taurus man...super confused

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by bee22 on Tuesday, January 7, 2014 and has 17 replies.

Why Taurus Men Sometimes Don't Respond After Asking You Out

Taurus men can be cautious and may take time to respond after asking someone out. They value stability and may need to feel confident before committing. Lack of response does not always mean disinterest, but patience is often necessary with Taurus men.

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@tiki33
20 Years10,000+ Posts

This ask thing is way different for men than it is for women so...

Did he set a time, a place, a date? If he didn't then he did not officially ask you out. If he said we should go to so and so on Sunday but didn't set a time then it's not a date. If he said let's meet up soon then it's not a date, if he said let's go out soon then it's not a date. If he said let's hang out tomorrow but did not set up a place nor nor a time it's not a date.

So the real question is...How did he ask you out? His exact words please.

If he asked you out, set up a place, time and date then he's just a jerk and ditch his number, next.

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@bee22
12 Years

Thanks for your input. Really appreciate your insights.

Here's our text exchange:

Taurus: Let's Grab drinks.
Me: Drinks sounds good. When were ya thinking?
Taurus: Sometime this week?
Me: Sure! How bout Tues or Fri?

Then, no response....So confused.

What do you think?

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Had a similar experience and I don't have the patience for it so it went nowhere and then he went a bit psycho on NYE...I've ended any contact. Can't be bothered with the playing.

You might be different and patient and think he is worth it but after nothing for 2 weeks and there will be many more of that same BS if you are prepared to wait it out then go for gold!

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@LeoLove1975
12 YearsLeo

I'm a Leo, talking to a Taurus. He tried that with me, then I showed him how it felt. He didn't like it. Now he txt me all the time. I think taurus like the chase. Not to be chased.

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@M143
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Your Screen name is NinaBee2002 and bee22?

By the way,,, how old are you? I know you are Scorpio... thanks for a rush adrenaline, you hit me.

is that because I gave you comment "it's been year and a half and you don't know how long you

spend your time with that A $ $ $ hole and you react"? lol. and you told me to check myself?

Is that you, fellow Scorp?

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@LeoLove1975
12 YearsLeo

I stopped texting him. Finally he txt back and I left him hanging for about a week. Then I finally gave in. Now everytime he txt, I don't txt back immediately. I act as cool as possible. Cause if he wants me then he better lay out the red carpet for this Leo 🙂

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@scorpiogirl99
14 Years

Posted by bee22
So for invitation, is it typical for Taurus to invite and not respond? It's weird.

I know in my case it is typical. I can't even count how many times HE posed the invitation, made the plans, and then made some excuse at the last minute. Then I won't hear from him for days and then out of the blue he will text or something like nothing happened. I can't for the life of me understand this. Because there have been times he actually did show up. I don't get why Taurus men do this..