Am I strange?

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lol i agree with aquaaqi. she makes brilliant sense. i liked how the way sagitTAUries agreed with her, too. lol you guys have a great grasp of being strange.


however, i also believe that we can't really define normal, becuz we really don't know what normal is; "normal" is what society has placed on us, so it is society that is basically taking care of how we should think and what we are "supposed" to deem as acceptable. it's a brain-washing mechanism that makes us see things through its eyes, not ours. overall, i just think that the norm is established by the "big guys," and that it may also change at any given moment, whenever the big guys feel that society is ready for a bit of an evolution. but i really do think that we are all unique and different in our own ways. the only trick is to be strong enough to disregard the voices around us, and really let our own individuality shine through; only then can we truly be strange and proud.
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i know what you mean, but if normal is what you make it to be, then why are so many ppl trying to fit in? society is generally brain-washed, in my opinion. i mean, do you not see girls making fun of other girls who are not "dressing" in fashion (fashion has a lot to do with many things, but no time to go into it), and guys making fun of other guys for being too skinny/whimpy? and who knows, skinny guys may all of a sudden be a trend. and then after that, being "different" may also become a trend. but either way, society has always defined "normal" for us. talks about normal is everywhere, whether you like it or not. i've always disregarded it and i hated ppl who are always into fitting in. but it is true that the majority of ppl (especially the young ones) try to fit in to be "normal" becuz they want to be what society has "deemed as acceptable."
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you may even accidently stereotype certain zodiac signs, for example (since we're on an astrology thread). let's say that you dislike someone who happens to be a certain sign; wouldn't that somewhat cause you to create a negative image of other people who are also born under that particular sign? you may not always be aware of it, but that's one, true example, becuz i've noticed that around the threads many times. but in truth, it's only natural to do so becuz our minds typically function in that manner, anyway.

but i'm just saying that that is the majority of how society works. and if you yourself don't see the use of trying to fit in, then good for you. you're a bull; and tauruses are the most STUBBORN sign, right? so that would mean that we're also the least likely to follow others becuz we always form our own opinions. but that can be good in its own way, becuz that would make us the ultimate non-conformists.
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but don't get me wrong, i do understand what you're saying. you're going at it in practical terms, whereas, my version is seen intellectually. i know that you think that everyone is their own person, and that "normal" pops up when too many ppl act a certain way. but don't you think that *some* of them followed, rathered then became their own person? i mean, if you were born in the 17th century, let's say, then you'd definitely act more differently than you would if you were born in the 21st century. something is always established before you are even in existence, and that is the "norm." that is the brain-washing mechanism that i talk about. it's about society, and i've just put my opinion in practical ways for ya..

and, like i said, it's good that you want to be your own person. but if you think of it as a "whole" in regards to "normality," then the *majority* of society did not deviate. and when i say deviate, i mean on your own terms -- not deviating becuz you want to be different, for that itself would be another trend. but yeah, that was what i was getting at -- the majority.
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but in regards to hate, i don't actually HATE them lol; i meant that i hate to see them in that process, becuz i wouldn't waste my time hating ppl for no reason. my thoughts are just some of the things that i've gathered, but i wouldn't really go around preaching this stuff to strangers lol. it's just there; i seriously don't hate them. i'm barely awake most of the day -- i wouldn't have time to hate (i'm actually serious).

basically, i just don't like the drama that it creates. there is a lot of drama that has been going around with my friends, and i *hate* how it tore many of them apart. it had to do with conformity and many other things. it's pretty bizzarre. but yeah, don't take these things TOO seriously, becuz this is just my opinion on things -- not how i completely live my life. but i see that you're coming from a bull's field. my chart only has 3 earth signs in it, so i'm not as concrete as you are, but i totally get what you're saying.


i'm just telling you where i stand and how i feel about it..

