Anyone with experience with an Aries / Taurus Cusp

Anyone with experience with an Aries / Taurus Cusp

Me. 😄

Okay VB!!! Yay!!! Tell all!!! 😄

So here is my story,I have connected with an Aries / Taurus cusper over 2 years ago...did not realize he was a cusper until he has taken an interest in me. I am still floored. I have always sought him out as a teacher / mentor and nothing more. He is a Peruvian archeologist and shaman. We have a million things in common. I am telling you ....he is confessing .....love love love feelings. I am going to California next month and we taking a trip together to Mexico with a group of people. I am a bit nervous, excited....and well .....just don't know what to expect. He is blowing up my phone, email, and text messages. Long story short .....I was dating a Scorpio that went aray and I was telling him how sad I was, a few weeks later he expressed his romantic feelings for me.

PD

Everything I read on this cusper ....is all about Power.

Cusp of Power, I am familiar with it. I have it. Sneak over to the Cuspie board and there's some information to start with. Sounds like he definitely knows what he wants and is going after it PD. We are stubborn, very much Taurus..we don't give up, boost that with Fire and it's damned near unstoppable. Like a steam roller.

Power struggle, control. We want things our way, definitely. Yes, patience is definitely not a strong suit. ^

Gabzor - I know what you mean about the "rushing" side of it. So I talked with him last night. He says "If all goes well in our week together and the chemistry is there, than he would move here to Colorado." I am like .....really? He says "Yes, I will want to be with my partner." Part of me thinks well that is just fabulous but another part of thinks be cautious. "I asked him if it was realisitc for us to know in a week if we are right together and he says "Yes". LOL He is being way serious about all this too. He is also not the average person with his work being part of the mystical side of the world

My Aries moon loves that he knows what he wants and he is straight-forward, but my Venus Capricorn wants to be cautious in the affairs of the heart. This is such a huge change from the Scorpio I had been dating.

Gabzor - What happened to your girl?

VB - I have read what you have on the cusp board. Very interesting stuff. Do you find that you fair better with other cusp vs. with invididual signs?

I will say this much about this cusper .......Very magnetic. Can't describe it, other than he drew me in quickly when we first met.

PD

I know I am more attracted to cuspers. That's not a hard and fast rule but I've noticed its occurrence. Even my best friend from girlhood on is a cusp. Gem/Taur. Don't know why it works out that way, but it does.
We are magnetic, something about the combination of earth and fire perhaps. But we come off simultaneously as grounding and exciting. Heady blend of contrasts that. There is a dichotomy at work, one moment we are placid and tranquil, the next move scarily fast and be a blur of energy.
But when we put our shoulder to something and go after it, there's nothing like it.
The two meet, join hands. One feeds the other. The Aries wants to overtake, the Taurus has the solidarity to bring it to heel and make it wait. Mental flex, there is nothing that goes beyond notice. It's very tactical and methodical.

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I know I am more attracted to cuspers. That's not a hard and fast rule but I've noticed its occurrence. Even my best friend from girlhood on is a cusp. Gem/Taur. Don't know why it works out that way, but it does.
We are magnetic, something about the combination of earth and fire perhaps. But we come off simultaneously as grounding and exciting. Heady blend of contrasts that. There is a dichotomy at work, one moment we are placid and tranquil, the next move scarily fast and be a blur of energy.
But when we put our shoulder to something and go after it, there's nothing like it.
The two meet, join hands. One feeds the other. The Aries wants to overtake, the Taurus has the solidarity to bring it to heel and make it wait. Mental flex, there is nothing that goes beyond notice. It's very tactical and methodical.

Do you ever regret moving so fast— Or do you just follow where your energy takes you?

