what does he want

I was seeing a cancer male on the side(meaning it was'nt a direct relationship it was extracurricular for him). As a scorpio female this was something uncharacteristic for me and very unnecessary because i don't have to share a man. But this thing was a sexualkinetic psychic other worldly type of kundalini attraction. That not withstanding I could'nt deal with the fact that it was a deception, nor could either of us resist. So i changed my phone number so that i would not be tempted. Now it seems that he's trying to get my number from someone in his family that is a good friend of mine. I purposefully did not give my number for six months to my friend thinking things would cool off. I told my friend not to give my number. But this cancer man knows where I live. He has'nt shown up but i'm wondering if he will. I don't know if he is still with the women he was with or not. But if he is I still don't want to share a man. My question to any cancer man out there is, how likely is it that this thing is over and if it is not how likely is it that he is still with the women he was with and just wanting his little sideshow freak again.

In my opinion in regards to your situation. Basically what you are or were was nothing more than a "booty call". This man is completely deceitful and dishonest, and it is a blessing that he doesn't call you or contact you, but it seems as though you want him to contact you. I also think if both of you happen to get together and he leaves his girlfriend for you, what makes you think he won't do the same to you. And I'm not saying your the saint in this whole situation, but you seem to not have no respect for the girl he's with, I truly beleive in the saying "what goes around comes around" the only person that is going to get really hurt in this whole situation is that guy's girlfriend.

I completely agree with Jake.
Thankfully there are still some decent people around with good morals.

I also think that the scorp lady although tempted did the right thing in changing numbers and has made a hugh effort not to get drawn in.
It does,nt really matter what sign he is triangular affairs rarely work out.
My guess and its only a guess that this was probably a bit of extra.
I understand these things happen but unless the triangle is broken within a very short space of time they usually just go on and on.
The dog that chases two rabbits usually ends up with none.
Good luck Scorp lady and be careful

I completely agree with Jake.
Thankfully there are still some decent people around with good morals.

I also think that the scorp lady although tempted did the right thing in changing numbers and has made a hugh effort not to get drawn in.
It does,nt really matter what sign he is triangular affairs rarely work out.
My guess and its only a guess that this was probably a bit of extra.
I understand these things happen but unless the triangle is broken within a very short space of time they usually just go on and on.
The dog that chases two rabbits usually ends up with none.
Good luck Scorp lady and be careful

to jake, I think you are very perceptive and your observations are on target because I would not mine if he were not living with someone esle. I do have complete respect for the other woman because have walked in her shoes. However (not to seem saintly) I never in the 18 years that I was married to a very indifferent partner did I cheat on him. This is something that scares the soul and disables the heart. I never cheated on anyone that I had a sexual relationship with because I a one piece kind of person I can't break off some of my sexual self and share that small piece with someone esle. I need a full body and spirit release. So I think it's ironic that I found myself in this situation unbeknown to me until I pressed for answers and got them. My view of life is from the top down not the bottom up.

I disagree with everyone, i dont think this was just a little sex on the side we are very loving people and i am sure that there is/was true feelings involved, as for the likelyhood that his other relationship is over.... don't count on it we tend to stay in relationships way past it's time to leave... keep in touch i am sure he is sincerely concerned about your whereabouts.

My daughter's father is Cancer...it has been 12 years since we split, and at times he uses an endearing term to me...like "Babe" or "Honey"...

Sex for a male Cancer does seem to be about the sex though...

He had many 3-way relations before me and was very honest about them with me...after we connected, I never doubted his faithfulness and that was not the reason we split..

It seems to me that this guy wants everything...

You need to decide what you want!

Whoops! I said that wrong! Sex for a Cancer male does seem to be about the Sex!!! Not necessarily Love...
They think Love is elusive...

Just my opinion...

Agree with former post regarding "What goes around, comes around"...

Take Care.

Well! I guess I made the same point twice! Proof that it is late and I need to get to bed!!

Cancer is difficult because they do not want another to know how much they care...

Sick of me by now? Yeah, me too!!!

I had one last thought...

I have had many married men come on to me...(I do not know their sun signs..)
I always asked a question in regards to their wives when approached...I have been unable to be a participant in a 3-way...I am not criticizing...I simply would not care to e either woman in a case like that...

Think what is best for you!