Your Relationships

Are you in a relationship ?

Are you monogamous ?

Have you ever been in a casual relationship and were you happy about it ?

How long was your longest relationship ? Who dumped who and why ?

Give me a brief history of your relationships, I'm curious 😛

My longest relationship lasted for 4 years but after the second year we had fights, I got bored and I said let's make this an open relationship so I started seeing other people for a year.

What surprised me was that, out of the 3 guys I dated during that year, all of them wanted me to dump my bf and and be their gf. I was the one who didn't want to commit because I was confused whether to go back to my bf and I was being honest about it.

I thought men wouldn't be so monogamous and what I was offering was basically that they could have me, and date anyone else they wanted. I treated them just like a gf would. And I realized that men love all the lovey dovey stuff that comes with intimate relationships ! The trick to a man's heart could be putting them under no pressure whatsoever to be your bf BUT treating them as if they were your bf for a while, they get addicted to it ! lol

(Sigh) Do you really wanna know? Can't we just play chess?

Are you in a relationship ? Yes

Are you monogamous ? Yes

Have you ever been in a casual relationship and were you happy about it ?
Yes

How long was your longest relationship ? Who dumped who and why ? 13 years. I left. He cheated.