Sometimes I do. Because it's forceful, and it startles people. Especially when they're not used to someone who is direct and has presence of mind to take what they want and need.
Many times I've followed where my energy takes me, sometimes with a result I wasn't keen on. But the important thing was I followed my heart. The inner dialogue of moi. 🙂

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Sometimes I do. Because it's forceful, and it startles people. Especially when they're not used to someone who is direct and has presence of mind to take what they want and need.
Many times I've followed where my energy takes me, sometimes with a result I wasn't keen on. But the important thing was I followed my heart. The inner dialogue of moi. 🙂

I can see this about this cusp.......that is the most admirable quality about this man. I love that he follows through everything with passion with little fear in how he approaches his life.

I am looking forward to my week with him. I don't want to go into much detail ....but this to me is really an adventure ....but I imagine for him this is completely normal and how he lives his life.

I imagine that this week with him will be far from ordinary.

PD

LOL No, it will not be. Buckle up lady, you're in for quite a ride. And when you return, feel free to make sure everyone knows how *boring* Taurus is NOT. 😉

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LOL No, it will not be. Buckle up lady, you're in for quite a ride. And when you return, feel free to make sure everyone knows how *boring* Taurus is NOT. 😉

I am sure "boring" is not on the agenda.

🙂 — 😉 I think it sounds like a very good start indeed.

And I completely dig what he said to you about moving if everything worked out that way. When we know what is right for us we'll literally move heaven and hell to make it happen. Distance is a stumbling block to blast through, not a deterrent.

Hehehee. Just caught the Aries moon bit. It demands to be claimed. In no uncertain words, no cloaking, plain English. "You're mine." Hints don't work, no guesstimating.. right on down the line with it. Three words: "You..are...mine."
Game over, end of story..yoohoo, seesyalater, toodle-oo, that's it. There isn't space for anyone else in your orbit from that point on. Oh yes, Aries cusp, and Aries moon. I'm jam packed with fiery goodness. And I stay crispy in milk. 😉

😢 ^

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Hehehee. Just caught the Aries moon bit. It demands to be claimed. In no uncertain words, no cloaking, plain English. "You're mine." Hints don't work, no guesstimating.. right on down the line with it. Three words: "You..are...mine."
Game over, end of story..yoohoo, seesyalater, toodle-oo, that's it. There isn't space for anyone else in your orbit from that point on. Oh yes, Aries cusp, and Aries moon. I'm jam packed with fiery goodness. And I stay crispy in milk. 😉

So true about teh Aries ......HA

Loved "I'm jam packed with fiery goodness. And I stay crispy in milk. 😉" Cute cute ......🙂

Definitely true about the Aries. LOL Thanks! *saluting*

Soooooo I am having cold feet now. 😢 For some reason I am not trusting this whole thing with this man. I don't know why other than my intuition tells me he is a player or in Latin American terms.....a.k.a. Machismo. I am looking for a relationship but I am not sure he is the right one for me. I have been avoiding the conversation with him. I guess I should talk with him tonight about it.

PD

He makes everything all better. 🙂

Oh excellent, that froze my little blood squisher when I felt your Pisces swimming gearing up. Just relax, go with the flow. This can work and well with time. Have to get past all that nonsense, he'll be there for you. Trust the woman when she says that. 🙂

^ Yes, just fall in line with it and all is right in the world. We roll over you because we love. *smile* My children would probably say the same of me actually. But there's nothing I wouldn't do for them. Or anyone I care about deeply.

LOL My heart stuttered Slicks. Stopped, went cold.

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^ Yes, just fall in line with it and all is right in the world. We roll over you because we love. *smile* My children would probably say the same of me actually. But there's nothing I wouldn't do for them. Or anyone I care about deeply.

Love Love Love this!!! So we had a great conversation.....it is getting closer.

Posted by Slicks
My mum is an Aries/Taurus cusper, we clash a lot, yet we're tight.

She is very controlling, what she says goes. I used to struggle with her demanding nature as a child but I've learned to let it slide, she behaves this way because she cares so much.

We can have have the most intense fall out yet within half and hour everything's back to normal.

