What is with

Scorps not making decisions! Male or female, in my expierence they hem, they haw and they cannot make a decision for the LIFE of them!
My best friend (female) and my boss (male) are opposite sex but the same in that regard!

Can someone please tell me WHY? ha ha ha 🙂

well, this is definitely me but i thought it was cos of my big libra influence. it's not that i can't decide but i keep changing my mind according to who i'm talking to about whatever it is until such time as i know EXACTLY what i have to do which is more of an instinctive thing.

so it's more procrastination than indecisiveness.

also, once i've eventually decided something....it's pretty much cast in stone.

My ex was only indecisive when it came to relationships (or at least it seemed like that to me, based on our relationship and the tidbits he told me about past ones). Anything else, he's 100% in, balls to the wall once he's made up his mind about something he wants to do, he will not let up until he reaches his goal. One of the most determined, dedicated people I've ever met - it was one of the qualities I found most attractive about him.

R1g, I am the same way but I have a libra moon ... I thought it was the Libra in me too -- I hate making decisions.

Scorpios are the majority of my immediate family members .. and they are complete opposite of being indecisive.

In fact, they are leaders with very strong convictions, and the guts to be unyielding about their very decisions.

That's not to say that they aren't flexible .. just that they are sure of themselves.

I find it quite odd that your perception would see a quality in ALL Scorpios that other people aren't noticing ... perhaps you need to check yourself.

My Scorpio man is not indecisive. He makes swift and firm decisions, and then acts quickly. When he APPEARS to be indecisive, it's because he's being asked to do something he doesn't want to do, and he thinks if he just ACTS indecisive for long enough that I'll forget about it or that the window of opportunity to do it will pass.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
well, this is definitely me but i thought it was cos of my big libra influence. it's not that i can't decide but i keep changing my mind according to who i'm talking to about whatever it is until such time as i know EXACTLY what i have to do which is more of an instinctive thing.

so it's more procrastination than indecisiveness.

also, once i've eventually decided something....it's pretty much cast in stone.

Is is not only procrastination but an ability to make a formal, up front decision! At least in my expierence.

Posted by GodMadeBeauty
R1g, I am the same way but I have a libra moon ... I thought it was the Libra in me too -- I hate making decisions.

So the Libra moon (as a lot of you have stated) is the indecisiveness? The balancing of the ever tipping scales. LOL

Posted by Whimsy
When he APPEARS to be indecisive, it's because he's being asked to do something he doesn't want to do, and he thinks if he just ACTS indecisive for long enough that I'll forget about it or that the window of opportunity to do it will pass.

That sounds like my ex Scorp when it came to relationship decisions. Wouldn't be surprised if it had more to do with his Venus in Sag (avoids commitment/rules in relationships and doesn't like to define relationships) than his Scorp sun though.

Posted by yourekillinmesmalls
My ex was only indecisive when it came to relationships (or at least it seemed like that to me, based on our relationship and the tidbits he told me about past ones). Anything else, he's 100% in, balls to the wall once he's made up his mind about something he wants to do, he will not let up until he reaches his goal. One of the most determined, dedicated people I've ever met - it was one of the qualities I found most attractive about him.

^Exactly like mine. He says work is the only thing in which he never hesitates. And by his own admission is the hardest working dude on the planet.

I'm only indecisive when trying not to hurt someone, when I care too much, so its mostly in relationship or friendship situations. Otherwise I'll move hoping you had time to grab a hold not to hurt yourself.

Posted by IntriguedScorp
I kind of make up my mind early. I might hem and haw about it or *look* like I'm undecided, but the reality is that I'm pretty darn sure about what i want.

Also, what Whimsey said. ^^^up there...

I can see this too....you just don't vocalize right away and it "seems" your indesicive (sp-can't spell today 😢

Indecisive is one word that I have never been called! I know what I want and how to get it.