Posted by the_sunflower
Posted by justawhatwhat
Posted by the_sunflower
Posted by justawhatwhat
Gem and I have a blast together. Tons of fun and laughter for sure. But the Cancer is always in the back of my mind. What is that all about? Like a mini obsession that wont die!


Then you should go with your heart and guts, although from experience gemini syn and cancer venus are great.

If he's on the back of your mind, date the cancer

Cancers are extremely sweet. He might be a great match for you and you should take the risk and see him for what he is
Don't let astrology or people on here make the decision for you. This guy is also cancer venus


The Cancer has a Gemini moon, so they are very chatty, extremely social and light but also seem very emotional like a typical Cancer. Kind of interesting combo too in a way.

The Gemini with the Taurus moon is kind of similar in that they are social and outgoing, but very solid and steady, less intense. More light yet solid, if that makes sense?

There is something very...wild and dashing about the Cancer. Very soulful. I think they have Scorpio rising too so that is why they're so intense. Very, very sexy. The Gemini is sexy too but a more playful sexy. I'd say the Cancer is more soulful sexy. If that makes sense?


You sound like you already made up your mind though, is there something stopped you? I realize that these partners are girls and that also changes alot of things. If you like the soulful sexy go for it!

I think both of these placements are good for you according to your natal chart..Just go for one you like and think about what you want foremost..A long term relationship or a fling etc etc

Geminis dont like showing their feelings outwardly, you have to dig in deep. They say things they don't mean..And when they mean it, it feels amazing to get commitment from a gemini They get shy and scared to explore love. You're always interpreting their actions and they can be pretty deep
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Yeah no, I could see that too potentially. From my experience though people with heavy Scorpio influence have a depth that is unmatched. When they go deep, they do deeeeeeeep. Powerful depth. Which I have in my Mars. I like the Gemini influence they BOTH have (One has Sun, other has Moon) but my concern with the Gemini SUN is what can seem fascinating about them in the beginning can prove to be what divides us later on. Whereas a Cancer sun is very traditional in nature, much like myself, so long term may be more secure. I don't know. I am thinking out loud here. Even though they say Sun signs are not the be-all-end-all of compatibility, they are a pretty big point of compatibility nonetheless.
Posted by the_sunflower
Posted by justawhatwhat
Gem and I have a blast together. Tons of fun and laughter for sure. But the Cancer is always in the back of my mind. What is that all about? Like a mini obsession that wont die!


Then you should go with your heart and guts, although from experience gemini syn and cancer venus are great.

If he's on the back of your mind, date the cancer

Cancers are extremely sweet. He might be a great match for you and you should take the risk and see him for what he is
Don't let astrology or people on here make the decision for you. This guy is also cancer venus
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The Cancer has a Gemini moon, so they are very chatty, extremely social and light but also seem very emotional like a typical Cancer. Kind of interesting combo too in a way.

The Gemini with the Taurus moon is kind of similar in that they are social and outgoing, but very solid and steady, less intense. More light yet solid, if that makes sense?

There is something very...wild and dashing about the Cancer. Very soulful. I think they have Scorpio rising too so that is why they're so intense. Very, very sexy. The Gemini is sexy too but a more playful sexy. I'd say the Cancer is more soulful sexy. If that makes sense?

Maybe my Scorpio Mars digs the Cancer's intense Scorpio Rising vibe. No idea. Sometimes I feel like the Gemini lacks that soulful depth my Scorpio Mars craves.
Gem and I have a blast together. Tons of fun and laughter for sure. But the Cancer is always in the back of my mind. What is that all about? Like a mini obsession that wont die!
Posted by the_sunflower
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Cancer Venus will always care for you and i love taurus placements they are earthly and rational..So his moon can balance his whimsical gemini. Gems sun are also so interesting, you'll never be bored. My partner is both gem sun and cancer venus, interesting and loving partner


why do I have such a mini obsession with the Cancer tho? Gaah! Is it because Cap and Cancer are opposite so the attraction is magnetic? It is soooo freaking strong. I think they also have a Scorpio rising.
Posted by Capmercury87
Despite placements being compatible those cancer venuses will be no good for your cap Venus. I know this through experience as a cap Venus myself. I've dated guys with compatible moon mars and sun's with a cancer Venus and it didn't work. They are extremely social or have a drive for it, they also have a natural love for many people sometimes at the same time which influences cheating. Not saying all of them will, but their broad heart for many people will make that cap Venus of you wonder whether they are really with you, or you and the rest of the world. You need a place to find stability and eyes for only you, unless your into that sort of thing I would not try. They also have no problem letting go of people they say they love, some suffer from really bad depression and may have drinking or drug problems. I noticed men with cancer venuses seem to suffer more than women with this placement, but women are master's of emotions and contain so much more emotions, hormones etc than men.



