Sag with Taurus

Hi Guys,

I am a Taurus girl. I’ve been reading about Sags these days as I unintentionally liked a Sag guy. We know each other from 2 years. We work at the same place. At first he’s not that attractive and I wasn’t interested in him at all, later Idk how but I started developing feelings for him. He jokes a lot on me, he’s really curious about what’s going on in my life, he can’t see me dull, he’s supportive when I am low, he helps almost every time I need something. I’m not sure if he likes me or not. He never said that he likes me. So shall I consider all those signs as general traits of Sags, as he didn’t say that he likes me? Or he likes me but is he thinking whether or not to express it?

Once he tried to completely friendzone/sister zone me, not sure if he’s trying to hide his feelings.

In case if he doesn’t like me, suggest me something so I can forget about him.

Thank you

Those are all good guy traits of a sag.

He just wants friendship it seems right now.

That may change who knows

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Those are all good guy traits of a sag.

He just wants friendship it seems right now.

That may change who knows

Thanks for the reply. Let’s see if I have any chance with him.

Try to learn to read between the lines. Not everyone expresses their affection verbally. It seems like he is trying to show you he cares. I dont think there are ever really 2 signs that dont work bc 1. Everyone has a different birth chart 2. Love is work. If you like his affections and would like to have him in your life intimately now, it might be on you to make the next move. It seems like he has already made the first. He sounds like a genuinely caring individual so kudos! Having said this, I have most of my Sag experience with women who are just lovely. The ones I befriended anyway...

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I have a Sag brother who acts much like your co worker. He is a bit heavier and I know that effects his confidence with women. He is very respective of women, he will be super sweet to them, helpful, supportive, joke a lot with them, but he will wait for them to show real interest before putting anything out there. It's just because he lacks confidence (and he's actually one of the most sensitive guys I know).. could be the same with your co worker where you say he isn't overly attractive.

Thanks for the reply. He’ll never leave me alone and he keeps on caring about me that sometimes I can’t resist anymore. But I don’t wanna take any first steps being a Taurus I know it’s going to be difficult with Sags. He’s kinda attractive but what I meant is I didn’t notice him earlier. Being said that, is there any tips to make him confess at least if he has some feelings for me?(not those website tips like everyone say be adventurous, be on your own,don’t chase give him space etc) You might know something more coz you have got a bro. Please give me a *super tip.*

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Try to learn to read between the lines. Not everyone expresses their affection verbally. It seems like he is trying to show you he cares. I dont think there are ever really 2 signs that dont work bc 1. Everyone has a different birth chart 2. Love is work. If you like his affections and would like to have him in your life intimately now, it might be on you to make the next move. It seems like he has already made the first. He sounds like a genuinely caring individual so kudos! Having said this, I have most of my Sag experience with women who are just lovely. The ones I befriended anyway...

Yeah he’s caring to the point I can’t resist. But I don’t wanna come off so easy for him, as I read Sags like chasing stuff. I want him to take first steps verbally but not sure how to make him confess if at all he has any feelings for me. Anyway thank you for the reply.

Well it's a work relationship, so you may have a chance, and the friend zone thing could've just been to see what you're reaction to him was. Maybe try flirting and see if he catches on. If he doesn't go for it, then friends, it is!

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Try to learn to read between the lines. Not everyone expresses their affection verbally. It seems like he is trying to show you he cares. I dont think there are ever really 2 signs that dont work bc 1. Everyone has a different birth chart 2. Love is work. If you like his affections and would like to have him in your life intimately now, it might be on you to make the next move. It seems like he has already made the first. He sounds like a genuinely caring individual so kudos! Having said this, I have most of my Sag experience with women who are just lovely. The ones I befriended anyway...

Yeah he’s caring to the point I can’t resist. But I don’t wanna come off so easy for him, as I read Sags like chasing stuff. I want him to take first steps verbally but not sure how to make him confess if at all he has any feelings for me. Anyway thank you for the reply.

