Posted by ashley1734
My Aries I've been seeing for about 6 months (a little on and off in the beginning) said this to me last night and I have no idea how to take it.

He has me meeting his family, tells me he loves me, has been hesitant to put a title on things which is fine with me, I don't require a label on our relationship, but I do wonder if that means anything for him that he isn't keen on it...anyway he says all these things but then still has concerns about us I guess because things were a bit rocky in the beginning as we got to know each other's communication style s, which we eventually figured out and adapted to.

Now he says he has concerns and I take that as him not being sure about me/us, but then why does he continue having me meet his family and acting like there's a future?


I feel like he just means that he thinks there may just be some things you'll still need to work through but he is willing to do that because he wants to be with you forever. When aries say things like that, they generally mean it. Very committed once they find a love they truly want.
Posted by Crabra
Where's the Gem moon love?

Yes it is my own, but I can't help but love all that eccentricity and randomness that comes with this placement. Dull moments are few and far between with these butterflies!

If one other than my own, it would be an Earth moon. I get along quite well with all three.


I am Gemini moon and I agree. I am always bubbling with enthusiasms and am a total social butterfly. Not sure what to do on a Saturday night? Hit me up, I know all the happenings! Love exploring and trying new things and playing! I love it.
Posted by MonkeyInTheMoon
I'm preparing for what's cooking in 2018 - a real man's belly. Recommend training: lots of beer.


there you go, switch out that 6 pack for a keg
Posted by Vageenka
I think a small waist and a cute tummy is so underrated. And a pair of long, nice legs.

Straight boys are too obsessed with titties and big asses. 😊


Oh yeah...long legs. yessssss yes. and a tight little waist is so feminine. like the equivalent to broad shoulders on a man!
See I feel like having big boobs has ALWAYS been sought after (especially in white culture).

Not having a big BUTT in 2017 sucks. Big butts being attractive is fairly recent phenomenon in mainstream culture (which is predominantly white culture, unfortunately...big butts have always been sought after in many other cultures)...

When I was growing up it was all about boobs. Having a big butt was something people didn't really care about...until the past several years really.

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Posted by Arielle83
I think of sex constantly.

I crave being horizontally cuddled on a big bed while I'm kissed all over.

Then I start dry humping and pulling my clothes off.

Mars in cancer.


finally a mars in cancer that loves sex😂
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Very sensual indeed
Posted by Arielle83
I think of sex constantly.

I crave being horizontally cuddled on a big bed while I'm kissed all over.

Then I start dry humping and pulling my clothes off.

Mars in cancer.


OH shiz, sometimes I forget how awesome straight dry humping is hahaha and just a good old finger bang
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Mars in Scorpio.

I can't relate to those that are saying they can't have sex without emotion or a connection. None of you have ever had a one-night stand, not ever?

Ummm, okay. I'm leaving now before I say anything too revealing- 12th house. Going over to the not getting any section....


when u have mars in scorpio and u want sex u get obsessive, i just see red and sex drive is huge



Scorpio in mars are sexual dieties.

I dont like one night stands at all - shudder - but I have had some incredible incredible lovers with Mars in Scorpio and its like they have the owners manual to my body. Ive never known lovers more in tune with me than Scorpio with mars in scorpio.


The majority of the bad sex stories (ones funny enough to write and publish on the internet) that I've read have been by 20 somethings who were treetrunking strangers. It really does help to know someone's body. LOL



I know right? But I think of people in their 20s as practicing.

Lovers are where its at when youre not ready for a relationship. Its like a lab partner. You get to practice and learn and experiment. But really great sex comes when you are so comfortable in your own skin, and truly know who you are that you can become completely uninhibited and at the same time share that with someone you have a relationship of trust and affection with.


Well, we're always practicing. I had really great sex with my first boyfriend before we were even 20. But not at first...it took a while. I agree with the rest of what you said.
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I remember the first time I had sex that blew my mind. I became addicted to that guy!
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Mars in Scorpio.

I can't relate to those that are saying they can't have sex without emotion or a connection. None of you have ever had a one-night stand, not ever?

Ummm, okay. I'm leaving now before I say anything too revealing- 12th house. Going over to the not getting any section....


I have before. Not my thing.
I've found that fantasies about one-night stands are fun but the real thing is awkward and not worth the awkwardness.


I feel like a broken record saying this AGAIN but chemistry is huuuuge.
More often than not one night stands are just about getting yourself off, similar to masturbating. But often lack the chemisty that takes it to the next level.
You usually have chemistry when you're into someone...hence the satisfaction (and if you don't have chemistry with them you'll probably realize it is not going to work pretty quickly)


Yeah, chemistry, vibe, aura, all of that. Are you a watery one or is this true for everybody? I have all the elements going on, so I rarely know what's causing what.


