Advice on Taurus woman?

Hey, I have a question, been seeing a Taurus woman and had three dates, another one lined up. It’s been going well, she talks a lot. Just going to nice restaurants and bars, she works nights in a bar, so it’s usually before she goes to work. We went out last night and she took the night off. This morning I looked at her FB page and she posts where we go on there, just photos of herself, not me.

Then I noticed she was out at a restaurant at the weekend. She asked me to do something that weekend but I was out of town and we rearranged. It’s just now I see the pictures, it’s like she could have been on a date with another guy, post was same style as our dates. But there is only the one, and our three dates are on there.

And I’m not sure but she seems to want to take it really slow, we’ve kissed on all three dates but sometimes just when we say goodbye, just on the lips a couple of times (not throughout the date). And I’ve paid for everything on the dates, which I don’t mind, but wondering if she just wants to try restaurants and get a guy to pay for everything? Finding it all difficult to read at the moment. Hoping if I keep going, and arranging dates, then things will develop a bit more? And I’m not sure if we are messaging each other enough, it kinda feels like 5 messages per day maybe for two days, then we don’t message for a whole day, and then we message again, but it’s usually just to arrange the date. Not much chit chat. Last night she put a kiss (emoji) on the message for the first time, and I accidentally put the sleep emoji (omg). If we have dates, and the conversation is good, will she be more romantic later? And if I try to stick to the same routine? Like if I try to get a date every Wednesday and Sunday, is that something Taurus women like, ie routine? Or more variety?

Also we had a photo on our first date, and I liked it so much I put it as my iPhone wallpaper and on the second date she saw it (oops) is that too much too soon?

Think I’m just finding it all difficult to read at the moment.

I have a few close Taurus women friends. In general, they like to be wined/ dined and slow moving traditional courtship, so you are on the right track. But they also like a bit of a challenge. I think it has something to do with the chase.

My Taurus bff says her fiancé always gives in to her too easily and complains that she does not want a pushover.

Yes, I do think the photo on the first date is a bit much. Try not to appear so sprung so soon. Just play it cool 😎 . Your an Aries so that should be easy for you.

As a Taurus woman this whole conception that we are slow moving doesn't apply to me at all.

I Jump right into relationships, never giving me time to heal in between (and I admit this does usually burn me) Trying to learn how to NOT do this. (My libra Rising possibly?)

I'm also a person that is loyal to a fault, If I started seeing someone- even casually, I wouldn't be able to be seeing someone else. I can't date two guys at once.

Im also very forward with my feelings, I don't chase, I don't play games i'm "take me or leave me"

If you feel as though she may be seeing other guys ask her, don't accuse her-but ask and don't get upset if she is because at this stage you aren't exclusive, haven't had that conversation and she has every right to.

And maybe the face of the matter is she isn't that into you if shes keeping her options open, because honestly if i'm into a person i'm into them, I don't look elsewhere

Thanks, I appreciate your advice. I’m thinking I’ve just been overthinking it, I think I need to carry on doing what I’m doing and beleive in myself, I know I’m a good deal so even if other guys are on the scene I should do ok. And it will take some time to get to know her properly anyway.

Sounds perfectly normal man. Just chill haha.

Do you really want her messaging you a 1,000 times a day ^.^?

Well okay everyone is DIFFERENT...I can appreciate that... but that would fucking infuriate me after awhile.... 1,000 messages hahahA

AND

I can tolerate a lot of behavior I find most people can’t.

Posted by AriesJo
Thanks, I appreciate your advice. I’m thinking I’ve just been overthinking it, I think I need to carry on doing what I’m doing and beleive in myself, I know I’m a good deal so even if other guys are on the scene I should do ok. And it will take some time to get to know her properly anyway.

Yeah take your time, whats the rush (coming from a habitual rusher) I like what you said "i know i'm a good deal" Taurus appreciate that and they know when they have a good thing. They love stable people and confident strong men.

so keep with that attitude and you are golden!

that photo thing was intense

.. r u an aries sun ?

horrible combination sorry

i have an aries sun friend dated taurus sun female with aries moon

all fiery in the moment.. he even given her a promise ring

but ofcoz he got bored after that.



whats her venus sign??

taurus doesn't really want ur WOooowoo moments.

she likes getting spoiled for sure but she needs consistency and stability from you

and normally those things, we can FEEL them

it might take sometimes but u need to be clear with her about what u want

again . if she was a lot of earth, she needs time and patience.

i don't recommend this paring at all sorry.

Every pair is different. Some are fast moving and some move at a slow pace.

For me, you're overthinking it. Patience is a virtue and Taurus women like to be courted and sometimes it can take a while, all depending on the vibe we get with you. I usually take my time because I'm still trying to figure the guy out, over analyzing his words, tone, body language, etc. The relationship I'm currently in is the first one where it all just happened so fast and even that alone is way out of my comfort zone but baby steps to adapting.

Also, Taurus women aren't really known as the "Gold digger" type. We may be lazy, but we like to work hard in our careers and make that money and spoil our men in more ways than one when we really care about you. So the next time you go out with her, try to bring it up, like hey, lets go to a dinner and a movie or suggest something new that she may like (art, museums, etc). Ask what she would like to do and try to figure out a way where one can pay for "movie" and you can pay for dinner. Unless you're old school gentleman who feels that men should pay for everything (just like my Aries ex), then by all means, do you. IF you're going to be the one that pays for everything & that doesn't bother you and you want a future with this woman then you better be honest to yourself and be ok with it. I used to bicker with my ex because I would want to pay and he wouldn't let me, his alpha male would come out and that never went well with my alpha side lol.

If she's not being curious by taking it further with the kisses, no worries, could be that she's still trying to figure you out. I'm only assuming based on the info that you're giving me on the A-side of the story. I usually take it slow unless I have an insane igniting connection with a guy which rarely happens (except with the Gemini I'm with now) and when that does happen, a little bit of my morals get pushed to the side. So continue to get to know her. Consistency & brutal honesty is key with us.

Posted by Boots1313
As a Taurus woman this whole conception that we are slow moving doesn't apply to me at all.

I Jump right into relationships, never giving me time to heal in between (and I admit this does usually burn me) Trying to learn how to NOT do this. (My libra Rising possibly?)

I'm also a person that is loyal to a fault, If I started seeing someone- even casually, I wouldn't be able to be seeing someone else. I can't date two guys at once.

Im also very forward with my feelings, I don't chase, I don't play games i'm "take me or leave me"

If you feel as though she may be seeing other guys ask her, don't accuse her-but ask and don't get upset if she is because at this stage you aren't exclusive, haven't had that conversation and she has every right to.

And maybe the face of the matter is she isn't that into you if shes keeping her options open, because honestly if i'm into a person i'm into them, I don't look elsewhere

This is also how I am...I also have a Libra Rising placement. And my Venus is in Aries.

I second this advice.