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Sag likes chasing but he needs a heads up from you. Sag usually don't cross any lines if they throw out some hints and you dodge them. He will stay in his lane and not even bother. You have to give an inch so he can take a mile.

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Well it's a work relationship, so you may have a chance, and the friend zone thing could've just been to see what you're reaction to him was. Maybe try flirting and see if he catches on. If he doesn't go for it, then friends, it is!

Thank you for the comment. Man, Sags are difficult right I tried to express it so many times, people around us are suspicious that I like him(not him liking me for some reason) he plays it so well. No one can even guess what’s on his mind. I tried flirting in all the indirect ways and tried to express that he’s my crush. But I didn’t tell him verbally I mean that’ the only thing left i tried everything else. But he’s pointing me towards other guys and in no way he’s relating his name to my crush. Then I feel like leaving him but he won’t leave me alone.

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Try to learn to read between the lines. Not everyone expresses their affection verbally. It seems like he is trying to show you he cares. I dont think there are ever really 2 signs that dont work bc 1. Everyone has a different birth chart 2. Love is work. If you like his affections and would like to have him in your life intimately now, it might be on you to make the next move. It seems like he has already made the first. He sounds like a genuinely caring individual so kudos! Having said this, I have most of my Sag experience with women who are just lovely. The ones I befriended anyway...

Yeah he’s caring to the point I can’t resist. But I don’t wanna come off so easy for him, as I read Sags like chasing stuff. I want him to take first steps verbally but not sure how to make him confess if at all he has any feelings for me. Anyway thank you for the reply.

Sag likes chasing but he needs a heads up from you. Sag usually don't cross any lines if they throw out some hints and you dodge them. He will stay in his lane and not even bother. You have to give an inch so he can take a mile.

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Woo thanks again. I get what you are saying. I’m not sure what else I have to do to fulfill that inch part ?

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Try to learn to read between the lines. Not everyone expresses their affection verbally. It seems like he is trying to show you he cares. I dont think there are ever really 2 signs that dont work bc 1. Everyone has a different birth chart 2. Love is work. If you like his affections and would like to have him in your life intimately now, it might be on you to make the next move. It seems like he has already made the first. He sounds like a genuinely caring individual so kudos! Having said this, I have most of my Sag experience with women who are just lovely. The ones I befriended anyway...

Yeah he’s caring to the point I can’t resist. But I don’t wanna come off so easy for him, as I read Sags like chasing stuff. I want him to take first steps verbally but not sure how to make him confess if at all he has any feelings for me. Anyway thank you for the reply.

Sag likes chasing but he needs a heads up from you. Sag usually don't cross any lines if they throw out some hints and you dodge them. He will stay in his lane and not even bother. You have to give an inch so he can take a mile.

Woo thanks again. I get what you are saying. I’m not sure what else I have to do to fulfill that inch part ?

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Just flirt and touch, basically

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I have a Sag brother who acts much like your co worker. He is a bit heavier and I know that effects his confidence with women. He is very respective of women, he will be super sweet to them, helpful, supportive, joke a lot with them, but he will wait for them to show real interest before putting anything out there. It's just because he lacks confidence (and he's actually one of the most sensitive guys I know).. could be the same with your co worker where you say he isn't overly attractive.

Thanks for the reply. He’ll never leave me alone and he keeps on caring about me that sometimes I can’t resist anymore. But I don’t wanna take any first steps being a Taurus I know it’s going to be difficult with Sags. He’s kinda attractive but what I meant is I didn’t notice him earlier. Being said that, is there any tips to make him confess at least if he has some feelings for me?(not those website tips like everyone say be adventurous, be on your own,don’t chase give him space etc) You might know something more coz you have got a bro. Please give me a *super tip.*

What I would recommend is to start showing him hints of interest to give him the confidence to take the first step. They will do it, but they're gonna need a little evidence. Be flirty, make simple gestures like leaning in closer when he is speaking to you, take some interest in his life outside of work, ask him about himself.. They are a really silly bunch, like childish silly, he's gonna try to make you laugh.. lean in and touch his arm casually while laughing at his dumb jokes (hahaha).. That's a foreseeable easy way to drop a hint. And show him the silly side of you.. joke around with him.