Cancer Sun/Gem Moon/Cancer Venus/Leo Mars...

But most people I talk to tend to agree with that sentiment. I think that people's sexuality far exceeds the limitations of just astrology. For many people it is tied to every facet of their being...that's why it is rarely "just sex" and I have seen FWB crash and burn, someone always gets attached. It is an exchange of energy...to try and act like it's not means you are very little sexual experience or are emotionally checked out, i dont buy it.


I think it really varies by person. Unfortunately, if you're hanging out with people with a different mindset than yours, you're the one who always ends up "catching feelings" and feeling stupid. And I do think it's easier for men to carry on with those kinds of relationships. #notallmen And of course, some women can do it with ease...I'd just say it's less common.
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Yeah, probably true about men being able to separate it better. I'm sure there are some people who have a very carefree and more playful approach to sex.

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Mars in Scorpio.

I can't relate to those that are saying they can't have sex without emotion or a connection. None of you have ever had a one-night stand, not ever?

Ummm, okay. I'm leaving now before I say anything too revealing- 12th house. Going over to the not getting any section....


I have before. Not my thing.
I've found that fantasies about one-night stands are fun but the real thing is awkward and not worth the awkwardness.


I feel like a broken record saying this AGAIN but chemistry is huuuuge.
More often than not one night stands are just about getting yourself off, similar to masturbating. But often lack the chemisty that takes it to the next level.
You usually have chemistry when you're into someone...hence the satisfaction (and if you don't have chemistry with them you'll probably realize it is not going to work pretty quickly)


Yeah, chemistry, vibe, aura, all of that. Are you a watery one or is this true for everybody? I have all the elements going on, so I rarely know what's causing what.
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Cancer Sun/Gem Moon/Cancer Venus/Leo Mars...

But most people I talk to tend to agree with that sentiment. I think that people's sexuality far exceeds the limitations of just astrology. For many people it is tied to every facet of their being...that's why it is rarely "just sex" and I have seen FWB crash and burn, someone always gets attached. It is an exchange of energy...to try and act like it's not means you are very little sexual experience or are emotionally checked out, i dont buy it.
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Mars in Scorpio.

I can't relate to those that are saying they can't have sex without emotion or a connection. None of you have ever had a one-night stand, not ever?

Ummm, okay. I'm leaving now before I say anything too revealing- 12th house. Going over to the not getting any section....


when u have mars in scorpio and u want sex u get obsessive, i just see red and sex drive is huge



Scorpio in mars are sexual dieties.

I dont like one night stands at all - shudder - but I have had some incredible incredible lovers with Mars in Scorpio and its like they have the owners manual to my body. Ive never known lovers more in tune with me than Scorpio with mars in scorpio.


The majority of the bad sex stories (ones funny enough to write and publish on the internet) that I've read have been by 20 somethings who were treetrunking strangers. It really does help to know someone's body. LOL
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Yeah I could see that.

From my experience, lovers that lack depth to their sexuality are the lamest in the sack...at least they don't do it for ME. maybe someone else

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Posted by JustJules
Mars in Scorpio.

I can't relate to those that are saying they can't have sex without emotion or a connection. None of you have ever had a one-night stand, not ever?

Ummm, okay. I'm leaving now before I say anything too revealing- 12th house. Going over to the not getting any section....


I have before. Not my thing.
I've found that fantasies about one-night stands are fun but the real thing is awkward and not worth the awkwardness.
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I feel like a broken record saying this AGAIN but chemistry is huuuuge.
More often than not one night stands are just about getting yourself off, similar to masturbating. But often lack the chemisty that takes it to the next level.
You usually have chemistry when you're into someone...hence the satisfaction (and if you don't have chemistry with them you'll probably realize it is not going to work pretty quickly)
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Posted by enfant_terrible
Mars in Leo

I'd say I'm primarily interested in women. If that makes sense. Sex is tiltilating when there's variety, when it's with the same partner it's more about getting eachother's rocks off. I don't see it as some deep profound way of expressing my feelings either.. it's just f cuking.

My feelz are expressed throughout the day by how I touch you. At that point it's affection and nothing sexual (two seperate things for me, like love & sex) but women seem respond to it sexually. I wonder how much my Cancer venus plays into it.

Also, I have extremely sick self-control. Taurus rising maybe, i dunno? My dick could be dripping but I could easily wait you out till you can't contain yourself and have to jump me. Hours, days, no problem.


Oh and edit: I do think about sex all the time. If you have a vageenka and we're interacting in any way or form, I'm def undressing you with my eyes and wondering what you'd be tasting like ¯\_(ツ)_/ ¯




This is interesting. Usually Leo in Mars likes a heaping dose of romance with their sex. It could be a gender thing for sure.


