Will he want to know?

Seems semi slow around here on new posts, so I figured I'd think up some scorp Q's

My Scorpio says he isn't good at "this talking stuff" as in - letting me know his feelings about things between him and I.

My question is, scorpios, I understand you don't like to be questioned about where your feelings are in a relationship, and you all seemed to express disgust in anything relating to "the talk" in a recent thread.. hehe.

But do you like hearing that your partner cares about you? Even though you don't express those things as readily? Like, unsolicited admiration? As in - "I really care about you" "I think your so great" etc etc.

I'll be back for this

Posted by LouLore
Seems semi slow around here on new posts, so I figured I'd think up some scorp Q's

My Scorpio says he isn't good at "this talking stuff" as in - letting me know his feelings about things between him and I.

My question is, scorpios, I understand you don't like to be questioned about where your feelings are in a relationship, and you all seemed to express disgust in anything relating to "the talk" in a recent thread.. hehe.

But do you like hearing that your partner cares about you? Even though you don't express those things as readily? Like, unsolicited admiration? As in - "I really care about you" "I think your so great" etc etc.

I'd say the reasoning behind that isn't just that Scorpio's don't like being asked questions by their loved ones, what we hate is having to explain the way we feel because it's so hard to put our emotions into words. They're literally almost impossible to describe, so usually words don't do them justice and our answers can't be exactly how we want them to be. It's really very frustrating. So perhaps your Scorp just gets exhausted trying to explain himself.
I don't think it's necessarily true that Scorpio's don't like to express affection though, I absolutely love telling my guy how much he means to me. It feels good to let it out in that respect. And yes, hearing things like "I care about you" can actually be very important to us. Though, it's not always required, because we can usually feel when someone really cares about us. There's behavioral patterns displayed by someone that's in love which are very obvious to read, and it's quite a nice sensation to notice them, the glint in someones eyes, their tone of voice, even the way touch. As long as the admiration is genuine, and the "I love you's" come from somewhere truthful, then yes, it's nice to hear. As a Scorpio, I love so deeply that I find myself wondering if I'm alone in that depth...never helpful to think that way though, we must all try not to be cynical in love.

Thank you for your responses 🙂 That completely makes sense Meowscorp, thank you for such a detailed response.

I do want to add that I do know he really cares for me. I've learned exactly what you said nightbynight, that is - to read his actions. He is very affectionate. He doesn't gush about things like I would want to, and maybe like you do with your scorp Elly. And maybe that relates back to what meow said about being able to read the love thats there without words.

So while a (scorpio) man is quiet when it comes to those things, will he still appreciate genuine, verbal adorations from his lady is what I wonder. Because when I do reach out and say something sweet, it usually isn't reciprocated and makes me feel sortof like a dork. :p But knowing that at least it's appreciated makes it all good.

I think the answer is yes but I was curious what others might say.

It's late and im unsure if I just repeated my OP :p goodnight

And Elly, this is the same scorp with the cancer moon so maybe he's a little mushy down in there a ways like you say you are 🙂

Posted by LouLore

relating to "the talk" in a recent thread

What's that ^^^^


What is "the talk" that you are referring to?

no. i don't like hearing how someone cares about me and they can tell me in as many different ways they want but it still makes me uncomfortable mostly cos well, am i sposed to say it back with equal conviction so that we end up having ridiculous face offs about who can express their 'care' most expressively, lol!!

nah....i wanna SEE someone cares by the things they do cos i'm a hands on person when it comes to feelings and i express them in tangible ways.

I find it very hard to express my emotions into words. I feel them deeply but to say exactly what it is I am feeling is very hard for me.

I miss you. 😢