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Jokes are always there between us and Leaning closer and touching-noted will try it out and see

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Posted by AbbyNormal

Try to learn to read between the lines. Not everyone expresses their affection verbally. It seems like he is trying to show you he cares. I dont think there are ever really 2 signs that dont work bc 1. Everyone has a different birth chart 2. Love is work. If you like his affections and would like to have him in your life intimately now, it might be on you to make the next move. It seems like he has already made the first. He sounds like a genuinely caring individual so kudos! Having said this, I have most of my Sag experience with women who are just lovely. The ones I befriended anyway...

Yeah he’s caring to the point I can’t resist. But I don’t wanna come off so easy for him, as I read Sags like chasing stuff. I want him to take first steps verbally but not sure how to make him confess if at all he has any feelings for me. Anyway thank you for the reply.

Sag likes chasing but he needs a heads up from you. Sag usually don't cross any lines if they throw out some hints and you dodge them. He will stay in his lane and not even bother. You have to give an inch so he can take a mile.

Woo thanks again. I get what you are saying. I’m not sure what else I have to do to fulfill that inch part ?

Just flirt and touch, basically

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On point, will try and see thank you

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Evolved sags are usually like this. I'm the same way with everyone in my work place, male and female. It's a way of creating a positive atmosphere and relationships with people. Sags are tactless though. If he likes you you will know it, or he will seem out of place by keeping his distance, because he doesn't want to put his foot in his mouth.

You might have to do something bold to stand out, or just bond with him more. There's been two ways I transformed these flirtships into something more. One was an Aries, who stood her ground and blatantly flirted with me. That was hot. The other was a Taurus, who seamlessly spent more time with me, and somehow we started giving each other shoulder rubs, then I took it from there

Thank you for the reply. I’m more interested in your Taurus relationship. Who verbally proposed first? Is it you or the Taurus? Are you still with the same Taurus?

As I am Taurus i’m Definitely in the second bonding way you mentioned. So just curious.

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Evolved sags are usually like this. I'm the same way with everyone in my work place, male and female. It's a way of creating a positive atmosphere and relationships with people. Sags are tactless though. If he likes you you will know it, or he will seem out of place by keeping his distance, because he doesn't want to put his foot in his mouth.

You might have to do something bold to stand out, or just bond with him more. There's been two ways I transformed these flirtships into something more. One was an Aries, who stood her ground and blatantly flirted with me. That was hot. The other was a Taurus, who seamlessly spent more time with me, and somehow we started giving each other shoulder rubs, then I took it from there

Thank you for the reply. I’m more interested in your Taurus relationship. Who verbally proposed first? Is it you or the Taurus? Are you still with the same Taurus?

As I am Taurus i’m Definitely in the second bonding way you mentioned. So just curious.

We didn't verbally propose anything. I hit on her very suavely and with bravado and charm, and she showed no fiery signs of interest, so I left it alone. Fast forward two years, and she starts insinuatng herself into my life. We were in the school teater program together, so we spent a lot of time back stage and stuff. She must have been the one to propose shoulder rubs, becuase that's not something I do. I was an actor that season, and I made her my costime designer, because she was in costumes. So she was my assistant who I exchanged shoulder rubs with backstage. One night we were at the after-play dinner, and I walked her outside and kissed her. From there we started dating and it became more serious.

She mentioned marriage once, and it got really serious. Something in me told it to break it off. I liked to justify it as me being bored with her, but really it felt, idk, like she was dropping so much on me and she had so much hope and it was just a lot. So I told her we should be friends, but we kept in touch. We both dated other people, and eventually it became nasty because I wanted her back, and she wouldn't give me the time of day.

