Any hope with Taurus man?

Kind of a long story but will make it as short as possible. I'm a Gemini and met a Taurus man 4yrs ago through work. Thought I picked up on him crushing on me, but I was married and so was he so kept it friendly only. We lost touch for about a year then started talking again and meeting for lunch on occasion. My Libra husband cheated on me and left for another woman so I turned to Taurus for support. He had apparently come to bad spot in his marriage also and we commiserated. Some flirting ensued but nothing major. Kept in touch through my divorce and then he and his family had to move for work. Shortly before he left we took things to the physical level. Had a month long fling and then backed off- was purely friends with benefits situation and neither of us discussed romance. I started dating someone else afterwards and he seemed determined to stick it out with his wife. Last fall I had business in his new city and we met up for dinner as just friends. We got seafood and he fed me a few pieces and was generally flirty. But nothing more than that happened. When I left he gave me a really tender kiss which felt more emotional than before. I totally fell hard for him on that trip but knew it was likely to work out. We've kept in contact but it's mostly friendly checking in and then every once in a while gets really flirtatious. I think he is genuinely done with his wife, and has been for a long time, but is struggling because they have kids - which is understandable. I genuinely like him as a friend, but ever since we had our fling I feel like he keeps me at arms length and I worry that He doesn't even respect me as a friend anymore and just sees me as a "booty call" now. Ive looked at our charts and we are actually really compatible, but I also know that Taureans don't make drastic life changes like Geminis do. According to his chart though, he's going through a Saturn transit this year and is going to be reflecting on his relationship. I think the best thing for me to do is to back off, move on and check back in with in six months or so to see where things and stand and try to rekindle a non-romantic friendship. I can't shake this feeling that we would be great together, but I also would rather go back to being friends with him than nothing at all. Never been attracted to a Taurus before so have no ideas how to approach this situation. Any advice?

Posted by idk
JUST DO IT!
do it. be that booty call. and be a fantastic booty call.
if he cares about that booty you'll be more than that in no time flat.
just keep him moving in a direction you want. in a non-manipulative way.

Lol! Ok thanks I think you distilled my whole spiel to the main question: once I get into "booty-call" zone with a Taurus, will it stay there (since they're a fixed sign) or can it progress to something more significant over time?

Posted by Tigerlady
Kind of a long story but will make it as short as possible. I'm a Gemini and met a Taurus man 4yrs ago through work. Thought I picked up on him crushing on me, but I was married and so was he so kept it friendly only. We lost touch for about a year then started talking again and meeting for lunch on occasion. My Libra husband cheated on me and left for another woman so I turned to Taurus for support. He had apparently come to bad spot in his marriage also and we commiserated. Some flirting ensued but nothing major. Kept in touch through my divorce and then he and his family had to move for work. Shortly before he left we took things to the physical level. Had a month long fling and then backed off- was purely friends with benefits situation and neither of us discussed romance. I started dating someone else afterwards and he seemed determined to stick it out with his wife. Last fall I had business in his new city and we met up for dinner as just friends. We got seafood and he fed me a few pieces and was generally flirty. But nothing more than that happened. When I left he gave me a really tender kiss which felt more emotional than before. I totally fell hard for him on that trip but knew it was likely to work out. We've kept in contact but it's mostly friendly checking in and then every once in a while gets really flirtatious. I think he is genuinely done with his wife, and has been for a long time, but is struggling because they have kids - which is understandable. I genuinely like him as a friend, but ever since we had our fling I feel like he keeps me at arms length and I worry that He doesn't even respect me as a friend anymore and just sees me as a "booty call" now. Ive looked at our charts and we are actually really compatible, but I also know that Taureans don't make drastic life changes like Geminis do. According to his chart though, he's going through a Saturn transit this year and is going to be reflecting on his relationship. I think the best thing for me to do is to back off, move on and check back in with in six months or so to see where things and stand and try to rekindle a non-romantic friendship. I can't shake this feeling that we would be great together, but I also would rather go back to being friends with him than nothing at all. Never been attracted to a Taurus before so have no ideas how to approach this situation. Any advice?

I think what u want to do is the best advice back off and just, be friends. And see what will happen. Dont try to do something with him. even if he try something. Tell him his married if he want to do something. That for now its just better to be friends. that his not single. That just being friends is best. And hope for the best. Then wenn u both in the future are single u can try to flirth with him and winn him over. Taurus people are ebsorbing everything you do. So if u keep doing things with him wenn his married. He is not going to take u seriouse. even if he has problems in his married live. He is just looking at ure actions. so if his single he wont see u as a person he can be with for seriouse relationship. he will just play you. Show him that u have respect for his relationship and u can wait till his single and stay friends. Than his behiviour will turn. like before or better. advice from taurus xx