..and trust me, i do not spend time thinking about these things all day; i'll just simply state my views and move on.. =]
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i agree with most of what you're saying about america, becuz it's definitely true.

lol neptune.. that's a cool planet.. ;p




but damn, i got sick *again*. i think i got it from my boyfriend lol. that booger.. tsk tsk.

but i was ok after 2 days. i've been healing pretty fast lately. the last time i got sick was only a week ago and it took only two days, as well.

hmm, but this damn body of mine is freakin exhausted from recovering so quickly. it seems like, since my body tried SO HARD to fight the virus for me, i somewhat feel all worked-out. i'm not the sick type of tired, but the fatigued type of tired, and i keep getting sleepy! NOOOOOOOOOOoo -- that' can't good.. =o

..especially since i JUST remembered that i have two midterms tomorrow and i haven't even studied! *GASPS* (my classes have weird midterm dates this quarter, which is weird, but ahh well.) and i think i'm supposed to do Wu Shu (Chinese Martial Arts) today with my roomate (her boyfriend created a class for it) at 9pm or so, which is soon.

(i only decided to try it out becuz i wanted to try a different type of marital arts, since i've already taken a few years of karate when i was little, although i don't remember much..)




but yes, "should i stay or should i go.." (lol remember that song? haha i'm so corny).


AHHHHH ok, i need to shut up and either go or study. i don't have time to yak here (i wasn't supposed to go on the computer becuz of my busy schedule, but, you know me (or do you? lol), i do more of what i want than what i'm supposed to when it comes to school, so yeah. gahhhhhhhh.. that's it.. i'm logging off!

....and i'm out. (bye, sagitTAUries! nice talkin to ya)
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this is kinda off-topic but ahhhhhhh! i think i failed my midterms; they were sooooo effing HARD! piece of cow ass.. SHIET.

it sucks how they were back-to-back like last time -- stupid chemistry and calculus. i'ma so DIE next year when i have to take organic chemistry. ughhhh..... such academic suicide...... =X

but i did do well on my english essay, though. my teacher really liked my structure and views on the topic. but it sucks that i always do well in the classes that have nothing to do with my major. why is that?!!? (prolly cuz everything's easier than science lol)

everyone's telling me to major in philosophy becuz i tend to lean towards that side when i speak. but...... i dunno. i like chemistry.. but.. i can't put my finger on it. philosophy is fun, but i don't know if i'd want to major in it. although, i'd rather let my viewpoints come to me naturally than, from a classroom; at least i know that much about myself.

hell, i've never even took a philosophy class in my life. all my classes were always logic like math and stuff.. (i hate math, btw), but hmm.. maybe it's now my calling or something; maybe i need to travel the world and find my answer! muAHAHAHA.

hmm.. is it weird that i never feel like i'm satisfied? everytime i get comfortable, i feel like i need to look for more. i want to go to egypt and europe. i want to travel my whole life and never stay in one place. i don't know.. that sounds good to me, but what do i really want?? does this have to do with sagittarian rising? or maybe my #5 life-path? WHAT?!!?

haha ok, this girl will go shut the eff up now. period.
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*hmm.. is it weird that i never feel like i'm satisfied?
-no

*does this have to do with sagittarian rising?
-yes....since i experience this to 🙂

*Normal is what society dictates as an ideal value, look, behavior, etc. It is what is found most often in society-- as a whole--not neccessarily what you or I believe to be normal in our family or peer group, but collectively among middle aged white bred suburbanites with 2-4 children in an income bracket of 30,000-60,000.
-thank you Professor!! I'm not "normal" either, no wonder we get along so well....
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i agree with aguaaqi's definition of normal. lol i know i went a little off tangent to the question, but i was merely talking about the fact that "normal" doesn't stay the same. things will be in, and the won't in the next decade or so.

i.e. were there soccer moms ("normal") in existence in the the 14th century? i don't know about you guys, but i don't think that they were..

but yeah, i know what normal is, and i wasn't trying to define it in contextual terms. i was simply stating my views on how society reacts to it and how they adapt to the ever-changing trends.

that is all, i guess.. and i hope you that guys didn't misunderstand me.. =D
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