Datin a Taurus Man 101

Ok so in trying to understand a Taurus male that I'm "in the dark about" I wanted to get a 101 insight on what to expect and watch out for when dating a Taurus Man?

Posted by Scorpio83
Ok so in trying to understand a Taurus male that I'm "in the dark about" I wanted to get a 101 insight on what to expect and watch out for when dating a Taurus Man?

I've had my share with a couple of Taurus men. For 1 they will be VERY sweet to you in the beginning. Watch out though because they will turn out to be very confusing and play this tug-o-war game with your feelings. Some of them have the worst anger problems, if they ever show anger leave them be as they will cool off by themselves. Some of them can be VERY immature and act childish. But of course, it depends on the Taurus you meet. Unfortunately, for me I picked the bad apples.

Well I did post about my situation with this dude. But is it a common trait they just stop any contact at any random time? And when it happens especially in the beginning stages of dating are they testing you to see what you'll do next or they have someone else in mind?

Also, how would you handle there bouts of ignoring you?

Posted by Scorpio83
Well I did post about my situation with this dude. But is it a common trait they just stop any contact at any random time? And when it happens especially in the beginning stages of dating are they testing you to see what you'll do next or they have someone else in mind?

Also, how would you handle there bouts of ignoring you?

Yes they stop contacting you at random times. I couldn't tell you how many times they did that. There testing the waters to see how you act. It's always a huge test when dating them. I hate to say it, but they love having admirers & will flirt with other women even while dating someone. They like to have there cake & eat it too. At least from my experiences that's what happened. It drove me to the point where I got completely sick of him & had to call it quits. I hate mind games & I'm no ones toy. When they would ignore me I would text them after 3 days. But if they continue this months down the road then move on. They want to keep you around for their pleasure. They treat women they talked to or dated as a possession even if you no longer date them. If they truly like you they will contact you and you won't have to guess if they like you, you'll just know.

If a man tells me he is going through a ruff patch and he may need time to reflect or whatever and I text him and he does not respond, I will sit back and watch, but if he ignores me and has not said anything to that nature, his ass is done. We get warnings so early all that needs to be done he heed it. Taurus men are a trip, but you can find men of any sign doing that.

Didn't you make another thread with a diff title about the same thing/ guy?

With the same questions?

Posted by bkbella86
Didn't you make another thread with a diff title about the same thing/ guy?

Yea to have a take on that being part of my curiosity but in general terms and welcoming other people's views and experiences for a 101 overview. Why I can't make more than one topic entry?

Posted by Scorpio83

Posted by bkbella86
Didn't you make another thread with a diff title about the same thing/ guy?

Yea to have a take on that being part of my curiosity but in general terms and welcoming other people's views and experiences for a 101 overview. Why I can't make more than one topic entry?

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You can but I just see thru it . You don't want to know about Taurus men you want to know why your Taurus guy is iggin you , and no one can answer that.

Posted by IntriguedScorp
In my own experience, Bulls have a harem you have to get through before you are even considered exclusive. I've attracted three bulls in my life and each of them had the harem when I came on the scene. If you make it to the top of the herd, you have a chance--if you even want it by then. LOL

I think this is where a lot of the silence and missed days comes in--but that is only my experience.

As loving as our Bulls are ... they (I should say most) may, have a significant past of ex-lovers and acquaintances .... generally, most Taurean men will remain un-married for a long period of time, well into their 40's and 50's. Yes, these men are slow in their committments, and in emotional attachments to women ... TRUST, RELIABILITY, inclusive of financial and emotional SECURITY are their key concerns. In many circumstances, a Taurus man may emotionally concede ... to not marry, want or desire a family ... and / or children. He is the "True Warrior."

He KNOWS where is is going ....

The taurus dude I was getting to know is very similar. Age 52, never married, no kids. Very loner, very independent and succesful. After 3 months of talking after meeting on a dating site, he wasnt ready to meet me. Had to move on. Sad.

My taur brother, age 51...same thing...never married, no kids...succesful....few long term gf's....have no idea how this is fulfilling to either of these men.

"Bulls are very routine oriented so they tend to contact you at the same time all the time. Perhaps you are the Tuesday girl, you will be getting your contact on Tuesdays. Not kidding. Either accept it or don't. Taurus is a fixed sign. If you are his Tuesday girl, you are his Tuesday girl and there is nothing you can do about it. If you upset that applecart BEFORE the Bull is ready to move you up to the Tuesday, Thursday and possibly Saturday girl he will stampede over to his Monday girl and upgrade her to Monday and Tuesday. lol"


SMH....This is will happen to women that have no expectations or standards...Men only do what we allow.
Ive only dated one Taurus man, and I promise you he did not do this..They know real early who to play this
with and who won't be allowing it.

"My point is, if you are going to be with a Bull, you really have to consider that it will take a long time and you might not be the only female he is talking to. If you can work within that structure, really what's the problem?"

There is no problem if a woman decides to settle for that. Depends on a womans standards and expectations which is what I said earlier.

Posted by Striking
"Bulls are very routine oriented so they tend to contact you at the same time all the time. Perhaps you are the Tuesday girl, you will be getting your contact on Tuesdays. Not kidding. Either accept it or don't. Taurus is a fixed sign. If you are his Tuesday girl, you are his Tuesday girl and there is nothing you can do about it. If you upset that applecart BEFORE the Bull is ready to move you up to the Tuesday, Thursday and possibly Saturday girl he will stampede over to his Monday girl and upgrade her to Monday and Tuesday. lol"


SMH....This is will happen to women that have no expectations or standards...Men only do what we allow.
Ive only dated one Taurus man, and I promise you he did not do this..They know real early who to play this
with and who won't be allowing it.

