned. But the emotions and other areas are omg. no i am not insecure. i am not stupid. If i would have know what i knew now, i would have never dated anything but Scorpio woman. This woman has something that i would walk through fire for. I have never met a woman that could have the upper hand on me. But this one and she is true Scorpio has this leo where she wants me. So if she wants 30 days she can kinda have. she already started texting since i listened to QuietSt0rm and others. Thanks

What does she have? .. that you would walk through fire for? Have you talked to her and really gotten to know who she is? Or are you wrapped into the "sexual fantasy" of it?

Just asking you questions to help clear your head of ... whatever is going on in it. This is funny.

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You asked so here it goes

"sexual fantasy" of it? well yes. omg it isn't the sex. sex is easy. it is the energy that is created between us. It is as if we.. Idk. But sex is just a 1/4 of the day. ( she is insatiable 🙂) But i am a leo. i generally not chase woman. and i did not chase her per say. But she made it clear from the start she was the aggressor. which was strange for me. So right there i am growing emotionally. my gigantic ego letting someone else be in charge. We have talked day and night for 4 and half months lived together for 2 of them and now she is having custody issues. anyways i could go on but i am not sure if you really wanted to no. But it is case book Leo and Scorpio hook up. i will refine my leo side to keep her in my life. most the stuff i hold on to is ego and i am too old to worry about that.So what does she have. the little scorpio has this lion by the paw. Corney heh.

Well being a leo or me. whatever. i didn't make it more than a day without contacting her. I did it respectfully.i just needed a little clarity on why we were doing this. i didn't understand but because we are separated (she is in az and me tx)when we talked it made her miss me more and she is impulsive and was afraid she would just hop on a plane and come to see me. well we have found a common ground (well her ground) we can engage each other until it pisses her off that we can not be together then there is a little silence and i will piss and moan (to myself) until shes ready. but.. well nobody knows me here but i usually do not work for a relationship this much. i got 2 divorces to prove it. i just love this girl and she drives me freaking crazy. she doesn't do it outwardly there is and energy with the Scorpio. My son is a Scorpio and he makes so much more sense to me now. so -4 compatibility bring it on.

Good question Quietstorm 🙂

Hmmmm .... wonder why he hid the post— Plus I wanted to see his answer to QS question. Well, I must be doing something right, my Scorpio has now said she's IN love with me..... This is getting more interesting.

i hide the post because i thought is was just hide to me... i wanted to see what u guys said not me lol.. i tend to talk a lot.

i have had limited internet and busy.. i need to think about quietstorm's question

simple answer is i just know... just like i know i love my kids. and that is how i compare what feeling is. i just know. now me and this woman could argue about something we agree on. but when i touch her IDK. now in order for it to last we will have to adapt a little. i don't like using compromise. that is were both people get screwed. but there is and energy that draws me to her. we have already lived with eachother after a short courtship;which was not planed and made it through. so i think we will be fine.

Posted by 6107grant
simple answer is i just know... just like i know i love my kids. and that is how i compare what feeling is. i just know. now me and this woman could argue about something we agree on. but when i touch her IDK. now in order for it to last we will have to adapt a little. i don't like using compromise. that is were both people get screwed. but there is and energy that draws me to her. we have already lived with eachother after a short courtship;which was not planed and made it through. so i think we will be fine.

sorry the living together unplanned was important because there was a lot of stressful things in her life that lead to it and then after she was there my life had some challenges. but although some tense moments and me needing to learn to communicate a little softer, we still keep talking.

i think we are splitting hairs. compromise and adapt can be interchanged depending on how it is viewed. I believe that if i love someone i can accept them as they are with out them having to give up a part of themselves. Why should you have to change just because it effects me. If i am uncomfortable because you dress to sexy, Do you change your dress style . i think no. I need to examine why it bothers me and grow through it. I am more vocal with my feelings. she is not. so i learn to trust and not worry about words. No if we have to start giving up who we are then we need to find some else. Just my opinion. These are just examples.

from http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-the-name-love/200810/should-we-compromise-in-love<BR>

"Speaking about compromising love seems odd. Thus, one would not say to his beloved, "I love you darling, though this love is a compromise for me." However, one could say, "I love you darling, and I am ready to accommodate myself in order to make our relationship successful." In compromises, which may involve concessions that are considered depressing, one does not change one's attitudes but rather, unwillingly, agrees to something that is essentially negative but nonetheless can be tolerated when a more valuable end is achieved. In accommodation, the lover changes his or her own attitudes in order to perceive the other in a positive manner; this person is perceived now by the lover as a suitable partner rather than a "problem."

Accommodation may be characterized as positive growth, expansion of capacity, adaptability, and flexibility. The process of accommodation involves learning and adaptability, whereby accepting the change is accompanied by some modification in the creature. In this sense, accommodation sustains a more profound and durable process. Not all compromises can be accommodated, since this process may require a change in constant character traits and attitudes. In such a situation, we are required to adopt the compromise while being aware of its problematic nature. There is no doubt that we must make compromises in our life; the question is how many of those can be turned into accommodations and how many will remain derogatory concessions. One measure of the profoundness of a romantic relationship is the ability to turn what seems to be a compromise into an accommodation.

Also that is a better way and simpler way to answer quietstorms question. my involvement with this woman has made me want to be a better person for myself. Even if our relationship did not last, this is the quality of woman i want in my life. i believe that my relationship with any person should enrich my life not the opposite.

I like the way that was put..

"When in a relationship, we merge our soul with our mate, so change is inevitable. Change is most often feared but is a very beautiful process when embraced. "

for me it is that way. she has become a part of me. i am disinterested with my normal playing and flirting. she fills that part of me. I didn't want it to come across as co-dependent or needy. i am fine by myself. i am just better when we are talking or whatever. I am not scared of change. that is ongoing. i think people should just do it for the right reasons. i think some of the change happens naturally in order for two souls to merge as u said. i hope to see here soon. this is a great site. Funny how we get what we need when we need it.

Bravo Mr Leo 6107grant ..... and may I add this Scorpio woman in life also has made me want to be a better person, even if it doesn't work out. Being a Libra, I usually wait last minute to do things, now I push myself to complete things immediately. It's still a work in progress but it's already making a difference in my life. That's what I need is a woman that makes a difference, a positive difference. In Buddhism we say when you give unto the tower you give unto yourself. Meaning what this woman brings to me, also benefits her. What's special about this Scorpio is she's sincere about my needs.

I personally have never met a leo guy I could have as a friend, much less be in a relationship.
We just clash on every level...having said that your lady may really care for you, but is not ready for something serious.
I know that when I am really interested in being with a person, a month would seem like a long time.
Good luck though.

Scorpios are intriguing because they are ruled by the devil yo.
They are h0t.

As a leo woman dating a scorpio man, I feel the same you do. Intrigued but totally at a loss. I hope your month isn't a full month and that you have heard something by now.

Posted by Itsme
As a leo woman dating a scorpio man, I feel the same you do. Intrigued but totally at a loss. I hope your month isn't a full month and that you have heard something by now.

Thank you. it didn't last that long.. We learned a lot from the separation. What ever we have to go through to make it last.
I changed my username. Good luck to u. This sign mixture never bores lol..