Confusing taurus man !

ok here goes,

me and this taurus man ..share the same venus( gemini) .. had our first night back 3 months ago.

I just got out of 2.5 years relationship and apparently he was sorting his stuff out with his ex too ( i didn't know)

we shared the most beautiful night together.. had our first hug..and snuggled for hours ( taurus style )...and took us 4 hours to actually kiss !!!
it was the most comfortable hug in my life..not so much the kiss..>

I love food too ! ...and music ! we love music ! blablabla ...


we didn't finish " our" conversation as he had to finish work. What i want to know is, what does he want from me ! ?! ?! why can't he just leave me ALONE ! every time we work together.. he is always " AROUND " back and forth ! its not fun anymore ! I am loyal as hell and having this feeling for him is cheating to me ! and i hate this feeling of liking another guy while being deeply involved with the other. The other day i told him i wasn't going to be around much anymore as i will be going back to school and he said " You arn't going anywhere !!! "

last night he called me " munchkin...hun....and repeat my name several times ! " like seriously—


What is up with him !!! * sign *

Posted by taurusbag
ego. u partnered up. he must have liked u but u went cray coz you women do that.

... out of all the work people, i was the first girl he kissed after he broke up with his ex..which was...8 months ago. . I hate seeing his face because it reminds me of what we had that night. we were " playing around"..laughing ..flirting romantically and to me thats cheating even though my circumstances with my current man is not pretty...

i told him i have someone else but its complicated.. he has my number ? he never bothered to call so why make a big fuss when he sees me ! ...

that is what i don't understand.

so...saw him today again at work...same story..

his work requires him to walk around a lot..but why does he keep coming to where I am ! giving me that ..." sad" look of his trying to get eye contacts...

all day..... last few hours of work.. he said " i'm sad... very sad " ! and i was being a Mrs taurus cool self..with venus Gemini character.." ohhh? really what is it about ? " him " i don't want to talk about it..." then looked at me...with those...eyes.. !

kept acting sad...not being his NORMAL happy self ! while i was laughing entertaining myself...

apparently its not about work, ex-girlfriend or anything i guessed..and i said " what is it ??" and he looked at me deeply then said " i don't want to talk about it "

seriously what is UP with him ! ! and why am I here getting frustrated! god damn !!!

Why are taurus men so slowwwww .. he must be sad because he knows he's lost me ?!? and that night was so damn special and he let it go ?

he squeezed my arms this time ! !

Ask him point blank what the hell he wants with you next time he comes around. If he won't/can't answer, then that is your answer. Cut him off, it's just an ego boost to see if he can draw you in again.

Posted by Impulsv
Yes they do that a lot draw u in for an ego boost.

yay, all the mind game ! i need to tell him straight and CUT HIM LOOSE !!!

Update !!! He finally let go of his EGO cause I didn't play along with his game ! he finally left me alone ! ! happy feet ...well maybe not completely but getting there ! he's getting the message !

sounds like a game

This behavior of his is not typical of Taurus. What his complete chart?
We Taurus STRUGGLE to end a relation, as bad as it goes. The LAST option is to end.

Posted by FeelingShred
This behavior of his is not typical of Taurus. What his complete chart?
We Taurus STRUGGLE to end a relation, as bad as it goes. The LAST option is to end.

my previous account was sweetz1988. I don know his exact birth time. I know his Venus is in gemini. I am not sure If you are talking about his relation with his ex or me. I saw him again today and he had another one of his harem girl that he liked there too. Obviously I was not enjoying my work today because of that reason but I kept my cool! He sensed that though. When I was sitting next to her, he came over the desk and purposely threw something at me.. Like in a soft way! Infront of her! Is that to prove his point that he doesn't like her anymore? I don't know !!! He kept telling me he's tired blabla and kept calling my name! He knows I like music and lately when he has a Jane he will try to " sign" so I can hear !! He is bad at singing though !! I told him, you do have a greatttt voice !! 😉 sarcastically ! I tried my best to not care or talk to him but he still gives me his look of his !!! I am tired of this game ! What is going on!!!! Is he not asking me out because he knows I have someone and that is why he is sad— I am super confused right now.

He tried to sing ! He never done that before lol! I find it pretty funny actually

No one here knows the answer but its sounds like a game...you wanna keep playing?

That's the reason I don't like "HINTS" at all.
My approach to things: "I want you now. (Don't wait answer, just GRAB HER now). If she pushes you away, she is not the one you want. Then, I go use my precious time and my honorable presence somewhere else."
Life is simple. Don't turn it too complex folks.

It is a difficult situation . I got real hurt with this Taurus guy n that made me commit to my current man . However me and my current man are not in good shape because he has a lot going on. He is Scorpio with mercury in Scorpio and has a lot and alt of issues . High chance we may not even get to be together or officially together for another few years . This is just an estimate . I am a Taurus and yes I am loyal as hell and I have never once like someone else while loving someone so deeply . This Taurus man always has that ability . He drives me crazy . So he is giving me hints now is he?? Time goes by and I guess I will be " single" for real n see what happens then. I just wish we don't work together ! Uggghhhhhhh!!!!

Update: so i added him back on fb...sent him a quick message to apologise for deleting him...said he was too stubborn to add me back..n e how today he asked me why i wanna add him again..he said i deleted him blabla n i went psycho at him..so i said nothing..i took the request off ..anyway...he said " you werer still talking to me when u deleted me.." Me" well you talked to me first" ..him said nothing... Today hes being all cool again..eventhough he listens when i talk to other people, !!! It is all so confusing.. We have this...t"thing" going on between us... I really really like him and i hate seeing his face because that night was the best night and i know we could really give this a try !!!! BUT WE WORK TOGETHR?.... He changed a bit after he told me he was sad... Has he made a decision to stop or try to stop liking me because i have someone else now??... I am technically simgle..so what do i do 😢 i really wanna give this a shot...but im too scared..am i supposed to make a move—

Posted by FeelingShred
That's the reason I don't like "HINTS" at all.
My approach to things: "I want you now. (Don't wait answer, just GRAB HER now). If she pushes you away, she is not the one you want. Then, I go use my precious time and my honorable presence somewhere else."
Life is simple. Don't turn it too complex folks.

we work together and he will be my manager soon.. Maybe that is the reason? Or is he just playing me 😢