8 of Wands reversed and 6 of Wands

Recently a close friendship of mine has become rocky. I think it may be the end of our friendship & that saddens me. I asked the cards what I should expect to happen in the future. I pulled 8 of Wands reversed and the 6 of Wands. I'm not sure how to interpret them together. I'm still learning how to read cards together. I would appreciate any help I can get, please.

Sm4rt1 8 of wands means break down in communication but the of 6 of wands indicates victory as a result of break down in communication. You may want to ask yourself if it's time to let this relationship go? Is she jealous of you? It appears you will be happy and feel victorious by leaving the breakdown of activity within this union behind you. You can pm if you want, or pull a clarifier.

It was a really close guy friend. It was a FWB type relationship, only over the last 9 months or so, but been close friends for 9 years. He has decdied to make it work with an ex girlfriend & she found out about the benefits aspect of our friendship. Anyway, to be with her, he is no longer allowed communication with me to make it work with her. I pulled a clarifier, it was 5 of Pentacles.

sm4rt1 The 5 of coins is feeling left out in the cold and needing to find relief or shelter. The good news is all the cards are weak; they are minor arcana's which is susceptible to change at a moment's notice for any reason. If I don't see Majors in a reading, I really don't give the reading credence. Minor arcana readings are all about what is happening in the moment and can change by sheer chance, luck, force. Majors on the other hand are things like a Tsunami will separate the lovers, an earth quake, immigration will stop a relationship, legal marriages, government influence, bureaucracy. If the cards were the Empress reversed with victory I would say forget about this they are going to legally marry and raise a family and he will be in this direction for quite some time.

But these weak wimpy cards are simply saying that at this time, it is actually in your best interest to let this be; the lack of communication 8 of wands and 6 of wands victory with the 5 of coins means you are feeling left out in the cold because your friend of nine years has stopped communication. But victory means you will be fine and one day perhaps the tides will change.

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It was a really close guy friend. It was a FWB type relationship, only over the last 9 months or so, but been close friends for 9 years. He has decdied to make it work with an ex girlfriend & she found out about the benefits aspect of our friendship. Anyway, to be with her, he is no longer allowed communication with me to make it work with her. I pulled a clarifier, it was 5 of Pentacles.

It must really hurt for a 9-year friendship to drop silent.

Thank you, Goodtimes. Sounds about right. I'm holding out hope that it isn't a permenent thing. As she is controlling him on many different other things as well. Yes, Shrewdsharp, it is very difficult. It is also very hard to see him bend backwards so much for a girl who is never happy, no matter how much he gives up to try to make it work.

Posted by Goodtimes
sm4rt1 The 5 of coins is feeling left out in the cold and needing to find relief or shelter. The good news is all the cards are weak; they are minor arcana's which is susceptible to change at a moment's notice for any reason. If I don't see Majors in a reading, I really don't give the reading credence. Minor arcana readings are all about what is happening in the moment and can change by sheer chance, luck, force. Majors on the other hand are things like a Tsunami will separate the lovers, an earth quake, immigration will stop a relationship, legal marriages, government influence, bureaucracy. If the cards were the Empress reversed with victory I would say forget about this they are going to legally marry and raise a family and he will be in this direction for quite some time.

But these weak wimpy cards are simply saying that at this time, it is actually in your best interest to let this be; the lack of communication 8 of wands and 6 of wands victory with the 5 of coins means you are feeling left out in the cold because your friend of nine years has stopped communication. But victory means you will be fine and one day perhaps the tides will change.

Do you read with just the majors then?

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Posted by Goodtimes
sm4rt1 The 5 of coins is feeling left out in the cold and needing to find relief or shelter. The good news is all the cards are weak; they are minor arcana's which is susceptible to change at a moment's notice for any reason. If I don't see Majors in a reading, I really don't give the reading credence. Minor arcana readings are all about what is happening in the moment and can change by sheer chance, luck, force. Majors on the other hand are things like a Tsunami will separate the lovers, an earth quake, immigration will stop a relationship, legal marriages, government influence, bureaucracy. If the cards were the Empress reversed with victory I would say forget about this they are going to legally marry and raise a family and he will be in this direction for quite some time.

But these weak wimpy cards are simply saying that at this time, it is actually in your best interest to let this be; the lack of communication 8 of wands and 6 of wands victory with the 5 of coins means you are feeling left out in the cold because your friend of nine years has stopped communication. But victory means you will be fine and one day perhaps the tides will change.

Do you read with just the majors then?

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No I read the pip with the majors to discover the intensity of the concern.