I agree! Draw the boundaries. They are either in, or they are out! Learned this the hard way, but its true! If they are out, you didn't need them anyway.

"Draw the boundaries"

Right, We as women set the precedence of the relationship. If a man tells me I am interested in you and would like to get to know me better thats fine, but if he tells me I am also talking to other women and trying to get to know them better as well. He's out. And if he does not tell me this his actions will show me this as well and he's out. You will get what you settle for. We have so much power and we teach men how to treat us..Thats is all...

IS: No one said anything about setting any boundaries on a first date. Hell I may not even Likee him after the first date and vise versa. But what needs to be made clear is that two ppl are on the same page. Again I could care less about a man's fix nature if I decide to date a man past the first few dates we need to be on the same page. if he tells me that he is seeing someone or several ppl but nothing serious that's it for him. These men test to see what women will deal with that and except it. You can handle this how you like, but it can be handled different then what you are saying. If he is ready for something serious he won't be trying to juggle a group of women in the first place.

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Posted by IntriguedScorp
In my own experience, Bulls have a harem you have to get through before you are even considered exclusive. I've attracted three bulls in my life and each of them had the harem when I came on the scene. If you make it to the top of the herd, you have a chance--if you even want it by then. LOL

I think this is where a lot of the silence and missed days comes in--but that is only my experience.

As loving as our Bulls are ... they (I should say most) may, have a significant past of ex-lovers and acquaintances .... generally, most Taurean men will remain un-married for a long period of time, well into their 40's and 50's. Yes, these men are slow in their committments, and in emotional attachments to women ... TRUST, RELIABILITY, inclusive of financial and emotional SECURITY are their key concerns. In many circumstances, a Taurus man may emotionally concede ... to not marry, want or desire a family ... and / or children. He is the "True Warrior."

He KNOWS where is is going ....

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You read me like a fucking book. This horoscope stuff is amazing.

Posted by IntriguedScorp
I don't really see how someone can set boundaries on the first date or whatever, especially with taurus. When you start getting to know someone, are they just supposed to give up everything they've got going on in their lives because some woman has set certain 'boundaries' on how they should or should not behave? Boundaries are fine as the match gets more exclusive, but setting boundaries on date one or two or whatever is setting yourself up for failure with a Taurus dude. He will run far and wide UNTIL he decides he wants you then be as possessive as you want as long as you never tell him what to do! lol

Taurus sets their own boundaries. People, its a fixed sign. No wonder so many women on the internets have set up topics such as : How can I lead my Taurus into a relationship, etc.

The best you can do with a Taurus man is be a woman of interest, integrity, and not a flip-flopper. Have a life strategy and stick with it and include the Bull when you can. Because, god knows he's doing the same thing.

Thanks for this intelligent post IntriguedScorp, it's refreshing. And dates in general should be light-hearted, fun, spontaneous, instead of defined to some system. It shouldn't be about control. Let it free flowing.

Posted by Striking

SMH....This is will happen to women that have no expectations or standards...Men only do what we allow. ou
Ive only dated one Taurus man, and I promise you he did not do this..They know real early who to play this
with and who won't be allowing it.

"Expectations and standards" conveys a sense of harshness and idealistic rigidity, maybe you are inferring to conscientious or personal honor?

Sounds like you wish to tame. Doesn't work like that.

I started to respond, but then I realize this is coming from^^^^ a male. So I wont waste any more of my breath or time.

WOW. There is a lot of bull hear from everyone except from a real Taurus, which I am.
Some items written is true of a Taurus having a routine. We enjoy order, straight forwardness and routine.
IntriquedScorp's experience comes from these Taurus's playing the field. If you want to do this by all means.
I can tell from my experience that yes, we are slow in moving into a relationship. We Taurus's wear our feelings on our sleeves and open to the public. Yes, were can be possessive, especially when we develop strong feelings for someone. This can be very quick or very slow. Taurus's can develop feelings very quick, but we will not show it. We are taking our time to ensure that the person who were are with have the same feelings. We Taurus's get hurt very easily. We may not show it but we are a raging bull inside when we get hurt emotionally.
Some of IntriquedScorp's items are bull. Yes, we do call at a certain time due to our order nature/routine, not because we have other women in the background. Do not get me wrong, I know of Taurus's who do this. I know for myself, that I am a one woman man.
If you do run into this, it is up to you to accept this or move on. All depends on what you are looking for.
As for woman dating the Taurus, the quote of spending time at his house entertaining his friends is mostly out of character. Taurus's house is his home a place away from the outside world. They are most comfortable there. If you are invited to share a Taurus's home, know that you have entered into his most emotional inner circle.
We do shower our love ones/dates with dinners, romatic gestures, etc and of course can not forget sex. This is the emotional bond that Taurus's need.
Fighting. We do not enjoy fighting. Most women do enjoy this. An emotional out. Taurus's do not as imbalances our calm nature. But note that Taurus's can and do fight. We prefer not to as I stated. It disturbs our calm nature.

As for dating, by al means date a Taurus. If we get a connection with someone immediately, we are extremely alot of fun.