So no, I'm not with her. I'm going through something with another Taurus though. After the one I just described, I realized I needed a Taurus. I don't know if I can let my current Taurus go. It's so intense, I don't want other signs. The balance is perfect because Sags are extroverts, aloof, funny, and intellectual. Taurus are introverts, calm, serious to death, practical, and it just balances out. It's like a life partner where you can just be figuring each other out for life and it stays fresh and inseperable. So we will see. I think I'm trying to avoid the mistakes I made with the Taurus above, but I'm going too far in the other direction.

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Thank you so much for sharing your story. We Tauruses have high hopes I agree. I also know how the chemistry works out as I’m now experiencing it. I feel the same too Sags and Tauruses are perfect for each other though there are some negatives. I’m not sure how to make my Sag open up? He can’t stay without me he doesn’t let me go. But he neither accepts it himself nor reacts when I flirt ;(

All the best for your current one. Hope it succeeds through rain and shine🙂

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Hey guys,

Yesterday he asked me to come over to his place and he cooked for me, we had lunch and played games. We sat together side by side and he’s explaining me on how to play the game. Man I just can’t resist anymore I asked him if he has missed so he invited to his home. But he said why would he miss me?

He’s insisting that I’m his friend and we’re friends. I don’t like it but can’t lose him. So keeping up with all that stuff. How to make him realize that he likes me and how to make him open up about his feelings? I’m not sure if he actually felt anything when I am closer to him.

I think any red blooded man would be feeling something in that situation. Maybe he was shy to go for the kiss. Did you try the shoulder rubs? Especially if you sit behind him, and you put your thighs around him. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Thighs. Just a recommendation. Best of luck. Keep us updated

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As you mentioned in the other post i’m An introvert can’t go beyond the lines. If he have felt something, why can’t he express it. It’s like I should get over him now that the things are only one way and goes no where.

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Evolved sags are usually like this. I'm the same way with everyone in my work place, male and female. It's a way of creating a positive atmosphere and relationships with people. Sags are tactless though. If he likes you you will know it, or he will seem out of place by keeping his distance, because he doesn't want to put his foot in his mouth.

You might have to do something bold to stand out, or just bond with him more. There's been two ways I transformed these flirtships into something more. One was an Aries, who stood her ground and blatantly flirted with me. That was hot. The other was a Taurus, who seamlessly spent more time with me, and somehow we started giving each other shoulder rubs, then I took it from there

Thank you for the reply. I’m more interested in your Taurus relationship. Who verbally proposed first? Is it you or the Taurus? Are you still with the same Taurus?

As I am Taurus i’m Definitely in the second bonding way you mentioned. So just curious.

We didn't verbally propose anything. I hit on her very suavely and with bravado and charm, and she showed no fiery signs of interest, so I left it alone. Fast forward two years, and she starts insinuatng herself into my life. We were in the school teater program together, so we spent a lot of time back stage and stuff. She must have been the one to propose shoulder rubs, becuase that's not something I do. I was an actor that season, and I made her my costime designer, because she was in costumes. So she was my assistant who I exchanged shoulder rubs with backstage. One night we were at the after-play dinner, and I walked her outside and kissed her. From there we started dating and it became more serious.

She mentioned marriage once, and it got really serious. Something in me told it to break it off. I liked to justify it as me being bored with her, but really it felt, idk, like she was dropping so much on me and she had so much hope and it was just a lot. So I told her we should be friends, but we kept in touch. We both dated other people, and eventually it became nasty because I wanted her back, and she wouldn't give me the time of day.

So no, I'm not with her. I'm going through something with another Taurus though. After the one I just described, I realized I needed a Taurus. I don't know if I can let my current Taurus go. It's so intense, I don't want other signs. The balance is perfect because Sags are extroverts, aloof, funny, and intellectual. Taurus are introverts, calm, serious to death, practical, and it just balances out. It's like a life partner where you can just be figuring each other out for life and it stays fresh and inseperable. So we will see. I think I'm trying to avoid the mistakes I made with the Taurus above, but I'm going too far in the other direction.

