@CancerianGoddess
18 Years1,000+ PostsCancer
DO..
Be Honest, NO Matter WHAT!
Compiment him
Look Good For Him
Keep Up With Him in and out of the bedroom
Be spontanious "sexually and non-sexually"
DONT..
Go through his personal stuff
Lecture him
Ask his friends about his personal buisness
Go through his cell phone
wait, so you're supposed to pretend that you aren't the one pursuing him, yet you aren't supposed to lie. aren't you basically lying to him by making him believe he's the one doing the pursuing?
Just rip his pants off after a sexy strip tease
LOL Hey k-mart....
K-mart, i rather pinch you in private is all... *laugh*
haha, and this was learnt through personal experience? ... i think so ๐ ๐
Um... okay now how do I get one off my back? He's obbsessed and is already talking about marriage and kids and getting family toger. He calls me way too much and leaves a message for every call I for some reason wasn't able to answer. Always saying the same thing. Always telling me how he's a man of his word and will do anything for me. These is all nice and creepy in a sweet way. BUT more creepy being that I met him on Monday. And today, the day I am posting this, happens to be Wednesday! Third day! CREEEEEPY. And I know that Aries love to chase so it's hard to push him. And I want him to not want me. Which makes him want me more. And the don't that are up here, I don't see myself doing that stuff, that's hard, it's just not me. My best friend had this same problem with an Aries guy. Four years almost, and she's in love with her boyfriend of two years, friends for six years in totle and he still can't get over her. He knows she lover the one she's with now and plans to marry him (they're getting there) but he still wont quit. Says he'll wait for her forever. I remember how he wanted to do everything and anything for her and now I've come across a guy just like him. Should I throw myself at him? Should I do some shasing? The damn semester just started and on the very first day he tells me he fell in love at first sight. Ew! I mean, he's attractive, ... when he's not talking! He's actually very handsome. BUT this is far behond what I want.
How do I make it clear to him that it's not going to happen without hurting his feelings or making him want me moreโ
^Smells like bs but I'll bite. Why should you care about his feelings if you don't want him? Tell the creep to get lost.
Posted by k-mart
Posted by CancerianGoddess
K-mart, i rather pinch you in private is all... *laugh*
aww i see ๐ what about somewhere in publicโ
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Public on the first pinch?!? *rolls eyes* sorry, i am way more lady like than that. LOL
lol ohh gosh! Guys! I don't mean to make it sound like... idk what ever it sounds like to you guys. Here's the thing, this guy calls over 10 times a day and leaves a message each time I'm not able to answer. He wants to meet my family and I tell him to take a step back. He even talks about me being his wife and what a great daddy he'd be. I'm like sheesh stop! If he wants to get into my pants that's a different story and I would have been aware. Sure, it's great being wanted but he's soo.... strange. He told me about his ex and how she used him, personal things about his life, blah blah blah! I've already decided to pretend I have someone else in my life so nevermind.
@DetailsPlease, LMAO! You should change your name to B&@*hPlease!
@Dianasart, get your Daddy to answer the phone next time he calls. Or any guy, he'll know what to say.
"Should I throw myself at him? Should I do some shasing?"
HUH??!!!!!!!
Eris, you're a lousy sneak. ๐
Posted by k-mart
bass pro shop cg ?? lol.
Its like you read my mind, not only is it public, but theres so much water life, way hot! lol
hehe I meant chase. He has bought me a present. Turns out he's never even been kissed either. And guess what he bouht me: a ring! Damn! Today he talked about marriage and I said I'm not very interested in marriage. Or kids. That I would adopt if I ever wanted any. This is like all far behond from what he wants, which is more traditional. He told me he's a family guy and I said I'm not, just to let you know. I even told him that I'm not a virgin just because traditional guys in my culture prefer virgins. That's like a law! But he's so .... grrr. And he tells me so many personal things and I just feel so horrible on how to brake it off before he thinks something even started. Even though he's considering me as a girlfriend. He doesn't have allot in his life. And he's a totle doormatt that I feel guilty to let go because I feel like the next girl would just take advantage of him. It's just that easy. So I happen to be a softy and can't stand but to want to take care of people. And even though I make it SO clear to him that I'm not interested he just keeps coming stronger. Every time he says he misses me I just mumble. And when he asks if I miss him too I just say 'eh, a little maybe, not really' but does that click in his brain? NO! I told him I have someone else in my life and he says lets be friends. He says that he'd treat me soo well that I'd want him too. Yea, so he's nice, and that's great, but I need a real man to date, not pretend and lead this virgin boy on. I'll admit! Part of me does like the attention. And being that I stay away from relationships most often I've never actually recieved a gift from a guy before. So it feels nice. But sometimes when I think about how deeply strange he is I feel like he's going to try to trap me, kidnap me, rape me, and them murder me. That's just the inner spooky feeling I'm getting.....
Posted by k-mart
Posted by CancerianGoddess
Posted by k-mart
bass pro shop cg ?? lol.
Its like you read my mind, not only is it public, but theres so much water life, way hot! lol
lol good ๐ then maybe we'll go eat at that place on the 3 or 4 floor.
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Been to Springfield much? LOL
I Know! I Get lost in that store, especially when i see guns!!!!! yeeeeeeeeeehaw! lmao
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I am making these for all the signs, since so many ask. Fell free to add your own tips:
You should:
Make him believe that he is the one who is chasing you.
Have an outstanding personality to draw his attention, being cheerful and sexually attractive.
Stimulate him on both levels mentally and physically.
Try to stay self-sufficient and independent, even if you desperately need support.
Use your sense of humor; this will increase your chances to attract him, as Aries likes entertaining.
You shouldn't:
Pursue him, it can be the worst idea to win his heart.
Tell him what to do, Aries will follow his way and learn form his own mistakes.
Ever try to lie to Ram, this can result negatively on your relationships