Why do scorpio women not want to be touched someti

I am a scorpio female and sometimes I
want to be caressed and loved and then some times I want to be left alone, does anyone know why this could be?

I still find my man attractive and all.

I didnt mean to post it so many times.

You can fix that. Try taking some herbs(Don Quai). That might give your sex drive a little boost! I'm serious this in no joke! Most women hit their stride around 40 while the man hits his around 18 hahahahahhaha! You might be lacking some certain hormones. You can take suppliments.

I think it's natural to sometimes want to be touchy-feely and other times want to be left alone. I'm that same way, in fact sometimes I get really annoyed with my bf because he paws at me when all I want is my own personal space. I don't think it's unnatural, but if it bothers you then I would take the advice of the poster above.

Me, I'm not bothered by this aspect of my personality, and I figure the guy I'm with can either respect my personal space every now and then or he'll have a cranky scorpio on his hands...literally...lol.

-phoenix

I think that is natural for anyone. However, I find it very odd that a scorpio woman has these issues. Men in their 20s seem to be on a high for sex, but for women the high kicks in motion around the 40s. hope this helps.

Well I dont want it to be natural I dont want my man to think that I dont love him or think that he is unattractive.

Just give it to him, GOOD!!!

Just give it to him, GOOD!!! I meant t say you'll get into once you get going!!!

Yeah, sometimes if you just let stuff start happening, you'll get into it pretty quick. If you psyche yourself out beforehand, thinking, "something's wrong, why do I want to be left alone?" or "I have these issues, what am I going to do—" or "I'm really gonna TRY to get into it"...you will create your own sexual/physical block, like writer's block when they try so hard to write and worry so much about not being able to, that they psych themselves out and can't.

If all else fails, knock back a shot or two of your favorite hard alcohol. (lol)...joke, but seriously, it's an option.

Good advice above... A couple of shots warms your blood, removes some of the inhibitions, helps you to relax, etc. Not too many though!! I think some good music and slow, sensual dancing does it for me too...

It is normal to want some space from time to time. As long as you're not wanting it when he wants to get close to you!!! I usually let the guy intitiate sex, unless I am really horny! Even if I want to be left alone, I have one spot and if you touch me there then I am a willing participant! LOL
Good Luck

WEll THANK ALL OF YOU for the wonderful postings. If u still have some helpful tips please bring them to the table. P I love the drinking tip and then somone with the slow dancing that is GREAT. Keep them comming.

WELL- spelling correction.

Slow dancing part is very nice! Good idea!

The mind is a powerful tool... Times when your partner needs you to be turned on could be when you are not "mind" ready.. it is important for men to realise that we cannot always just BE ready. At times, we need to be warmed up.. it can be very stimulating for both to warm up in "subtle" romantic ways. To turn HIM on and the anticipation of what's to come is the biggest turn-on for me.. (So Ladies, a little imagination and set the scene, so to speak). There are so many ways and different strokes for different folks. Sit on his lap and cuddle, manicure his nails, Invite him for a Candle-lit bubble bath with a nice glass of champagne, a "you rub me with oil and i'll rub you", a skinny dip at night, (that is still my all time favourite), sitting at a big fire sipping cherry, camping in a tent, showering together (soaping each other) till you're all shriveled up),

PS. I do all these things and more (he becomes quite the willing partner) to keep the romance and mind and body communication alive and I love him to touch me..

He is not a problem to get up and going, it is me. Sometimes i just want to be left alone and i dont want him to think that there is something wrong or the romance in the relationship is gone.

I hear what you are saying. My thoughts are that perhaps its because you know that he is ALWAYS reearing to go that you don't have the chance feel good about kick-starting him for a change. (so to speak)..

Could this be?? I may be wrong, but I think it is also part of a woman feeling a little powerfull and desirable.

208,

Maybe just hold him and express these very same thoughts with him. Let him know how you feel and don't leave him guessing about anything. For me, just being near them or close to them is comforting enough. I don't need to be in a state of wild ecstacy all the time and sometimes I am just tired and want to relax. If it is a problem because of timing(your partner is ready but you're not) maybe you can try a little harder for his sake!! What about a slow massage with some scented oil. The back of the knees and legs are very sensisitve areas. Start there and work your way up!

LS/C

These are all very good ideas, I apperciate all of them and promise to put them to good use, If anyone has anymore tips or suggestions, please feel free to let me know.

-Scorpio woman-

I am a scorpio female and sometimes I
want to be caressed and loved and then some times I want to be left alone, does anyone know why this could be?

I still find my man attractive and all.

Didnt mean to post it so many times

I am a scorpio female and sometimes I
want to be caressed and loved and then some times I want to be left alone, does anyone know why this could be?

I still find my man attractive and all.

You need to get off that cheap computer and go spend sometime with him!!! I have never heard of such a thing!!!!

ok 152. you dont know me and u sure dont know what computer i am using.

It is perfectly natural to not always feel the same way.. We are only human. A good relationship is also an understanding one. Physical love has its very important place, but there are also times when you can just be together and feel good without the touchy, feely thing.

lol its normal my child.LuZ

152,

That was rude! Get a grip!!!!