She is very loyal and selfless, it's empowering to have someone of her character on your side.

I love what you said here. This says so much about strong character.

PD

BTW - Happy T-Day to you all here!! Hope it was a great day.

YES! *dancing the boogaloo round the bonfire* 🙂

You see, we have GREAT patience when we know what we want and need is at the end of it all. And we rarely lose.

My Thanksgiving was full of warmth and love, and a very nice ham dinner. 🙂 Tomorrow I take the wheel and make all sorts of good things. 🙂 How was yours?

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YES! *dancing the boogaloo round the bonfire* 🙂

You see, we have GREAT patience when we know what we want and need is at the end of it all. And we rarely lose.

My Thanksgiving was full of warmth and love, and a very nice ham dinner. 🙂 Tomorrow I take the wheel and make all sorts of good things. 🙂 How was yours?

So glad to hear your Thanksgiving was filled with warmth and love. 🙂 My Thanksgiving was very nice and relaxing.....of course over-eating was on the agenda .....now I am just doing homework. 😐 Almost done with the semester.

I hope you are right about knowing what is wanted and needed. Mr. Peru keeps reminds I just need to think more positive. He is amazing.

You see, it's an almost automatic reaction to someone. We do not just 'guess' at this, we know it. Really know it. We respond to someone with everything in us. Whether anyone else has a problem with it, it's immaterial. It blasts past all barriers. There is nothing that stands in the way of the matter. Not distance, not age, not anything. Everything within sings "MINE". This is inward, outwardly we will tell you what we are feeling but if anything is sensed to the contrary it's a fall back, a regrouping, strategy. NOT because we are cold, but because we give everything we are to someone.
However, be aware that you must reciprocate exactly what is in your mind, on your heart. And do not be afraid that we will run from it, we need feedback so we know whether or not we need a slap on the wrist or to keep going, both barrels loaded.
Never an intention to wound, EVER. And if you go blithely bumbling along being a living flame you'll notice others drawn to that same intensity.
Once the decision is made that you belong to us/me, or *I* belong to someone, that's IT. It's an automatic switch that shuts all others down and off. The vision tunnels down, narrows to one person. They get my full concentration. I am available to them whenever, however. Unless I am at work or asleep. To let them know that they can depend on me, for anything. That I will not vanish in a puff of smoke on the wind.
On the flip side of all this quality treatment WE EXPECT THE SAME BACK. And if that is not reciprocated with plain speech and good intention..i.e. if you hurt us repeatedly, or rebuff us over and over that Taurean wall will go up. You do not want that, ever. Taurean Wall and Aries Ice is not surmountable. Our Fire dims, the Earth seals everything away...for good. Warmth and every bit of love we have lavished upon someone disappears. Not that we do not continue to love, just that it is not worth the pain.
So, keep him on an even keel, bring everything you are to the table, and if you hurt, speak up. If you're unsure, SPEAK UP, whatever it's about. We want to ensure your ride on the wild side is happy, pleasurable and everything you have imagined and MORE. There is NO OTHER in your eyes from here on out, we demand fealty, complete trust and devotion. Because it will come back to you with all the heat in our Fire and all the nourishment the Earth provides. To cradle Water, keep it safe, for always. —

Yes! Be positive, we sure the hell are! Nothing stands in the way. 🙂 I'm glad your Thanksgiving included a loaded tummy. Glad the semester and workload is almost finished for you...and keep on being just as amazing to Mr. Peru as he is to you. 🙂

VB - All I can say is WOW!!! Wow and Wow!!!🙂 Thank you for this feedback. That is intense. I can only imagine what it is like when he declares love.

"And if you go blithely bumbling along being a living flame you'll notice others drawn to that same intensity." I have noticed this already .....people coming out from the woodworks, including the Scorpio who was playing games with me. However, now I only have my attention on this man. I cannot explain it but it is really powerful, not only the hold, but the energy. I cannot stop thinking about him, and all I want to do is be with him.