Very interesting. I wouldn't have ever guessed that, honestly. Between the two I would think the Cancer sun might be more devoted than the Gemini sun, right?
Posted by Liriell
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I would go for A. Two Mars in Scorpio would be probably too extreme


Haha. I guess the reason I was leaning towards B was because our Sun sign's are more compatible and also both our moons are in Air signs. I always thought Moon sign compatibility was super important, no?

I actually don't mind intensity. I kind of prefer it actually!


I rather lean towards sun-moon compatibility.


Well the Cancer (B) is currently (sorta) dating a guy who has Leo Sun and Taurus Moon (she is Cancer Sun and Gemini Moon). So it sounds like she would be more compatible with him than me, right?


I'd say so, though you don't know unless you try. Good luck!
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Interesting. I always thought having sun sign in compatible places AND moon sign in compatible places meant compatibility would be tightest. Like most of my close friends are earth sun signs with air or fire moons.

What made you come to the conclusion that sun/moon compatibility trumps that? Very curious!


My attraction to B has lasted for years and wont quit (I think were Karmic Soulmates, honestly). Curious why that would be..
Posted by Liriell
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Posted by Liriell
I would go for A. Two Mars in Scorpio would be probably too extreme


Haha. I guess the reason I was leaning towards B was because our Sun sign's are more compatible and also both our moons are in Air signs. I always thought Moon sign compatibility was super important, no?

I actually don't mind intensity. I kind of prefer it actually!


I rather lean towards sun-moon compatibility.
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Well the Cancer (B) is currently (sorta) dating a guy who has Leo Sun and Taurus Moon (she is Cancer Sun and Gemini Moon). So it sounds like she would be more compatible with him than me, right?
Posted by Liriell
I would go for A. Two Mars in Scorpio would be probably too extreme


Haha. I guess the reason I was leaning towards B was because our Sun sign's are more compatible and also both our moons are in Air signs. I always thought Moon sign compatibility was super important, no?

I actually don't mind intensity. I kind of prefer it actually!
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by justawhatwhat
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
not cancer, we don't like gold digging ho's with hearts made of marble


Uh...gold digging? She actually makes a lot more money than I do. LOL.



im talking about you, of course she does. gold digger
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Oh. Right.

So, you're going with A, I gather?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
not cancer, we don't like gold digging ho's with hearts made of marble


Uh...gold digging? She actually makes a lot more money than I do. LOL.

Who would be a better natal match?

Me:
Cap sun
Libra Moon
Cap Venus
Scorpio Mars


A:
Gemini sun
Taurus Moon
Cancer Venus
Cap Mars


B:
Cancer sun
Gemini moon
Cancer Venus
Scorpio Mars
Maybe the tower really WAS phallic....(not a very big one, clearly)
Welp...just thought I would provide everyone with a fun and (pretty hilarious) update!

So we went on a date Saturday...everything was going good and we have had a lot of sexual build up. We go back to his place to hook up and....BOOM....he literally has the tiniest penis I have ever seen.

Needless to say, my attraction and interest has quickly faded.

I am just being honest! I guess tarot was right. Hahaha. Pretty funny stuff!

(my real question is...how did tarot know I would lose interest after I saw his penis??? Too funny)

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Posted by justawhatwhat
So like a short-lived passionate affair type thing?



Yes I don't feel much stability in those cards

Are you still seeing this guy?
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Yes, I am. But that can all change very quickly. The physical attraction/passion is very strong but I havent totally lost my wits about me, yet. I am still guarding my heart and will let the relationship go as soon as things start to go haywire....which is sounds like they will!

He ended a 6 year relationship (married 1 year) last June. I ended a 6 year relationship last year. Soo we both have been very apprehensive I think about jumping into something....that is how I feel at least.
So like a short-lived passionate affair type thing?
I guess I am wondering if the tower can also be sexual. The reason I ask is...well.....yesterday we literally were sexting the ENTIRE day from 11AM to 11PM which is extremely intense sexual attraction and passion and I sincerely have never had passion sustain that long via texting my entire life!

Could tower also be sexual?

It seems like things between us are extremely sexual/passionate nature. But isnt passion also a strong feeling?

When we are alone we cant keep our hands off of each other.
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Posted by justawhatwhat
I have just been getting a TON of negative feed back on these cards telling me to run for the hills and that they are a very bad combination!


You really gonna let 4 cards decide your relationship?
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No, you're right. I actually would not do that hahaha
I have just been getting a TON of negative feed back on these cards telling me to run for the hills and that they are a very bad combination!
Gemini Moon.

Love the sociability, never-ending curiosity and quick wit....a way with words

Hate the shallowness, over analyzing feelings and general restlessness