Thank you so much for sharing your story. We Tauruses have high hopes I agree. I also know how the chemistry works out as I’m now experiencing it. I feel the same too Sags and Tauruses are perfect for each other though there are some negatives. I’m not sure how to make my Sag open up? He can’t stay without me he doesn’t let me go. But he neither accepts it himself nor reacts when I flirt ;(

All the best for your current one. Hope it succeeds through rain and shine🙂

When you flirt, he probably thinks you're just being you. He doesn't know how you behave around each person in your life, so he assumes you're a flirty little cat. This is something I'm experiecing now: I assume "my" current Taurus is always open and flirty, and I can't appreciate anything special we have with each other. I could be wrong about her, but I just haven't seen her around the other people in her life. I like it, but there's nothing "there" to click.

He may also be taking you for granted and just assuming he has you in his back pocket.

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Omg on point, I remember now, the other day he was asking who am I flirting with which means he assumes that I was like that all the time. Okay which means flirting doesn’t work in this case. If I have to let him know that he’s special without flirting approach, not sure if I have to propose. Looks like that’s the only way out, but it takes a lot for me to do that.

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Hey guys,

Yesterday he asked me to come over to his place and he cooked for me, we had lunch and played games. We sat together side by side and he’s explaining me on how to play the game. Man I just can’t resist anymore I asked him if he has missed so he invited to his home. But he said why would he miss me?

He’s insisting that I’m his friend and we’re friends. I don’t like it but can’t lose him. So keeping up with all that stuff. How to make him realize that he likes me and how to make him open up about his feelings? I’m not sure if he actually felt anything when I am closer to him.

I think any red blooded man would be feeling something in that situation. Maybe he was shy to go for the kiss. Did you try the shoulder rubs? Especially if you sit behind him, and you put your thighs around him. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Thighs. Just a recommendation. Best of luck. Keep us updated

As you mentioned in the other post i’m An introvert can’t go beyond the lines. If he have felt something, why can’t he express it. It’s like I should get over him now that the things are only one way and goes no where.

Do you know about his past dating life? Is he the type to make moves, or is he shy? I usually require A LOT of comfort to open up. Like just us together somewhere private, I have to know she's into me, and I have to know she's accepting and will still be there. Like the other post, I have to know there's something special, or else I don't feel like opening up

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He told he’s never been a relationship before but he looks at lot of girls. Which means he might be shy to do anything beyond that. To the extent I know him, he’s not a type to make moves

Ok guys so today I tried to be a bit straightforward because you guys suggested that he needs hints and evidence that I like him. He was not shocked or surprised but telling me don’t behave differently, just be yourself. And this, I take it as just friends.

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Ok guys so today I tried to be a bit straightforward because you guys suggested that he needs hints and evidence that I like him. He was not shocked or surprised but telling me don’t behave differently, just be yourself. And this, I take it as just friends.

What exactly happened? I imagine he has to feel something, given your stories so far. He may be intimidated, like you like him, and now the ball is in his court to woo you and make a relationship happen. It might have to go slower than that. The best thing to do might be to keep hanging out, being his friend, flirting, maybe get some shoulder rubs in there, and let it develop without any formal courting involved (which I read that Taurus love, so this may be a dealbreaker for you).

There was a Leo I dated, my first love actually. We were just friends for a while. I was attracted to her and wanted her, but she had a boyfriend so we just became really good buddies and there was always this underlying attachment. But she broke up and my Scoprio friend basically had to tell me, "you should go out with her." And I went from there.

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Well I don’t know if this can be related to all Sags but in my case, he’s a bit manipulative it seems to me. Why am I saying this? He’s being all nice to me(in personal texts etc). If I don’t talk he’s after me and he can’t stay away from me, but he’s showing off to others like I’m after him. All my colleagues were now thinking I am after him. But no that’s not true, and I can bet he can’t stay without me and he’s going to feel really bad after losing me to some other guy. We talked about how Sags work until now, let me tell you about Tauruses - we’re known for being stubborn. Yes either you get it or lose it and there’s no in between for Tauruses. I can’t speak for all Taureans but at least most of them will be like that. Trying to get away from him no more games anymore. It’s not that I don’t know his tricks of using me to his own advantage(showing off that i’m after him, giving an impression to others that i’m His best buddy etc) it’s just because I like him. But now that I think, I deserve a bit more.

