Advice on a Taurus /man

Ive been dating a guy for almost a month. (Hes a Taurus ) in the beginning he was open on how he felt and falling for me etc. I said i liked him alot and when i do fall he will know i mean it and i fall hard... he was fine with it and kept speaking of our future together. Then i found a fb profile of his ex that still says she was in relationship, i confronted him and he assured me he would never have asked me to be his gf if he was still seeing her. He then subtly putting my trust to test by talking of gorls whom are friends. I brushed it off... i planned a weekend with him for his birthday but last minute he says hes going away for his birthday as his mom gave him a weekend away gift for his birthday. I was very upset... but didnt hold it againt him. but some things i mentioned (not on purpose made it clear i was upset but didnt come out staight and say it)

Last week he was not replying to texts so i told him it hurts - he said sorry his phone was off and i said well what about when your phone was on later - (this is the first time i told him it bugged me) he then replied " sorry sometimes i feel no good for you" iasked why? And sent a few points on why i like him as much as i do.. (hes shown some insecurities before about himself and sometimes feel like he needs to tell me how successful he is financially ) i kept all the good traits to him as a person and he replied "aaaaahw you too good for me"

Then i had minimal contact with him and sent a text saying i trust him with all my heart and believe i him and our future with all my heart and ive fallen in love with him... he replied mwah aaahhhw baby. I then let him know i was going out with friends and he replied" cool enjoy baby". I let him know i was home safe and i wish he was there with me and missing him...

Next morning was his birthday - i called but he didnt answer then later i tried again but no answer so i left a message.... next thing i know he blocked my number on wattsapp ?

Im so confused....

I sent him a text saying - Hi baby. I see you blocked me on wattsapp? Im not angry, hurt but not angry... I know things gotten a little more serious from my end. If you need time to know what you really want ill give it to you. Just let me know whats going on. I have no clue what i did wrong... Anyways. Hope u having fun and safe travels back to jhb.

He gave me his satellite decoder before he went away as he wants me to have better few on tv...do i take it back to him and leave with his complex security along with his birthday gift.

What did i do wrong?

I didnt see it as clingy.... i just called him out on stuff as we in a relationship and i called him twice as i wanted to wish him happy birthday?

So i just step back and wait? I dont understand the dating thing 😢

How long does this last... so i know if im single or in a relationship. To move on or wait.... what is this....

We have been in a relationship for a month... i was the one who held back - he was really turning on the charm and asked me to be hes girlfriend and kept asking week after week if i love him yet... i finally did fall in love and yes we probably moved to fast but from hes side... now im clingy... i also only textd him once he did. I didnt ask him questions or text alot because i like my space too and gave him his...

sounds like you got played.

any frankly, for blocking you on whatsapp, you should be angry! ffs.

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by jeane
sounds like you got played.

any frankly, for blocking you on whatsapp, you should be angry! ffs.

Maybe he felt he had no choice!

Maybe she was too intense.. She sounds intense here and it has been under 4 weeks!

@OP, how old are you?

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maybe but he was the one repeatedly saying to her, do you love me yet? then when she says yes, he blocks her without a word. he is playing a game.

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Posted by jeane

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by jeane
sounds like you got played.

any frankly, for blocking you on whatsapp, you should be angry! ffs.

Maybe he felt he had no choice!

Maybe she was too intense.. She sounds intense here and it has been under 4 weeks!

@OP, how old are you?

maybe but he was the one repeatedly saying to her, do you love me yet? then when she says yes, he blocks her without a word. he is playing a game.

Hmmm. It would seem that way. Plus they have already been intimate and I don't think she "studied" him as long as she should... But what can one do.. Players come in different guises...

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she's young. can you really fall in love in 4 weeks?

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Then i found a fb profile of his ex that still says she was in relationship, i confronted him and he assured me he would never have asked me to be his gf if he was still seeing her.

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i planned a weekend with him for his birthday but last minute he says hes going away for his birthday as his mom gave him a weekend away gift for his birthday.

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There goes your answer. He's in a relationship, and that weekend getaway was planned by his girlfriend.

What mother plans a weekend getway for her son's birthday present?

LMAAAO!

Those charming Taurus men I tell you...LOL!

He is full of CaCa.