PD

YES!! Others are drawn to us like moths to flame, and it isn't anything we've DONE, we're just being ourselves really. There is no foul play afoot, no dastardly deeds done, it's simply what it is. We ARE intense. 🙂 🙂
When love is declared, it shines and burns for someone. Not one single doubt in our mind who all that energy is focused on. Keep that Pisces focused on him, revel in what he is, and rest assured he is mad for you already. YOU and you alone are what he seeks. That whatever you feel for him is compounded in his heart. Aye, he wants to be with you, in his mind he's already there. —

"Keep that Pisces focused on him, revel in what he is, and rest assured he is mad for you already. YOU and you alone are what he seeks. That whatever you feel for him is compounded in his heart. Aye, he wants to be with you, in his mind he's already there. —"

Thank you VB ————!!! You are the best!!! I will do my best to not live in fear. He is definately something pretty special.

Yayyyyyy! I am pulling for you lady! ——— Super secrety-secret Aries/Tau cusp insight. Mwahahahaaa. 😉

meh.. Aries/Tau cuspers are lame ducks....

So I was talking to him tonight ...granted he had a few to drink but he told me he "loves me and he wants to marry me". Oh dear what have we gotten ourselves into? Left me completeley speechless. I guess he has been telling all his friends about me.

Aries / Taurus Cuspers .......definately not lame ducks!!! 😉 Right VB?!?

PD

DEFINITELY not PD, and *pulling you off to one side and whispering* ..see that man there? TaurGuy..we share a birthday. LMAO He's one too. 😉

Whooooo Momma! Did I not call this one or did I not? Alcohol loosens the tongue alright. The man is serious.

And TaurGuy? We are flipping AMAZING. And well you know it. LOL "Lame ducks". *bullish snort*

And all before coffee, well. First sip of it. 😄

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And all before coffee, well. First sip of it. 😄

*Pours VB coffee* Morning darling!!! 😉 It will be interesting to hear from him today on this one. Ha......😉

Well off to work..........*Pours self coffee* 😉

PD

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And TaurGuy? We are flipping AMAZING. And well you know it.

Ohhh yeahhh!! sorry I forget some times, or maybe I just like hearing someone remind me... hehe


Mornin ladys!!

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And TaurGuy? We are flipping AMAZING. And well you know it.

Ohhh yeahhh!! sorry I forget some times, or maybe I just like hearing someone remind me... hehe


Mornin ladys!!

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Hey TaurGuy - Just in case you forgot from this morning .....You are an Aries / Taurus Cusp!! 😛

So my plane ticket is bought. Traveling to see what fireworks brew with this romance. I leave the 16th and return the 26th of next month. We will be together for Christmas. 😄

AWESOME!! 🙂 🙂 *waving at TaurGuy*

LOL Yes, men would forget to wipe their can if women weren't around to point out where the bog roll is. 😛

Pffff and who says taurus woman aren't classy...— lol

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LOL Yes, men would forget to wipe their can if women weren't around to point out where the bog roll is. 😛

ROFL ....hahahaha funny VB!!! I know just pointing out the "obvious" eh? hehehehehe 😉

LMAO We ARE classy, tyvm, did you not see the diamond earrings flash as I said that?

Indeed PD, inDEED. 😉

VB represented us cuspers to the core! I thought there might be a slight difference if you are more on the Aries side or Taurus but from what VB stated, coming from the Aries edge of venusian luv, it is soooooooooooo right!!

It's that fire mixed with earth that gives our passion substance. Wish you well Pisces Dream!

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So this guy his birthday is April 20....is that more Aries or Taurus? Interesting when I plug it in sometimes he is Aries and sometimes he is Taurus. Go figure.

PD

I agree VB rocks!!! 😉

I think he's more than likely more on the Aries side of things. 🙂

Awww, sankoo! 😄 And may I say you ladies rock as well. OKAY OKAY! TaurGuy TOO!