/Mars in Leo woman raises hand.

I like sex with or without sentimentality and romance, so long as it's monogamous. I like it quick and dirty or long and drawn-out. I like it.

/Mars in Leo woman sits down.
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Oh I think that is probably the key....monogamy. If I know he is sleeping around it is kind of off-putting. Can have very raw, dirty, filthy sex that lacks romance as well...animalistic. But monogamy has to be there. You actually bring up a point I didnt consider...maybe that is what it is.
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Posted by enfant_terrible
Mars in Leo

I'd say I'm primarily interested in women. If that makes sense. Sex is tiltilating when there's variety, when it's with the same partner it's more about getting eachother's rocks off. I don't see it as some deep profound way of expressing my feelings either.. it's just f cuking.

My feelz are expressed throughout the day by how I touch you. At that point it's affection and nothing sexual (two seperate things for me, like love & sex) but women seem respond to it sexually. I wonder how much my Cancer venus plays into it.

Also, I have extremely sick self-control. Taurus rising maybe, i dunno? My dick could be dripping but I could easily wait you out till you can't contain yourself and have to jump me. Hours, days, no problem.


Oh and edit: I do think about sex all the time. If you have a vageenka and we're interacting in any way or form, I'm def undressing you with my eyes and wondering what you'd be tasting like ¯\_(ツ)_/ ¯



Sounds lovely!! Except for the VARIETY part 😑.

I have Leo Mars as well, but it doesn't work that way for me at all. I still need all that depth and I am VERY singular - The ONE (special and chosen). But lasting up to days - yeah, that's me too.

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This is why I think it might possibly be gender related...possibly. Because I am more similar to you in that it is generally focused on one person (in Mars in Leo too)
Posted by enfant_terrible
Mars in Leo

I'd say I'm primarily interested in women. If that makes sense. Sex is tiltilating when there's variety, when it's with the same partner it's more about getting eachother's rocks off. I don't see it as some deep profound way of expressing my feelings either.. it's just f cuking.

My feelz are expressed throughout the day by how I touch you. At that point it's affection and nothing sexual (two seperate things for me, like love & sex) but women seem respond to it sexually. I wonder how much my Cancer venus plays into it.

Also, I have extremely sick self-control. Taurus rising maybe, i dunno? My dick could be dripping but I could easily wait you out till you can't contain yourself and have to jump me. Hours, days, no problem.


Oh and edit: I do think about sex all the time. If you have a vageenka and we're interacting in any way or form, I'm def undressing you with my eyes and wondering what you'd be tasting like ¯\_(ツ)_/ ¯




This is interesting. Usually Leo in Mars likes a heaping dose of romance with their sex. It could be a gender thing for sure.
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It's not that important when I'm single, I just masturbate. lol! Sex is very important to me when I'm in a relationship though. Certainly not the most important thing, but it does matter. And not just the act itself, but the quality. Foreplay is a must. I know some people don't like foreplay but that might be my favorite part besides the orgasm.

Mars in sag


I agree with this and PootyButt above you.


I love the build up of anticipation... And spontaneity too!
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Totally the same way!

Posted by ScorpioTruth
It's not that important when I'm single, I just masturbate. lol! Sex is very important to me when I'm in a relationship though. Certainly not the most important thing, but it does matter. And not just the act itself, but the quality. Foreplay is a must. I know some people don't like foreplay but that might be my favorite part besides the orgasm.

Mars in sag


I agree with this and PootyButt above you.
Posted by SweetLily89
I do think about it daily. The importance of sex is dependent on who I'm having it with. It's a either deep and bonding or it means nothing at all.

Mars Virgo


I kinda vibe with this...needs depth for me too
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Posted by justawhatwhat
that's like asking how important hunger is if you think about it? Who the hell doesn't LOVE EATING? Sex is just as basic a human need. We all crave it, search for it...devour it.


yes but there are people who dont like sex that much or think its not important and there are people who do it 10 times a weekand some 1 time in two weeks,there are ddifferences
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what about masturbating ferociously? people who jerk-off daily? There are times I go a long time without sex with a man but I can easily fire up pornhub and get myself off daily, sometimes multiple times of day. it happens. a lot.

sex for me has a lot of depth, if i go around sleeping with every man i am attracted to - and i easily, easily could believe me - i feel like i would be depleted on a deep level or something. does that make sense? i guess for me sex is a very powerful experience. like sex in the flesh. its just easier to masturbate and not have to deal with all the extra crap, until i meet someone i am really truly into.

Oh, I am Mars in Leo..but I have Mars Square Pluto (in Scorpio) and read that it can "modify the traits associated with Mars considerably" so I guess I teeter on being more Scorpio Mars....? No idea.