Yesterday there’s a party and my friends were teasing both of us. They asked him if he likes me. He told yes but not like that just as friends. So it’s clear 🙂

Above is just an update @saggurl88 and @blvckphvse hope you don’t mind quoting you 🙂

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Yesterday there’s a party and my friends were teasing both of us. They asked him if he likes me. He told yes but not like that just as friends. So it’s clear 🙂

Awwww- Sorry to hear that.

I don't want to get your hopes up, but at the same time, a Sag being teased into something like this isn't the best way to know the real answer. But if his actions meet his words, then it's probably true.

If he's showing you more interest, if you've backed off, then he will be regretting those words.

We are a tricky bunch 😢

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Ok guys so today I tried to be a bit straightforward because you guys suggested that he needs hints and evidence that I like him. He was not shocked or surprised but telling me don’t behave differently, just be yourself. And this, I take it as just friends.

What were you straightforward about? What exactly was said by both of you?

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Yesterday there’s a party and my friends were teasing both of us. They asked him if he likes me. He told yes but not like that just as friends. So it’s clear 🙂

Awwww- Sorry to hear that.

I don't want to get your hopes up, but at the same time, a Sag being teased into something like this isn't the best way to know the real answer. But if his actions meet his words, then it's probably true.

If he's showing you more interest, if you've backed off, then he will be regretting those words.

We are a tricky bunch 😢

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Well yeah Sags are a tricky bunch I agree. His actions doesn’t meet his words. He said friends but acts like more than a friend. Or I am interpreting it in the wrong way. He can’t stay away, he wants to spend time with me, play, eat and chat or joke around only with me. But he won’t accept there is anything more than friendship there. I observed him being jealous when I am talking to other guys as well. But he won’t open up on that. Yesterday I tried in 1000 ways, he says only friends and he likes me as a friend. Not sure if he knew that he has feelings for me and still not expressing it or if he don’t know yet. I want him to regret/realize but not really smart enough to find a way to do it. poured out sorry for giving lengthy messages.

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Ok guys so today I tried to be a bit straightforward because you guys suggested that he needs hints and evidence that I like him. He was not shocked or surprised but telling me don’t behave differently, just be yourself. And this, I take it as just friends.

What were you straightforward about? What exactly was said by both of you?

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I asked him if he missed me and I told him I am thinking about him - straight forward Tauruses we are!lol

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Ok guys so today I tried to be a bit straightforward because you guys suggested that he needs hints and evidence that I like him. He was not shocked or surprised but telling me don’t behave differently, just be yourself. And this, I take it as just friends.

What were you straightforward about? What exactly was said by both of you?

I asked him if he missed me and I told him I am thinking about him - straight forward Tauruses we are!lol

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lol- What did he say to this? And this isn't any type of do you like me talk 😆 This is more avoidance.

You should tease him with a "hey we are juts friends remember, so why do "this"?" You can be blunt.

But if you're fine with just being friends then leave it. Doesn't seem like either of you are interested in what the other is wanting. Both of you kind of dance around it.

Him being called out in front of everyone, doesn't mean anything. I'm not trying to give you hope, but it really doesn't. what was he supposed to say? Yeah I like her and then possibly get rejected in front of everyone? NOPE!

You should be friendly and maybe say something like, "So since you don't like me, what is your type?" I mean you guys know each other and are friends/ coworkers right? See if he describes you or someone completely different.

Bumping up

I like him or like him not? But he makes me think about him a lot. I am very curious about mysterious things and his mind is one of them. What’s on his mind is always hard to figure out.

I am all good going and he tried to annoy me, though he knows immediately that he annoyed me and comes back apologising to me. I’m stubborn enough. I don’t easily forgive people being a Taurus girl.

