Lakeslady330
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Bull communication
Posted by Apis
So, you re saying he calls you everyday, faithfully?
You don't take the initiative to call him at all because he "might be busy" and you dont want to interrupt him?
You're worried him wanting you to call him sometimes instead of him doing it all the time is a sign of him becoming lazy?
C'mon.. surely you can see the imbalance here.
I do call him. When he's working however I leave it mostly up to him to call since most times he's too busy to talk.
I see what you're saying & how you came to that conclusion. I have been making more of a point to call him. I just didn't understand the direction he's going since he basically doesn't text me anymore & now it appears to me that he wants to shift the calling to me. I guess I'm looking at it as a whole picture but I'll definitely make a point of calling him, which I have been doing. Thank you.
I mean,me personally, I will probably start off great on the calls/texts and then slack if you let me....I know Leo Venus is not having it though....
Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by Metatron
I mean,me personally, I will probably start off great on the calls/texts and then slack if you let me....I know Leo Venus is not having it though....
How does a Leo Venus react to texting/calls?
Like increase or decrease in frequency?click to expand
the one I was with just wasn't putting up with my shit, period....so I just had to pull my end in everything....I couldn't just float on very little, like I typically do in every relationship I've been in....she demanded her due...I think some bulls at least need that kind of strength....It signals self-worth to me...
Posted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by MetatronPosted by La_Dolce_Vita_ScorpioPosted by Metatron
I mean,me personally, I will probably start off great on the calls/texts and then slack if you let me....I know Leo Venus is not having it though....
How does a Leo Venus react to texting/calls?
Like increase or decrease in frequency?
the one I was with just wasn't putting up with my shit, period....so I just had to pull my end in everything....I couldn't just float on very little, like I typically do in every relationship I've been in....she demanded her due...I think some bulls at least need that kind of strength....It signals self-worth to me...
I'm Taurus moon and my previous relationship was with a cancer sun, God he wasn't into communication at all !
All I demanded in that relationship was communication, it was hard :/
Edit: this is a different cabcer guy with the Leo Venusclick to expand
it was a Cancer who had the Leo Veen for me....I can't say she was into communication either, just reciprocation in all facets reallly....we couldn't really have good convo....I swear she used the "I have a headache" excuse to get out of deep talks like a 50's housewife dodging sex....
I'm also a leo Venus so maybe that's what my issue is, needing the attention. But I have stepped up my calls as he's desired & have been making more calls to him no matter the time of day (I tend to overthink when would be appropriate to call as I truly don't want to be a pest)... He's usually at work & he usually can't even answer but it seems to help that he at least *sees* that I called him then he returns the call when he is able.
It just bothered me cuz he was clear that texting isn't for him so we basically don't text at all...then when he seemed to be wanting me to call him, I got a lil freaked but it seems to be that he just needs to know that I'm reaching out to him as well, which is perfectly fine with me.
It just bothered me cuz he was clear that texting isn't for him so we basically don't text at all...then when he seemed to be wanting me to call him, I got a lil freaked but it seems to be that he just needs to know that I'm reaching out to him as well, which is perfectly fine with me.
Have you met him in person yet?
What is the future, long term plan, aside from bickering over who is and who is not calling each other more or less often?
What is the future, long term plan, aside from bickering over who is and who is not calling each other more or less often?
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