I saw him almost with teary eyes when i’m leaving I think he likes me to the core, but he won’t open up. He’s happy to see me back but won’t open up. Ahh tricky. I’m trying completely to avoid and ignore him and he’s upset about it expressing that on social media by posting some quotes(which he usually don’t). Not sure where’s it going.. we’re good but not like how we used to be before.. I was busy enough and captivating for his eyes and he’s falling for me and courting me at gatherings I can sense it and I left without informing him he’s possessive the next day. Not sure if he’s like this with everyone or with me alone. We have a common gemini friend and they get along well too. She’s head over heels for him and I know that. His hard stares Mann... I used to have this uncomfortable feeling whenever he stares at me, I felt like he’s reading through my eyes. But now it’s changed I feel like ball is my court now. I’m doing my own stuff and ignoring i I really don’t know why he’s trying to annoy me or trying to hurt me bad with his words. Is he jealous as i’m doing stuff on my own without including him? Does it mean he wants to join me?

Not sure how I should take it.

@saggurl88 @DMV @SagMale only read this whenever you have time.

Thanks 🙂

It sounds like he likes you. The opening up thing, what is he supposed to be opening up to you about? You guys aren’t in a relationship, he won’t.

Do you like him still? You ignoring him and making things difficult could make him lose interest. It just depends on how much he already likes you.

If opening up means admitting that he likes you, he’s already said “just as friends” when put on the spot ( I wouldn’t believe that though) So did you ever end up saying anything to him or ask him if he was serious about that comment?

We like a challenge so sometimes all this back and forth torture is fun but again, just depends on how much he likes you.

You should tell him that the friendship isn’t like it used to be and ask him why. You can be direct and honest with a Sag. It’s been months, that so long to chase and be uncertain. You have too much patience. If he dines like you, he probably can’t tell that you like him with all the bad treatment you’re giving him, being very unfriendly.

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It sounds like he likes you. The opening up thing, what is he supposed to be opening up to you about? You guys aren’t in a relationship, he won’t.

Do you like him still? You ignoring him and making things difficult could make him lose interest. It just depends on how much he already likes you.

If opening up means admitting that he likes you, he’s already said “just as friends” when put on the spot ( I wouldn’t believe that though) So did you ever end up saying anything to him or ask him if he was serious about that comment?

We like a challenge so sometimes all this back and forth torture is fun but again, just depends on how much he likes you.

You should tell him that the friendship isn’t like it used to be and ask him why. You can be direct and honest with a Sag. It’s been months, that so long to chase and be uncertain. You have too much patience. If he dines like you, he probably can’t tell that you like him with all the bad treatment you’re giving him, being very unfriendly.

Thanks for taking time to read it. Once upon a time I was crazy about him that’s true but not now. Time has the power to change anything.

I got over him now. I’m just being myself and that’s what is triggering his feelings it seems. I am not at all being available for him and that’s totally being me and not giving much importance to him. I am like this with all my just friends. But I think he’s still thinking where’s our friendship evaporated. As he mentioned we’re just friends, i’m being just friends to him. I’m not completely avoiding him, i’m not being too close to him. What do you think about the bad verbal treatment he’s giving me as I mentioned in my previous post? Do you think it’s his way of saying ‘I wanna join you?’ Or is he trying hurt me so I could lose my confidence and return back to him? Or is he being jealous? Why does Sags do that? Trying to hit on others confidence levels?

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It sounds like he likes you. The opening up thing, what is he supposed to be opening up to you about? You guys aren’t in a relationship, he won’t.

Do you like him still? You ignoring him and making things difficult could make him lose interest. It just depends on how much he already likes you.

If opening up means admitting that he likes you, he’s already said “just as friends” when put on the spot ( I wouldn’t believe that though) So did you ever end up saying anything to him or ask him if he was serious about that comment?

We like a challenge so sometimes all this back and forth torture is fun but again, just depends on how much he likes you.

You should tell him that the friendship isn’t like it used to be and ask him why. You can be direct and honest with a Sag. It’s been months, that so long to chase and be uncertain. You have too much patience. If he dines like you, he probably can’t tell that you like him with all the bad treatment you’re giving him, being very unfriendly.

Thanks for taking time to read it. Once upon a time I was crazy about him that’s true but not now. Time has the power to change anything.

I got over him now. I’m just being myself and that’s what is triggering his feelings it seems. I am not at all being available for him and that’s totally being me and not giving much importance to him. I am like this with all my just friends. But I think he’s still thinking where’s our friendship evaporated. As he mentioned we’re just friends, i’m being just friends to him. I’m not completely avoiding him, i’m not being too close to him. What do you think about the bad verbal treatment he’s giving me as I mentioned in my previous post? Do you think it’s his way of saying ‘I wanna join you?’ Or is he trying hurt me so I could lose my confidence and return back to him? Or is he being jealous? Why does Sags do that? Trying to hit on others confidence levels?

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You guys are just friends though. And you didn’t ask him directly if he was interested, so there wasn’t a need to say anything further other then you are just friends, which he said. That part is clear between both of you.

If you’re over him and not interested in him, then just ignore his behavior and keep it friendly. He’ll move on and get over it with the lack of attention.

But it does seem like he likes you now. I’ve said previously that he probably won’t move on it if he can’t tell how you feel.

But you’ve gotten over him now, so it looks like it was a safe deal for him to not make a move anyways. 😉

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Posted by saggurl88

It sounds like he likes you. The opening up thing, what is he supposed to be opening up to you about? You guys aren’t in a relationship, he won’t.

Do you like him still? You ignoring him and making things difficult could make him lose interest. It just depends on how much he already likes you.

If opening up means admitting that he likes you, he’s already said “just as friends” when put on the spot ( I wouldn’t believe that though) So did you ever end up saying anything to him or ask him if he was serious about that comment?

We like a challenge so sometimes all this back and forth torture is fun but again, just depends on how much he likes you.

You should tell him that the friendship isn’t like it used to be and ask him why. You can be direct and honest with a Sag. It’s been months, that so long to chase and be uncertain. You have too much patience. If he dines like you, he probably can’t tell that you like him with all the bad treatment you’re giving him, being very unfriendly.

Thanks for taking time to read it. Once upon a time I was crazy about him that’s true but not now. Time has the power to change anything.

I got over him now. I’m just being myself and that’s what is triggering his feelings it seems. I am not at all being available for him and that’s totally being me and not giving much importance to him. I am like this with all my just friends. But I think he’s still thinking where’s our friendship evaporated. As he mentioned we’re just friends, i’m being just friends to him. I’m not completely avoiding him, i’m not being too close to him. What do you think about the bad verbal treatment he’s giving me as I mentioned in my previous post? Do you think it’s his way of saying ‘I wanna join you?’ Or is he trying hurt me so I could lose my confidence and return back to him? Or is he being jealous? Why does Sags do that? Trying to hit on others confidence levels?

You guys are just friends though. And you didn’t ask him directly if he was interested, so there wasn’t a need to say anything further other then you are just friends, which he said. That part is clear between both of you.

If you’re over him and not interested in him, then just ignore his behavior and keep it friendly. He’ll move on and get over it with the lack of attention.

But it does seem like he likes you now. I’ve said previously that he probably won’t move on it if he can’t tell how you feel.

But you’ve gotten over him now, so it looks like it was a safe deal for him to not make a move anyways. 😉

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Am back again.. I just don’t know why am I on and off with this guy the attraction towards him is strong and irresistible. I’m going mad.. I can’t control my feelings, neither express it to him. He cares for me he cares everyone too he told me recently he don’t care about anything related to me or my personal stuff. I was struck. I don’t know if he likes me. If at all he does, I don’t know how to make him confess. I also don’t know why am I struggling with all these feelings for him but he’s not. I don’t know how to move away from him... if I stop talking to him will it work? But if I have to avoid him, I have to avoid a lot my common friends too it’s kinda making me sad thinking why do I have to go through all of this and he’s uneffected at all 😢